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 Gorshkov

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 26
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:31:27 PM

I'm truely not a wu$$. Also, i think she is correct to stand up for her rights in public (and people are ruder than ever), but I suspect it will be me who actually will have to do the "standing." Anyway, I would like to be the one to pick the hill I die on. Know what I mean? Any suggestions? Thanks.

There's a saying - "discretion is the better part of valour", and there's a reason for it.

You're better off getting a new "piece of a.." than you are a new "piece"
 hapeenurse

Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 27
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:31:29 PM
I would have a huge problem with it and I agree you need to have a heart to heart and tell her that although yes people are rude and frustrating she could get herself in some serious trouble these days for being so mouthy.

Whenever the subject of guns comes up I always notice a huge difference in the responses from Americans vs Canadians, I think it's a whole different ballgame there. I know nurses who carry guns in the States and it would never even cross my mind to have one , ever.
 tekrok

Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 28
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:35:07 PM
guns dont kill people , people do, here is canada, if you have passed the hand gun coarse you get a permit, and ur gun is carried in a steal box to and from the shooting range.
 2_sexy47

Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 29
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:36:16 PM
no not really, but it depends what he does for a living, ie- if he is trustworthy. Perhaps he is a cop,, ahh i cant trust a cop either, haha
 2_sexy47

Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 30
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:37:11 PM
yeah, guns are more available in the U.S.
 ya472

Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 31
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:37:19 PM
> Anyway, I would like to be the one to pick the hill I die on. Know what I mean? Any suggestions? Thanks.

With an attitude like that, it won't be long until you get your spot on the hill.
 1_smart_cookie

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 32
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:37:39 PM
I have no problem with concealed weapons; in fact, I have no problem with me carrying one.

I do, however, having a problem with someone having to carry one because someone they are either dating or hang out with, is stupid enough to start something they can't finish on their own.

While it's admirable that your girl wants to stick up for her rights, getting a thrill of the danger that she could be potentially putting you both in, is just plain wrong.

The next time she pulls a stunt like that, throw up your hands...take a step back and say, "She said that..not me. I want no part of that!"

I'm certain she'll be mad as heck for a while, but I bet she doesn't ever pull that stunt again.
 sassymiss

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 33
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:43:51 PM
supernatural,Tell her to cool it.Someone gabbing on a phone next to her,Hey they have the same rights that she has. Dog getting close to her. Big deal she can move out of the way.
as for a gun, never pack something you are not prepared to use.Would you really want to shoot someone because your girlfriend objects to people she thinks is being rude? You will be the one who goes to jail. Personally speaking, explain to her the danger of her actions on the streets and if she doesn't listen get yourself a new girlfriend. I would not date someone who acted that way.I think she is wrong and is endangering your life. Don't pack or buy a gun. Buy a plug for her mouth. Surely you don't agree with her, if so you are living dangeruosly. and think.
 indy38

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 34
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:28:50 PM
GUNS ARE FOR COWARDS...

pffft! tell that to the next mugger that points a gun (or just a big knife) in your face one night and refuse to give the coward your wallet. Tell him he's a coward and if he wants it he's going to have to take it from you like a "real" man...

I think you'll sheepishly hand over your wallet instead.
 epc

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 35
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:39:23 PM
would a that mugger still try to steal your wallet without a gun, probably not - which then makes him a coward.
 indy38

Joined: 11/19/2005
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:03:43 PM

For example, if someone is on a cell phone right by us gabbing, she'll say "Do you mind?"

WHY IS THAT!? What's peoples problem with others talking on a phone in a public place? The only difference between that and talking to the person standing next to them is that they can't eavesdrop on half the conversation. So basically she's upset she can't eavesdrop on some strangers conversation? lol

IMO she's the one being rude and I'd tell her as much if she interrupted my conversation with a "Do you mind?" however polite she is about it.

excuse me, YES I DO MIND. Would you feel better if I put them on speaker phone so you can here the whole conversation? What exactly is it thats bothering you anyway? the fact you can't hear who I'm talking to, or do you just find the fact I'm talking offensive?


or if we are at the theater and some gang bangers are drinking and talking nearby she will say something to them about it, or if some huge parolee type who has a pit bull that gets near her with it's wet and muddy body she will tell the guy to get his dog "out of here!".


IMO she's a dumbass with no street smarts and your bordering on being one to for considering packing as a solution to this particular problem.

I'm all for legal concealed carry but if you feel you need to carry solely because your girlfriend has a big mouth, hey it's time to get a new girlfriend!

Instead of buying a gun try buying her a clue...
 indy38

Joined: 11/19/2005
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:11:08 PM
would a that mugger still try to steal your wallet without a gun, probably not - which then makes him a coward.

Yes he may well go ahead and strong arm rob you. the few times I was mugged / robbed while growing up in philly there wasn't any need for them to pull a weapon. They could just kick my ass and leave me laying in the street with my teeth spilled out all over the place and groaning for an ambulance seeing as how they had me out numbered... or just physically out matched.

Me on the other hand, if I had been carrying a gun and used it to defend myself I would of been a coward for doing so? I guess the manly thing to do would be to hand over the wallet and ask him not to hurt me, or perhaps start a fight I don't have a chance in hell of winning?

Personally I don't think people who strong arm rob people "aren't cowards" so much as I think they're incredible dumbasses for taking the chance of getting shot or otherwise victimized by one of their intended victims.

I guess all those cops responding to a alarm and go into a dark store at 2am with guns drawn are cowards for doing so as well...?
 rory27

Joined: 2/14/2005
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:15:24 PM
Yeah, I have a concealed weapon. And I'd club anyone getting between me and my gal with my 45" automatic PENIS.

Seriously, I'd be more concerned how your short-fused woman is going to overreact to YOU some day.
 leafslady

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 39
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:17:45 PM
Rory...why is it that I knew you were going to say the first part?

OT:Personally..I wouldn't want to be near anyone who owned a handgun.
 sammy salt

Joined: 5/15/2006
Msg: 40
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:23:39 PM
I would drop anyone that starts stuff, are is rude like that. I can understand someone bring up stuff if it bothers them, but if its at a point you thinking of carring a gun. Then your on the road to jail some day, and she lead the way. Just a thought.
 swanner

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 41
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:38:46 PM
so totaly off topic but am i to understand trubblemakr that you are mad about his grammer and spelling? and that he should "learn to be write?" sorry but your post kinda puts you in the same catagory.
 tekrok

Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 42
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:40:37 PM
sounds like the way canadians play hockey.you never go into the corners without ur elbows up high.
 howsitgoing?

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 43
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:00:27 PM
Santa Cruz CA is now on my list of places never to visit. Thanks for the infomation.

As for hockey, if you know the game, what happens on the ice, stays on the ice.
 luckyone38

Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 44
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:10:25 PM
Weapons are not to be taken lightly at all. It will never end if people keep shooting eachother. If she is causing you to worry then you need to have a talk with her. Easier to stop it before it starts bottom line!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 captainbaud

Joined: 7/4/2006
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Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:20:13 PM
As my instructor said over and over...

"Concealed means CONCEALED!"

There is no need to even tell her you have the firearm. If a situation comes up where you absolutely have to use it, then she'll be glad you had it. Otherwise, ignorance is bliss. If she's frisking you or you're grown close enough that you can trust her with the information, let her know.
 tekrok

Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 46
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:25:20 PM
howsitgoing;

did you say hockey, game on,
 BCDream

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 47
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:25:22 PM
Shes a walking time bomb. Now you have to carry a weapon to deal with the problems she causes by mouthing off?

Am I the only one who thinks this whole situation is ridiculous?
 luckyone38

Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 48
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:27:52 PM
^^^^^^^^^^ No your not Id dump her ass in a heart beat!
 ms.belladona

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 49
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:30:07 PM
Concealed weapon huh.....

In her bestest Mae West voice... Is that a gun in yer pocket or are ya just happy ta see me big boy.....

OT: Sounds like she's lookin to start the trouble and for you to bail her out... she obviously has sh*t for brains and a death wish....
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 50
Girls, would you mind if your guy carried a concealed weapon?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:36:43 PM
I though all guys carried a concealed weapon, in their pants.. some are larger and more dangerous than others.
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