| Will be single mother at 19
Posted: 6/2/2008 9:24:14 PM | wow...
sounds like you're dating my ex husband.
i left him and have never been happier.
do what your heart tells you. don't sit around and hope he'll change because he's not going to.
my heart is with you, honey. | |
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| Will be single mother at 19
Posted: 6/2/2008 11:49:54 PM | Ah, you'll be fine! He's not worth your time. He cheated on you while you were pregnant with his child. It would be foolish to take him back again. You'll be better off raising the kiddo by yourself than having the baby around someone who obviously has no morals. Good luck! | |
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| Will be single mother at 19
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:01:39 AM | I'm so sorry you feel you are doing this alone. Do you not have family you can turn to to help you through this emotional turmoil?
Although I'm older, I'm in the same boat. Was with the father, became pergnant (we both agreed to have a child), then with out talking to me about anything he left us. I am lucky to have a great family behind me who is helping me out. The father has taken little intrest in the both of us in over 4 months, but it's law in Ontario for him to pay child support. Even if he wants nothing to do with baby or you, it's law to pay up.
So my suggestion is make sure you know where he is living to get child support from him when baby is born. Make sure you get an education so you can support both of you, stay strong...you aren't alone in this. And of course take care of yourself and eat well and rest when you feel you need to, take your vitamins, and take care of baby.
Hope this helps. | |
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| Will be single mother at 19
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:22:10 PM | ur not alone in this one there are alot of dead beat dads out there. u need 2 have a serious talk with him and figure out what he wants maybe give him some time 2 figure it out 4 himself. if he decides he doesnt want u r the baby then its not the end of the world. i had my son when i was 19 and stayed with his dead beat dad 4 a year cause i was afreaid 2 do it alone but i went 2 torture until i left
i was really scared that i couldnt cope, but ive never been happier. i now have my own house a car i went back 2 college and have the career iv always wanted
u can do this just believe in urself
best wishes
magsxx | |
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