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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/26/2007 11:20:48 AM | You'd be better off to ask them if they have put anything away for their pension.
Next after the numbers of partners you then will have to ask how good they were.
how big they were... how tight and wet they were
how often you orgasmed together.
then you can go find a virgin in a Russian mail order catalogue | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/26/2007 11:23:52 AM | | The problem with having alot of partners is diseases. Most likely the person who slept around has some form of herpes and thats whtas wrong with sleeping around and why it is so unattractive. The probability that you would get something increases with the number of partners so one could surmise that if you sleep around alot you probably got something at some stage. | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/26/2007 12:56:53 PM | ^ probably ... summize .... hey stop speculating about a new relationship and get the facts. ^
If you have had contact with people you probably have at some point got some disease.
and some form of herpes ... is that cold soar on your lip or bump in your mouth.and has nothing to do with sex.... now get a grip on reality and stop spreading rumors. oh ... and read some medical books.
having generalizate attitudes is pretty unattractive too. oh ... and you still didn't answer the OP's question. Since you are one of those who is into numbers ... what is it?
The OP even laid out some suggestions like 8 in a year .... which really is far from sleeping around [more like just bad relationship choices] .... but hey .... let's hear your numbers. | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/26/2007 1:13:39 PM | speaking personally, I don't mind how many people a woman has slept with. from speaking to female friends, women seem to frown on other women having many sexual partners more than men frown on women for it.
I think it's been an issue for a couple of my girlfriends, in that it has made them feel insecure though | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/26/2007 1:18:53 PM | I never kiss & tell (or **** and brag)
i also never ask about that as well from a partner. some things are just nobodies business.
i ask "how many bf's or husbands" or "have you ever had an std?"... because that seems to matter more.
you aren't in a relationship to measure who slept with more ppl. | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 10/12/2007 2:57:55 PM | The number doesnt matter, actually the higher the number..the higher the turn on.
I like sexual women and cant expect a girl to be horny yet a virgin.. My ex had 65 before me and it turned me on knowing she really liked and knew how to screw. Her telling the truth on that allowed us to push the limits up. MFM action etc. The important thing ladies is before you tell the real number ( since you all lie about it) is to figure out if your guy can handle the truth, If he asks over dinner , you know he will freak and get jealous if he hears the real number, If a guy asks during a session, odds are he will be turned on, or at least not mind a real number. The one important thing is no matter how big he is....dont ever tell him you have had a 14 inch guy who is mega thick or anything like that. We all know size does matter but really dont want to know you essentially rode a horse. Also before admitting to being double teamed or anything like that, feel him out , some guys love it, most are way too insecure
Guys if your girl has had alot ...think of it this way..shes screwing you now so you must be better then the ones before ..
Ladies..one not once you pick a number,,no matter what, dont ever change it
Diceman: Is you girlfriend good in bed...how do you think she got that way?? | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 10/12/2007 3:41:40 PM | Reading all of this has me curious as to how many I have been with. So as I sit here with my paper and pen ....wait...before I go any farther I have a question. When I am adding up do I need to add the number of men I have had sex with or do I also add the number that I have had just orally as well. Hmmmm maybe I will do two lists .. Haha can you all tell I am bored tonight.
To answer the question for me I would say it all depends on the person/people involved. I would prefer not to tell and not know. If both parties want to know the number then both parties better be prepared for other questions and/or problems to arise. | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 10/12/2007 3:47:10 PM | | It dosent matter to me what the number is, unless its something rediculous like 4 or 5 partners in a month. But most of the time I'd rather be happier not knowing unless the relationship started to get serious. | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 10/12/2007 11:35:19 PM | Numbers don't concern me. In fact if a woman had a significant number of sex partners I could assume that she was a highly sexed person. Provided she still had that same high sex drive it's all the better for me! If her sex drive is on the wane we're not going to have a relationship anyway.
What I would be concerned about is the quality of her partners. There are those who could be in a room full of guys and have the uncanny ability to go home with the worst of the worst of them. From what I've seen there are many who don't grow out of that. Way too many.
I do not want to be involved with someone like that. That's a deal-breaker for me. | |
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Posted: 10/13/2007 3:32:16 PM | thats is a good one op but i have 2 say it dont matter as long as u aint got sumthin and are lieing about it and give it 2 someone besides men and women lie rule of thumb %3 for men x3 for women so ull never know men say high #'s 2 make them feel better and women say low # 2 make a guy want them so lets just say screw it
we are all promiscuous so ppl give in and spred what love u feel u need 2 | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 11/18/2007 7:00:30 AM | The number isn't what's important; Has this woman gotten pregnant due to her promiscuity? How many times? Has she ever caught anything? Those are the important questions. I know a couple girls who have had sex with...well, far more people than I, and I think no less of them for it. They're clean, have no unexpected children etc, so I don't see anything wrong with it.
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Posted: 11/18/2007 7:51:20 AM | That's an easy question for me. When a woman reaches the point that she has been with one billion men, I'm out of there. Anything short of that is fine with me. I do know that one woman I was with had over 2000 lovers. Oh, and before you ask, no, she never had any kind of VD, nothing more than a normal yeast infection in her whole life.
I really do not have a count on the number of women I have been with. I was married only once and for a long time so I'm sure if I did have a count, it would not be an extraordinarily high number. I do remember that it was over 23 by the time I was 17 so guessing, it's more than 50 but less than a thousand. Even when I was 17 and trying to get an accurate count it was a hard thing to do. I remember thinking that the list was complete and then another one would come to mind that I forgot about. Oh, and before you ask, I did for the first time have an HIV test done a few weeks ago just to be sure and I'm fine.
Honestly, I would be more likely to walk away from a woman that had only been with a couple of men then one that had "too many." I'm a man not a high school boy. | |
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 11/18/2007 1:35:01 PM | I dislike the "how many" question less than I dislike the "when's the last time" game. I just think the last time you had sex question is so easy for either party to get upset about especially when dating or in a relationship that's not exclusive. I also feel like both of those questions should be reserved for a future conversation - by that I just mean, not anywhere near your initial meeting with someone new. Of course it's just my opinion but I don't really see it as an ice-breaker!
A comment for a reply posted above:
Someone said they'd been with a woman who had 65+ partners and they were comfortable with that because, "at least I know that she knows how to screw".
LOL - seriously? I'd reconsider your logic if you think that a higher number of partners = much better sex. If she was really all that good sexually - why wouldn't at least a few of those 65 stick around awhile?
I disagree and think that regardless of the number of sexual partners one has had, it is something entirely different than quantity, to be amazing in bed.
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| What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 11/18/2007 4:37:22 PM | 5, Then it starts to get stupid.... male or female. Why so little as 5. If you give yourself away freely. You will neither respect the person you are with. Plus you do not respect yourself enough. Aids is a big killer, and it is number 6 on the deadly charts, makes you wonder about the other 5 std's.
Oral sex is sex, sorry mr. clinton | |
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