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bobby7
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Joined: 3/22/2006
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/20/2007 12:55:52 PM | "It happened to me often when i was a young child with a well developed body."
Isn't it sad what time can deal us?? On the bright side:You don't have
to worry about it now ...If, in fact you ever did...
I will talk to anyone, no matter the age, provided they are 1. Intelligent 2. Pleasant 3. Interesting..
Don't expect mail!
BTW...If it is so offensive to receive mail from over 45 men.. Thread name: "OVER 45"!!
What is she doing here, and why has she not restricted them..Huh?? Huh?? | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/21/2007 11:18:56 AM | | unorthadoxchick ==same reason why I get messages from 20 yr olds? But then again Im not stupid as I know there is something they want. you said try to talk to you... whats wrong in talking? | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/21/2007 11:39:26 AM | If they only wish to have a pleasent conversation then why not ? If it goes beyond what you are comfortable with that is what the block button is for.
If it truly bothers you then you can restrict your mail. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/22/2007 6:38:31 AM | Hi there,
I couldn't help notice your post and just had a laugh to myself!! I am a 49 year old woman and my ENTIRE life I have had men 15 years and older hitting on me.... since I was 17 years old. I totally understand how you feel, pay them no mind, I don't care what they say, they are just interested in one thing.
If there were truly mature and seeking an adult relationship, they would be looking for someone in thier age range, and acting like adults. Just so you know, I know have the mid 60 year olds hitting on me!!!! NO THANKS!!!
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/22/2007 9:07:06 AM | These are the men with underlying perverted tendencies toward little girls. They can't grow up and won't grow up. Most of these men think they are gods gift to women and feel they deserve young, ambitious horny young females in their lives. I personally think it is disgusting.....even with older women and younger men.
If the men are not listening to you by the fact you put up your age limit in the profile, then these men are not worth your time at all......EVER. They are inconsiderate and selfish. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/22/2007 12:24:51 PM | you are way over generalizing again. Just the other day I mailed a young lady and asked her to clarify something that she had said in her profile under interest.
No it had nothing to do with sex. She was into native American crafts and i am into paleotechnology. Which for the uninitiated is primitive survival skills.
So not all older men are perverts when they try to talk to younger women.
The generalization's rarely fit. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/22/2007 12:27:33 PM | | What interests me are the older men, 38+ (and even in their lates 40s and 50s), who are looking for younger women because these guys want to have kids 'someday'...Guess they haven't been keeping up on the news...men's fertility goes wonky after 35, just as women's does...New studies say that many of the miscarriages and birth defects can be caused by degredation in men's sperm, as much as in a women's eggs. So it appears that men also have a biological clock to worry about. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/22/2007 1:09:54 PM |
So it appears that men also have a biological clock to worry about.
Soooooo true! It wasn't scientific common knowledge until recently.
It's also a fact that men start balding; it becomes harder and harder for them to get rid of the middrift bulge (many women are already in the habits which contain the bulge due to their ill conceived images of trying to hold onto their men - which is now working to the older female advantage) and the younger women simply aren't attracted to what the older man has to offer anymore.
It use to be money/security, etc. With the onset of women into the work force and making decent salaries, the older men/younger women fantasy isn't being realized and it's frustrating for the male mindset. Think about what they grew up believing... hearing... and, now to have that theory dashed.
Heck, I use to wish guys in their 50s would contact me. I get the 35-48 age group almost exclusively. Butttttttttt..... I'm getting use to it...and, enjoying it now.  | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/22/2007 1:28:10 PM | | redheadgidget...very true...and there are some older women, who work, make a good salary, and do it all for themself, who would rather have a guy who's a bit younger and doesn't have any issues below the belt either, or have to use viagra to help the situation...Personally, I don't mind bald men; Yul Brynner and Sean Connery look sexier without hair, IMO, and I don't mind a bit of a love handle...but humongous beer bellies and erectile dysfunction I can do without...along with the superior (and ignorant, arrogant) attitude that we need men to pay for us. Give me a regular real man who's intelligent, responsible, considerate, enjoys his family, gives common courtesy to all - including strangers, has a sense of humor, and isn't selfish - especially in the bedroom, and what's lacking? Nothing I can see ;) | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/23/2007 3:11:47 AM | Yah..OP, who needs someone who can't dance the funky chicken??..or who doesn't know who Lana Lane was?..I tell you, young people today!!..what a bunch of Gen Y whiners. keep em', give me a woman with a brain, warm kisses, and some experience any day! | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/23/2007 4:51:50 AM | Younger men hitting up on younger women??? HMMM, must be a brand NEW dilemma in this world huh? of course NOT!
I think it's because they want too, no specific needs, except maybe that sexual one, and that can be handily taken care of (pun could have been intended!).
carbizmgr: I'm your age...and don't know who Lana Lane is. I do know who Eminem is though, maybe I should be hitting up on the 20-30 yr. olds! 
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/23/2007 8:25:55 AM | Well tell me something then. In the vast experience of you and your many close friends, was there a time when you conversed with a younger male with no other motive then to talk ?
At this same time there is a thread devoted to older women and younger men by the way. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/24/2007 9:05:38 AM | Bobby7 hit a raw nerve did we?
It dosent take a lot of intelligence to work out what shes doing here in the over 45s does it.
To tell you over 45 perverts to fu ck off thinking your gods gift .
Pleasant and interesting sorry to inform you but thats why your mail box is empty and mine is full. Just common sense really.
I have a little understanding of why you cant relate to a grown up woman, (Huh?? Huh??) thats kindy conversation so heres to you little boy | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/24/2007 12:52:01 PM | | I can't speak for other men my age, but I think they should grow up! Other than trying to making themselves look good by dating a young woman I see no point in it. Really, when you get down to basics, what would they have in common? The music is totally different. The life stories are different. Even the little jokes made when something is on the radio or TV would be lost to a younger person. Seven or eight years is about the max that I've found, where you might click. Other than that, it's all vanity. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/24/2007 12:54:48 PM | What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to younger women
Most likely it is the same as 40+ women trying to talk to younger men.
If it bothers you so much put a age restriction on your email............ Oh thats right that has been suggested before and you still haven't done it
hhmmmmmmmmmmmm
wonder why that is ? | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/25/2007 9:02:09 AM | | beatandgo, strange name. In your case you actually look young and are most likeley heaps of fun. You could have a good chance with a woman in her late 30s or 40s and your still a cradle snatcher but looks dont last and you may be in danger of a broken heart. You know the type were talking about here. Guys who would be lucky to find a woman their own age and go for girls there kids age. guys who think theyre gods gift and theyre ugly with a capital F | |
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