| |
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/6/2008 5:53:08 PM | Stereo typing... Here we go again.
I happen to like gaming, I do not live in anybody's basement, and I can't meet anybody in 'real life' that I will date because they don't meet my standards. I happen to like internet sites like POF because instead of wasting your hard earned money on drinks and slobs, you can weed through people that don't have common interests, and not waste your time and resources. If I die single, I'll be alright, but to find that special someone sure would be nice. There's a difference between surviving and living after all...
- Nicole | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:00:32 PM | Mr.P...
It is not you. It is the Lady's here in Calif. Stuck up, got there heads where the sun don't shine! and they all think they are hot shit. Ha! hA! 99% of them are not anything at all. Don't waste your time trying to put on a show for the lady's.. Just one big waste of time. And you know what is so sad about it. The dum brod will fall for some AH, and then get the shaft... I just get a big kick that them now. Who cares, just be cool and be happy and live your life... And maybe you will meet some good woman some day. But don't count on it from here!!!! And one more thing.. DON"T pay for any dating site. They are all over for free. Just need to look...
Be well.
Mr.S | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:48:44 PM | oh, wait- My good friend above me, you are looking for a FWB/Intimate Encounter with a woman between 24 and 50......and you are HOW OLD???
And you don't pay- my, my, what a catch you must be!! I'm sure I'm too old and ugly for you [thank goodness!]
 | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:57:41 PM | | WHo, me? Hostile? Why would you even say such a thing? I am all sweetness and light. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:33:00 PM | Hostility can be such a broad category,
I'm starting to get pretty miffed because I have yet to even get a response after I've typed some long "hi, how ya doing? I think we'd be a great match because of... and when can we get together?" emails. The least these guys could do is say "thanks but no thanks!" To not respond is all is just rude! I know they at least looked at my profile because they viewed me. Screw it, maybe all the good ones are taken and I just need to consider dating a woman or being single for the rest of my life. Blah.
- Nicole | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/22/2008 10:25:37 AM | I understand your point, a lot of women like the 'bad boy they can train''.Theyre the ones that will actually get a real bad boy, find they cant train them, then are shocked the guy is a BAD BOY and wont put up with their games...I say 'carefull what you wish for, you may just get it'... dont get me wrong, ive known plenty of bad boys, real ones, not the 'wanna be gangstas' trying to impress these women...( not so bad i scare wanna bes off pretty quickly..) people should just be themselfs, you cant let anyone in if your too busy being someone else.besides, i may not like the fake persona,but youll never know if your getting dumped because of you, or the jerk you created..
I like a strong guy with an edge, but not a bully. dont want a man to kiss my butt 24/7, that get really old really fast...i want a guy thats strong when he needs to be, but secure enough to let the woman be strong when hes not.it should go back and forth, guys and girls should be each others strength when the other is weak, and vise versa..just because i can take care of myself doesnt mean i always want to,some special attention now and again would be a nice thing, i think..a guy that knows what he wants, knows what he doesnt want, doesnt need to feed his ego with a 'barbie doll' he cant afford..a guy that isnt afraid of being friends..( that doesnt mean no sex guys!! just means take your time.shes looking at you for more than just a dinner)
wow, ok, ive babbled long enough, well, hopefully that made sense...
its not that people are bitter, some of us get tired of the same old games being tried on us and we just stop you in your tracks..thats all...being real gets all the big points in my book | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/23/2008 11:17:02 AM |
Posted By: blue70 on 7/6/2008 10  44 PM Subject: Why so hostile in SoCal Message: oh, wait- My good friend above me, you are looking for a FWB/Intimate Encounter with a woman between 24 and 50......and you are HOW OLD??? And you don't pay- my, my, what a catch you must be!! I'm sure I'm too old and ugly for you [thank goodness!]
Well...Miss blue70 in Southern Orange County,
The power that women (even anonymous gals in cyber-space) wield over men never ceases to amaze me. It would appear Miss blue70, that after you called out the Mystery Man above you, your comments may have 'inspired' him to change his profile! Take a bow :-)
One more thing...you owe me a box of wet-wipes (to clean off my monitor) since I sprayed coffee all over the place, while reading those hilarious Stella Awards on your profile. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/24/2008 1:13:46 PM | | Because Southern California women can, sometimes, be a bit snotty and stuck up. Not all, but some are. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/24/2008 1:47:54 PM |
Because Southern California women can, sometimes, be a bit snotty and stuck up. Not all, but some are.
Naw, those are the ones from out of state.  | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/24/2008 2:01:19 PM | I live in Northern California (SF Bay Area) and one of the things that struck me the most when I was down in Southern California recently was how much more friendly people were in general everywhere I went. There is not the same kind of human warmth here in my area. It was pretty glaring to me.
I was born in So Cal and left when I was 7. Of course my memories are limited to that short amount of time, but my recent experience in Orange County was delightful. Especially in the coastal towns. I would move back there in a second.
I didn't experience any hostility whatsoever, however I am sure hostility can be found anywhere if you're really looking for it. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/24/2008 2:14:46 PM | Mr.S said:
It is the Lady's here in Calif. Stuck up, got there heads where the sun don't shine! and they all think they are hot shit. Ha! hA! 99% of them are not anything at all. Don't waste your time trying to put on a show for the lady's.. Just one big waste of time.
...A statement from an obviously unworthy man!
And you know what is so sad about it. The dum brod will fall for some AH, and then get the shaft... I just get a big kick that them now.
No, it is more sad when someone accuses someone else of being dumb when they can't even spell "dumb broad".
Who cares, just be cool and be happy and live your life... And maybe you will meet some good woman some day. But don't count on it from here!!!!
Sounds like a happy one to me! Why would anyone even be on this site with such a negative attitude? Oh yeah, because it's free - cheapskate! | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/24/2008 2:24:09 PM |
Sounds like a happy one to me! Why would anyone even be on this site with such a negative attitude? Oh yeah, because it's free - cheapskate!
Christy2luv is officially my new secret crush 
I live in Northern California (SF Bay Area) and one of the things that struck me the most when I was down in Southern California recently was how much more friendly people were in general everywhere I went.
Well, when you don't know if someone is packing heat... it pays to be friendly. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/25/2008 12:34:41 AM |
I live in Northern California (SF Bay Area) and one of the things that struck me the most when I was down in Southern California recently was how much more friendly people were in general everywhere I went.
*boggle* You're kidding. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/25/2008 12:43:31 AM |
I live in Northern California (SF Bay Area) and one of the things that struck me the most when I was down in Southern California recently was how much more friendly people were in general everywhere I went.
That's exactly how I felt when I moved to Texas! I am convinced that Texans are the absolute nicest, most friendly, caring human beings in all 11 states I've ever visited!  | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/25/2008 1:51:09 AM | That's exactly how I felt when I moved to Texas! I am convinced that Texans are the absolute nicest, most friendly, caring human beings in all 11 states I've ever visited!
So how does that work out with their high execution rate?
*boggle* You're kidding.
I can see it...if you exclude Orange County. | |
|
| |
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/26/2008 1:37:20 AM |
That's exactly how I felt when I moved to Texas! I am convinced that Texans are the absolute nicest, most friendly, caring human beings in all 11 states I've ever visited! So how does that work out with their high execution rate?
Silly question Eeek! Wouldn't you be nicer if you feared execution?  | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/26/2008 1:49:14 AM |
Silly question Eeek! Wouldn't you be nicer if you feared execution?
he would only get craftier. | |
|
| |
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/26/2008 4:11:37 PM |
I'm starting to get pretty miffed because I have yet to even get a response after I've typed some long "hi, how ya doing? I think we'd be a great match because of... and when can we get together?" emails. The least these guys could do is say "thanks but no thanks!" To not respond is all is just rude! I know they at least looked at my profile because they viewed me...
The feedback that I'd give you is that I personally wouldn't want to date someone who has the kind of power a police officer possesses. (Sorry, but that's just the way it is.) In the unlikely event that you became my ex-girlfriend I'd worry that you might abuse your power to make my life miserable. The average person (without your power) already has the ability to make your life difficult.
I was in a bar once and a rather attractive woman was chatting me up. I couldn't believe that she didn't have anyone already... it was as if none of the other guys were interested in her. She suggested we go someplace and have some fun... but then mentioned that her husband is jealous and by the way, he's a cop and he has this nasty habit of parking his cruiser across the way to spy on her and would it be okay if we ducked out the *other* door to minimize the chance of...
Er, no. There are some games that are just too risky to play. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/26/2008 5:36:50 PM |
*boggle* You're kidding.
Sometimes it isn't the people. It's the approach. | |
|
| Why so hostile in SoCal
Posted: 7/29/2008 2:45:08 AM | I had once asked a so called expert this on a radio program for topics about relationships. and I even had wanted to know the answer i had been perplexed by this and I could not understand why I could see people getting together and enjoying life while others seem lonely and lost. I was actually hurting and had not realized it had gotten to me that I was not a real hustler .
A woman is entertained by a pronounced fast talker hustler and whaat is known as a Aggressive she thinks that guys are up all the time and out there looking for a kill.
and also another thig is a woman decides when she is ready to submit not you a normal girl is only going to submit when she is good and healthy it is the law of nature.
Men are poliamists women are monogomists and it is Big"o"me to let you in on that secret.
there are group therapy classes out there that you can go to and do Work on an issue you have everybody has a current Issue i had to go as part of a mainstream answer to drinking.
the funniest thing I ever saw was that the therapist was bamboozeled by a fast talker and he robbed her of all the money she had earned in these sessions and left her flat Ha Ha Ha | |
|
Home
login 
