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 anjelic

Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 26
Feeling bad
Posted: 6/29/2009 1:30:22 PM
No scary stalker guy thinks he is one.
We get one side of the story here and you still sound a bit fast.
Reeks of stalker, clingy, let me breathe.

She said you scared her. Hint
 rhodax

Joined: 6/11/2009
Msg: 27
Feeling bad
Posted: 6/29/2009 1:38:11 PM


I wonder if the original OP ever replies to threads that
are THREE years old?


I did it again!

PoF should have the start date in the index page. All I see is "Today" on the last post and forget to check the first post date.

Well, I don't need to be told 20 times. 19 is sufficient.
 Fleur_de_Lis

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 28
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Feeling bad
Posted: 6/29/2009 4:21:13 PM
It's okay, Rhodax, you're not the one who went dumpster diving

 Earth Mom

Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 29
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Feeling bad
Posted: 6/29/2009 5:01:31 PM
I had a lovely date with a great gentlemen. We had talked quite a bit on the phone and I felt comfortable enough to invite him over for coffee. We had a great time and decided that we would make a dinner date for the next Saturday night. We did talk about some of our POF experiences. He had really liked a woman and she ended their friendship due to political differences. They both had known these differences, but she must have decided to stop seeing him very unexpectedly. His feeling had gotten hurt.
The day before our planned dinner date (we had even decided where we were going,) he called me to cancel and was very, very apologetic. He told me that the woman he had talked about missed him and wanted to make a go of their relationship. I told him that I appreciated his honesty and straightforwardness. I also wished him well.
Now, whose feelings are hurt? Luckily, I had not spent much time developing that relationship and I do feel that some real potential was there. I was telling one of my female friends about it and she asked me "If it did not work out for him and he called you, would you go out with him?" I had to say no and she agreed with my feelings. Nothing like being on the second string....I refuse to be!
 Landra2

Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 30
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Feeling bad
Posted: 6/29/2009 5:03:02 PM

I wonder if the original OP ever replies to threads that
are THREE years old?
That's what the 'thread search' function does! Revives dead topics and situations.
 Earth Mom

Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 31
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Ouch, Landra
Posted: 6/29/2009 5:08:50 PM
How's POF working o=for you?
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/29/2009 5:08:56 PM
I think you just moved to fast; many guys do it at all ages; its hard not to do.

I think that you need to give yourself a break; I think you way overdid it; you should feel the vibes and hug her and then move on from there. Some women can feel overwhelming men and you were overwhelming.

Have fun on your dates; dont look for the magical love affair; enjoy someones company and let it happen naturally; we live and learn. move on and it will be fine.
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