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Posted: 7/11/2006 1:13:07 PM | i agree u cant make her do it...and ive been there done that a few times over the years...and its not what it is cracked up to be...i prefer one on one....i love men... | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 1:27:36 PM | | having dated a girl that was bisexual.......i never pressured or asked for one....it just "happened" one night...now with that said, if i woulda pressured her into it i probably would have got a big fat NO.......if she is interested SHE will bring it up......i wouldnt even touch it unless she brings it up....you are treading into dangrous waters there...... | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 10:13:04 AM | Guilty, as charged...would be the short answer.
However the insight that would come from the backround and reasons I have, might give you pause.
But for now...the short answer...well...it will just have to do. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 3:54:52 PM |  If I were you, I'd quit putting down people for their answers. You ask a question and asked for answers. Yet when you do get honest answers, you put them down. You seem to only want answers that suit what you want to hear. That's like me asking for no holes barred honesty, and then getting pissed about it. Don't ask for something if you're not prepared to recieve it. That goes for an answer to a question about a 3 some. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 4:27:35 PM |
I didn't mean to sound like a jerk when I asked this question.
Too late! Not because you want a threesome, but because you want to drag your significant other into a scenario that holds no interest for her. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2007 10:12:47 PM | | once you got her doing three some with you and im sure she will denifly change her feelings for you and dont want to be with you anymore. Thats why i refused doing three some with my guy with other guy even a girl (which i wont) because i know once we did it then we will be no longer together. also you shouldnt make her if she doesnt want to. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 5:10:33 AM |
Why don't you just tell her, she's not enough for you anymore, and you'd like to play russian roulette with STD's, low self esteem, and possible bad memories that will never go away, and does she care to take a turn at bat?! Ya, that ought to do it!
If she hasn't brought it up on her own, I would get it out of my head. But that's just me.
what a load of pants this comment is...
where did he say he wants to have unportected sex with anyone...
i was very sexually experimental when i was growing up and have had several 3some and group meets when i was younger.. its not something i want or practice anymore its just not for me now.. but during that period i was and the people i met were all very carefull and none of us were in it due to sele esteem issues !!
All that being said...
TO THE ORIGINAL POSTER...
You know your partner better than any of us.. and know if she has ever had an inclination towards other women.. and also weather you wuold be ok if a another man was involved..
also its not as easy as you seem to think to find a woman to join in your sex games.. and the chances are any woman that you did invite to join in would more likely be bi sexuall and more intrested in your partner than you..
unless you already have a woman lined up and this is playing a really dangerous game as there would likly be feeling attached and that is not a good idea.. this has to be sex and just sex no emotion involved or it it will all go wrong ! | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 7:30:00 AM | All you can do is 'suggest' it to her ... plant the thought. If she becomes interested, great. If not, she is not likely to ever change her mind. But, if she is not really interested -and only does it for you,- it won't be the great experience you may envision it as being...
If it's an obsession with you, you might want to go solo for awhile ... and go find yourself others who are "into it". | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 10:34:49 AM | I don't think threesomes are for people in relationships at all.
My friend and I gave my friend a threesome for his birthday once, lol, yea, sounds fukd up. but the three of us were friends, we all have the same mentality about sex, and when sex is sex, not "love making". That was fun, we were all single, and we all hang out still.
Threesomes can be the most fun a guy and 2 chicks (not a fan of the 1 chick 2 guys version :S)
But not an activity a person in a relationship should partake in.
Sorry buddy, u shoulda boned 2 chicks at once before u started dating ur lady.
peace out homies. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2007 11:31:04 AM | | I know someone whose "SO" asked her to do a threesome and she agreed to it for him. It was a MFM. The original couple ended up splitting up, and her going for the other guy. They are still together till this day. Now the guy who brought it up to his gf is some regretful. Be careful, you could truely lose the one you love to someone else! | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 9:18:02 PM | You need to consider the answer to these questions:
1) Why do you want this to happen?
1a) to just say you did?
1b) for the women to provide some sort of live sex show for you?
1c) to have 2 women focus on pleasuring you?
2) What's in it for her?
2a) To make you happy?
3) Don't kid yourself, you are encouraging your partner to have sex with someone other than you. Do you have ANY experience with open relationships?
3a) How would you feel if she wants to continue to see the other person, but one-on-one?
3b) How would you feel if she wanted have sex with other men?
4) Would you return the favor for her? ie, have a threesome with another man joining you?
4a) Would you make out with that guy, if she thought it was hot?
4b) Would you suck his**** etc... But what is she thought that would be really hot to watch?
5) Have you considered that one or both of you might feel ashamed after the fact?
5a) Have you considered how you might deal with this?
If you are unsettled by any of the above questions, you might consider that she might have felt very similar by your urgings.
Nothing wrong with telling a partner you have a fantasy. But it's no more cool to pressure someone into doing something sexual they don't want to do, than is is for someone to do it to you.
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Posted: 1/5/2008 12:41:05 AM | OP,
I get the feeling from your post that you havent yet experienced a threesome. You may first want to consider a few things:
1) Is your partner at all interested? I would strongly suggest NOT pushing it.
2) Is this someone you are "serious" with? If this is then she might question your fidelity afterwards. It does create a weird dynamic in the relatonship.
3) Have you considered the possible after-effects? Like I said before, it does sometimes cause hurt feelings and confusion post-threesome.
Maybe just watch it in a porno. I have never met anyone, male ot female, who thought it was al that great after the fact. Just food for thought. :) | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 12:45:05 AM | | Maybe you should break it of with her. Can't force her to do something she doesn't want to do. If she bores you that much in bed leave her before cheating on her. Besides why would you waste your time with a threesome anyway? Ever hear of all the risks that come with it? Besides the idea its just nasty. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 12:52:01 AM | | Go to an escort service,they can induldge your fantasy,at a price. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 8:03:17 AM |
Thankfully all the threesomes were with married women who came to the base when the hubby was out of town
I dated a girl that was Bi, woulda done it but finding that 3rd person is more luck than skill if you don't know the right err "type" of women. If your g/fs into it she's into it, but if she's not interested there's nothin you can do to change her mind.
Oh and that quote there, is basically the reason I'm single today, they seem fun, they seem cool, but there's a good chance that if they are into sharing girls with you they may not be too worried about sharing women with other men.
Not all bi girls are like that though, but enough it's not somethin I'm sure is 100% worth the risk. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 10:07:43 AM | Break her spirit...treat her like a piece of crap....give your a couple of mixed drinks and bring in the floozy..
That was easy... | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 10:48:57 AM | Well the first thing you go to do is have a great pick up line:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w1XOfHax6Q8
Guaranteed to work!
BTW, this is a stupid question. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 2:04:32 PM | well.. we've have not met.. but..
I have had MMF threesomes & MFF threesomes & after the fact.. it was a heck of a lot of fun.
Indeed repeats were occasioned by all parties.
But at the same time, it's worth noting:
1) I am openly & actively poly
2) I have attended many group sex events & some of those threesomes took place in that setting
3) In many many ways, I am not typical or representative of the norm or average person.
Max  | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 3:11:14 PM | 3 somes are not all that AND the bag of chips.
2 women and 1 male great for the guy......lacks in many ways for the female. | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 8:26:28 AM |
How do I get my girl to have a threesome with me and another woman?
...as far as how you get this to happen ...well you could try putting on a porn of threesums for you and your s/o when it is just the two of you and let her know how turned on the thought of her being with another woman with you there gets you ....make it easy for her to tell you wheteher or not she would be interested in being with another woman and you ...talk to her and communicate as much as possible ....learn her fantasies and desires and you will know if she is ready or not ...she may want to be with another woman but without you participating ...she may just want to watch you with another woman without her participating ....be careful what you wish for you may just get it and a lot more but the only way you will ever find out for sure is to talk openly and frankly with her .....
as some of the other posters mentioned always let her pick the girl otherwise she will think you are just wanting to be with the other woman with your s/o permission | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 8:50:42 AM | I have a friend that's been hopin' to get his wife to do the same thing. My only advice is if she really ain't in to it, don't hold your breath on making it happen. My friend has been trying for nearly a decade.  | |
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Posted: 1/7/2008 1:35:04 PM | | Have the other woman be Angelina Jolie, she has universal appeal! | |
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Posted: 1/8/2008 11:54:06 PM | | be careful she may like the other person your all with and dump you. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 1:38:39 AM |
Have the other woman be Angelina Jolie, she has universal appeal!
Cant think of any woman Id wanna shag...not even the universal Angelina
Wonder if that makes me officially not bi? | |
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Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 50 | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 1:41:56 AM |
Cant think of any woman Id wanna shag.
Its ok...let me do all the thinking ok? Hahah.  | |
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