| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/25/2007 10:41:37 AM | The daughter of a friend of mine who is 25 and goes to university and works in a bar to make extra $ says that the guys that repulse her the most are the 45+ year olds ALWAYS hitting on her... she is quite attractive and has a steady boyfriend, she says they don't even care!!! she feels like throwing food on them.... but needless to say can't.
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/25/2007 1:23:09 PM | Wow! I am surprised, reading all of the answers. Guys who date younger women are cradle robbers and pervs?
My wife was 17 years younger than me and we had the best marriage I can ever, or probably will ever, imagine. We did everyting together and I never sensed age as something that came up or caused any difficulty.
I don't "chase" younger girls, nor do I turn my head away. I don't have to "grow up" to speak and know "older" girls.
My point is that I am one person who doesn't think or believe I must be with someone "my own age". That sounds ridiculous. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/26/2007 9:18:47 AM | | i agree it is a double standard drg but really , who wouldn't want to date someone much younger.Its not very realistic for someone looking for a real relationship. Not my thing ,maturity and life experience bring a great deal to converstaion and ideals as we get older. But as one poster mentioned ,it may be partially due to having talk/email or activity or partner or friends on ones profile.Young people whether male or female are fun to talk to and be around. It makes one feel young again,even if only fleeting,to be around the energy and physical beauty of younger women. When it deals with things other than dating its normal to interact with friends of all ages. Variety is the spice of life i've always been told. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/27/2007 7:17:33 PM | This is really funny.
Normally, the guys my age don't want much to do with me. I get the feeling they are looking for younger, slimmer, tighter... I had one friend tell me his reason for going after younger women was because they had less baggage.
Thanks. Everyone over the age of 2 has baggage.
thing is, the young guys will ping me all the time. I had one tell me 'he wanted a woman.' Most of the time however, the younger guya will ask me about relationship advice. is this normal or not. (I'm talking 18 - 22) I should start an advice column.
But I'm not going to mention the 20 year old with the web cam...
Maybe this is why I had an 82 year old man email me once and ask if "I was ready for him!"
Yeah right baby. I'm gonna hide your heart pills and make you chase me around the room... | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/29/2007 4:29:31 AM | | Look I am one of those men you are talking about. I am seperated, athletic and very good company. Why should U feel that because U are young that U have the monopoly on fun. I recently spent sometime with a young women and she was pleasantly suprised that what I lacked in years was more than adequetly repayed in experience. Older men who do not want a long term relationship or marriage are the ideal sex partner for a young women, as they can explore a womens sexuality whilst allowing themselves to feel a little younger by keeping alive the flame of hope. If you are on this site what have U deided to look for? Keep an open mind and always discount nothing, someday you'll wake up ALONE be in your 40's. Maybe U should just look for whoever makes U happy and not what age they are? Good Look. Oh I never hit your site? | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/29/2007 11:39:46 AM | Oh i see how some of you older women are it's all coming clear now.I guess it's a do as i say not as i do kinda thing huh! Lets see here older women can date younger men and lets face it most just want sex and they laugh about it to there girlfriends it's a big joke to them when i think it's really to boost some womens ego's because things are starting to sag some and it's like a trophy to them to snag a youngen.Here's a thought older women who date younger men are called cougars and they are proad of it.But you don't see a older man dating younger women called lions or tigers or bears oh my.And did you ever stop to think that some younger women actually like to date older men because of the patience and gentle touch of a more experienced hand and lover.I seen it said on here that men are trying to save whatever they can of there youth.Well what do you think women are doing same damn thing! | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/29/2007 1:31:49 PM | | I dont even search for anyone under 35-- I encounter some nice young ladies but frankly as far as the ways of the world go, most are clueless and I'm not interested in a young body with an empty head-- sorry if I offend any of you young ladies, but when you hit 35 plus you will realize what I am saying is for the most part true-- | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/30/2007 3:20:42 PM | | Woman in there 40's lose interest in sex I am 45 and could go for it every day. my wife on the other hand does not have the time, or is tired or has to take care of the kids we think woman that are younger have a greater desire for sex. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/30/2007 3:23:11 PM | | Well maybe if you wasn't out trying to cheat on your wife you could improve things on the homefront. As far as women in their 40s being less interested in sex you have got to be kidding. That has not been my finding at all. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/31/2007 8:50:12 AM | When i was in my twenties i could still hear dads voice saying theyll do and say anything to get it and its just like shaking hands to a man. And if anyone dare touch you there you come tell me straight away. It dosent change the day you hit 18 its a long process of dammage to undo.
Now im 47 and never felt so comfortable with my sexuality. I no longer feel ashamed of my libido and as far as women in their forties not being into it. As drg1301 said YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!!  | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/31/2007 9:35:20 AM | | Well I was married to a lady 17 yrs younger for 7 yrs, all was fine untill I hit 49, then because she wanted kids, I did not, we went our separate ways. now I am seeking someone closer to my age.....I was tried of being the lucky one when some one comes up too us as a couple. After a while you start to believe them and feel you really have nother to offer as to why she would want you. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/31/2007 12:28:20 PM |
just put the age range on your profile...most people do respect that
That plus age restrictions have already been suggested numerous times. If she did that however then she would have little to be able to draw attention to her. That is really all this thread has amounted to. Merely a grab at attention without any real thoughts on actually taking anyones advice. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 1/31/2007 5:23:25 PM | My two cents.
First, I am 47, so I very much have a dog in this fight. Women 21-31 never stopped being gorgeous to me. 31-41 and 41-51 women are still beatiful but in a different way. Ditto guys. I have pictures of myself I can post later to make my point. I liked women in the 21-31 age range when I was that age and never stopped liking them. If that makes me a pervert . . . ouch, but ok.
There is also the ugly subject of kids. If and a woman in her forties connect, court, get beyond a ring and a date to that point in a marriage where she walks in, puts in her tampon, checks her teeth and walks out while I shave . . . our chances of having our own kids along with those that came with our failed former marriages . . . is small. All sorts of things start changing past forty that are nature's way of saying, "ok, time to change the game." So if I am to think about a second family I need help from a younger, healthier woman whose youth can perhaps balance my old weenie with it's well worn testicles and sperm. Ok, everybody say, "eeewww!" Personally, I'm on the fence about round two of kids. So, I dunno how strong my hunger for young women really is. But child birth does factor into the picture for me.
Plus . . . I'll end this way. I'll go back to this. Women in that 21-31 age group are just . . HOT!   It's all kind of wrong in the way that binging on expensive chocolate is wrong. I still am there--y'all are gorgeous at that age. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 2/1/2007 6:48:45 PM | In todays day and age lots of our culture and society crosses the generations and age gaps on just about every issue such as; music, events, education, jobs, etc etc. Every time I go to any concert, or to see a band in alocal club the audience is totally age irrelevant. I have dated younger women, been married to a woman my age and have female freinds in 20's 30's 40's 50's 60's and my mom is 81. I prefer younger women mostly because they are less bitter, angry and still see life as an adventure and are open to new beginnings and opportunities. Their intellect is so amazing and sharp. Many woman around my age have put up "the wall" and are more afraid to live than to die Of all the women in the age ranges I listed many of them talk about the woes of romance and are still looking for a guy. It amazes me how many late teens and 20's who say its so hard to find someone. Hell i thought that age group was always hooking up all over the place So that too crosses the generations. Its much more acceptable in todays world for youngers to date olders. Age is just a number. I think its funny how I get so many emails from women in late 50's. Everyone wants someone younger. Happiness doenst require any special number match. Good Luck to all looking for the one.
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 2/1/2007 6:50:09 PM | In todays day and age lots of our culture and society crosses the generations and age gaps on just about every issue such as; music, events, education, jobs, etc etc. Every time I go to any concert, or to see a band in alocal club the audience is totally age irrelevant. I have dated younger women, been married to a woman my age and have female freinds in 20's 30's 40's 50's 60's and my mom is 81. I prefer younger women mostly because they are less bitter, angry and still see life as an adventure and are open to new beginnings and opportunities. Their intellect is so amazing and sharp. Many woman around my age have put up "the wall" and are more afraid to live than to die Of all the women in the age ranges I listed many of them talk about the woes of romance and are still looking for a guy. It amazes me how many late teens and 20's who say its so hard to find someone. Hell i thought that age group was hooking up all over the place So that too crosses the generations. Its much more acceptable in todays world for youngers to date olders. Age is just a number. I think its funny how I get so many emails from women in late 50's. Everyone wants someone younger. Happiness doenst require any special number match. Good Luck to all looking for the one.
Sincerely
Mark | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 2/1/2007 7:24:05 PM | Maybe they figure the 25 yr old women are lonely because all the 25 yr old guys are talking to the 40+ women 
When I first came on this site in 2005 I received more emails from young guys than I ever did from ones my age. | |
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| What is it about men 40+ trying to talk to young women
Posted: 2/1/2007 10:52:34 PM | Just looked at your profile Unorthadox and YOU SAY YOURSELF the age range you are looking for is 24 - 47! THAT IS WHY you are getting so man hits from 40 year old men.
Although I struggle to think what a middle-aged man would have in common with a 24 year old female. | |
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