| | gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??Page 2 of 15 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15) | I have personally seen this every time I go out.... cute little girl makes eye contact with a guy who looks like a chump. She flirts with him a bit, touches his arm, and says...Im thirsty!  Chump boy asks what she likes to drink... she orders the most expensive****ail and asks the guy to buy her friend a drink too! Chump boy thinking that it'll buy him sometime with the girls pays for both drinks and there goes $25-30!
I then watch him hand over the drinks to girls...they chat for 30 seconds and she turns her back to him and they're GONE!  When they leave its my cue to come in make fun of them, tease them, and treat them like my little bratty sisters. If I played my cards right I usually end up getting the numbers and didn't spend a dime. 
I have NEVER gone into debt because of a girl....I have only gone in debt because I like toys!
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| gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/12/2006 11:39:16 PM | sagenembers wrote:
BLOWN383 Your responses are hillarious! I can't wait to share those! I'll be sure to give you credit.
You're just saying that because you like me! You need a better pick up line... no way am I going to fall for a cheesy pick up line like that! 
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| gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/12/2006 11:55:17 PM | After having my savings cleaned out by a husband who refused to work, and then a fiance that got a hold of my PIN, you will excuse me if I want to know if a man is financially responsible. I own my own home free and clear and I want to keep the money I have, since I have children to raise.
I also have an ex that will not give my kids a cent when he has them for the weekend. He tells them, "That is what I pay child support for." I have to send them with money if they even want to do something like rent a DVD. He was ordered to pay alimony by the court, after having begged me to give up my career to stay home and raise the children, and never paid one cent of it.
If a person has money, there is no set amount for support. This is a child, not a thing. If you make $100K a year and only think your kids deserve enough for food and scant clothing, you have your head in an orifice not originally intended for it, regardless of your gender.
As for the plastic surgery bills, if you pay for plastic surgery for a woman, consider yourself as shallow as she is for wanting it. It's one thing if you are married to them, but not when there is no legal committment. That is just the most foolish thing I have ever heard of.
I suggest of someone is silly enough to spend huge amounts of cash on women who have not agreed to marry them, that they examine their screening technique. And for the record, when you say they would not put out for your investment, it sounds like you were looking for a whore, not a woman. Might as well go to the Bunny Ranch if that is what you want.
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| gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/13/2006 12:12:09 AM |
How is a woman who is only interested in how much money a man makes, any less mercenary than a man who is only interested in how a woman looks?
I smell a double standard.
mominatrix : how does this make any sense? did you read this after you wrote it???
The only perspective I can look at this with is my own...and what I want, is to find a long time companion or marriage.
There are several factors that are necessary to determine our choices. Looks are just one of them, and looks are the first thing that initally attracts us. But by no means is it a final determining factor. Once we find some one (by attraction) we need to see if
1.are we compatable
2.what are our goals are
3 what's her personality like
i have numbered these..these are basic bare minimum requirements. You can be very attracted to someone but if she is a b i t c h to be around (your personalities don't match up) clearly you wouldn't pursue a relationship with that person .. there are so many smaller levels of compatability to consider...and MOST OF THE TIME it usually does not work out that you have found someone that has even the few basics. Is this someone who is attractive to me? do we get along? is she supportive, or critical and demanding...
you are not going to ever find anyone perfect, but you are going to have at least the criteria of a few that are must. Nobody is going to even approch someone else if they don't first attract us. That's basic stuff. We are designed that way. But after the attraction, there is more important stuff to consider..
you truly do have to meet a lot of people to find one that you are comfortable with , no matter if they are physically attractive to you...if she is not interesting /fun/responsible/ then you are not going to want to have a relationship with her just on the basis of if she seems attractive to you...that's stupid.
My point is ...nobody in their right mind is going to pursue a relationship with a person merely based on looks alone. nobody. Imagine this conversation overheard: "oh, I just love my new girlfriend debbie..she is so good looking ...we fight all the time, and we have no interests in common ...but she looks good...yippie..."
NO...that is obviously stupid.
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Posted: 7/13/2006 4:35:39 AM | No doubt you don't wanna get stuck with a gold digging huzzy just as us women dont want to get stuck with low life lookers who base their interest on the way someone looks. I couldn't care less how much someone makes or if they have a six pack and totally movie style fit body or not, you on hte other hand don't seem to care about th emoney but want to only look at looks. You probably wouldn't even give someone like me a chance in hell if you saw me in a club simply cuz I am a very subtle average individual. I think I am pretty, but no movie star look thats for sure. I am confident, well grounded, support myself just fine, and all I can seem to find are the liars and the cheaters. I am not tryin to sound mean, u asked, I treat everyone I meet, everyone who emails me, with the upmost respect and truly believe u should treat people the way u want to be treated, but again and again, u men show me being nice doesn't get me anywhere, so where does that leave me? Well, rguardless of your opinion, it leaves me sitting here still just as confident and happy in my life, hoping maybe one day Ill find my true love ad if not, at least I enjoyed life looking.
Well, hope I didn't offend anyone, just statin an opinion,
Have a great night! Take care all! :)
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Posted: 7/13/2006 8:11:48 AM | I have dated pretty men, that spend twice as much time in the bathroom primping than I do and they were colossal, self absorbed pains in the butt. I have also dated men who I originally did not consider attractive at all, who I eventually considered wonderful, because of who they were. Looks will not get you through life, unless you die pretty young and eventually you are going to need to find things in common.
I have news for you, while you may not date someone specifically for looks, there are men that will and do, simply for the sexual aspect of having a hot woman. They may eventually dump them for other reasons, but as long as they are attracted they will stick around regardless of her being irritating, selfish, or dumb as a box of rocks. I know men who are married to women that henpeck and boss them around, but they are really pretty women and the men put up with it. Why is that? | |
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Posted: 7/13/2006 3:19:23 PM | I never go to bars to meet women...bookstores, grocery stores, coffee houses, gas stations...I seem to be a chick magnet in those places.
bars and clubs to see my fav bands play. I let the lounge lizards pick you the riff rafff gold diggers there while I enjoy the music. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2006 8:10:56 PM | Dani12680:
Totally off the subject and very friendly advice, so take it or don't; but for your kid's sake I hope you do;
Do you have any idea how many people view this website, how many of them could be normal human beings and how many could be totally deranged, please reconsider having a picture of your kids here or any other dating website.
I do understand the need for guys that may want to go out with you, to know that you are a parent, but saying it should be enough.
Personally, I don't even think there is a reason for one's kids to be involved in this part of one's life, not unless one has somewhat of an idea about who he is, and that it could be potentially long-term.
Otherwise, they don't need to know, for safety reasons, consistency and just to not see them hurt every time you decide to end a relationship.
Have you watched TV or read the News lately?
As a parent, it is your obligation to protect them, and by you having their picture here, you are exposing them to whoever wants to meet you, or wants to meet them.
Please just think about it okay. Be safe. (BTW: He is a cutie!)
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| gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/16/2006 12:46:25 PM | Wow, that's weird, the last guy I dated told me way more about his financial status than I wanted to know. Then before the second date I googled him a bit to find out more about him and said so--he said "you probably know how much my house is worth then." Actually, I didn't. I didn't give a good gosh darn. I wanted to know a few things about his character and stuff. He just assumed I'd care about money, cars, etc. Kinda sad.
So it's not just women. A lot, though not all, of the people out here care too much about status symbols and real estate. Just IMHO, you're more likely to meet them in a bar. Try walking up to a cute girl at the gym or in the bookstore, or maybe at a farmer's market or a political thingie. Points if she's got glasses on. I'm not just saying that cause I wear glasses: anyone who wears glasses around here is probably not hung up on appearances. I betcha if you tell one of them you're a nurse, she'll say "Oh, how nice! Tell me more about it." I would, anyway. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2006 1:57:42 PM | Gents,
You all need to listen to the words of wisdom from Tom Leykis! It is true that he can be crude but his advice on dating women especially the rampant gold diggers in socal and I live in San Diego has allowed me to avoid the financial destruction traps that women often like to snare decent men of means in. I no longer take women out on expensive dates and get more enjoyment in dating for little money than ever before. The fact is, women in America seem to enjoy getting treated like crap by 'bad boys' whom they will readily have sex with and like the sucker men who drop cash and lavish gifts on them for no return.
Stay free, stay single, travel overseas and enjoy life!
-Scott
PS: Now of course if I meet a decent cute and sweet lady in San Diego or Orange County who proves me wrong than thats alright too! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2006 2:54:46 PM |
if that were true, you wouldn't be on a dating website
this just adds to the fun...
bookstores, grocery stores, coffee houses, gas stations, and dating sites.
Lykis 101
everyone knows even Lykis himself doesn't believe all the entertaining dribble that flys out of his mouth. Been a fan for several many years.
Flash Friday is cool. | |
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| gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/16/2006 6:42:05 PM | hey here you go dud next time you run into a gold digger and she ask you how much you make just tell her hold on and give her a shovel and tell her when she starts digging and she reaches the bottom then get back at you, make it do what it does. listen there are some women who are not looking at the figuers but when a man sees that he begins to run me out here and tell me if you men are looking for an independent woman and she presents herself then why dont you take time to know her? and to all the gold digging women wacth those rims keep spinning right pass you and men if they are spinning counter clock wise then you aint pippin (you might not know nothing about that)if a man wanna know then indeed ask her what she does if she cant answer then keep running men oh yeah the good men keep your head up and just when you think it is not the one it is and she will not be looking at the figures hay i need a man that can make it happen to add to what i already have | |
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Posted: 7/16/2006 7:05:03 PM | Any good ones left--as in any good gold diggers left? haha But seriously, my first reaction to reading about your scenario was, "Good lord, that sucks!" To have that many sour apples come up to you in one sitting--I think anyone out of town would think So Cal is full of gold diggers. But like all the people in this thread seem to indicate, there are 2 sides to this coin. Just gotta find the right ones I suppose. I for one don't go to clubs thinking I will meet anyone datable. I go to clubs to dance and bars to drink... nothing more nothing less.
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Posted: 7/16/2006 11:16:55 PM | Yep, we have a whole lot a Gold Diggers here in SoCal. I'm kinda glad they put it on the table so early---helps me to get out of the way....Just take this as a fact of life if you are going to live here. It is very hard to live out here on less than 6 figures. The girls to guy ratio is one of the worst in the country. Not a bad place to live if you like the outdoors but don't come here to find a nice girl unless you are really willing to work for it.....Best of Luck... | |
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Posted: 7/17/2006 6:15:00 AM | mominatrix wow it seems you have had some problems with men by the postings I see. Women are not the only ones that get taken and hurt in a divorce or breakup. I was divorced 6 months ago and I wanted out so bad from the lieing and deciet that I walked away from my share of 500K in equity in the house. I have never based my relationships on looks or money. I really do care about the personality, the sense of humor and the persons thought process. In your profile you say no bad boys, what is a bad boy to you? You see not all bad boys do drugs or are criminals. Some might say I am a Bad boy as I ride a motorcycle, have let my hair grow, have tatoo's, my ear pierced. I have 2 Master degrees, I can retire from my current employer in 8 weeks with 20 years in, My company has sent me all over to work for them. Sop just say Bad Boys is Stereo Typing everyone. Sorry if I sound hard it is just I am tired of hearing women beat down men because they made a bad judgement in thier selection of a man. I fyou would like to comment back you could do it here or emal me at luvfriends@excite.com
By the way my name is Howard.
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| How to reply to a gold digger
Posted: 7/17/2006 6:21:29 AM | What kind of car do you drive?
A Lamborghini but its in the shop
Where do you live?
Rancho Santa Fe or Malibu but my mansion is in process of construction
How much money do you earn?
None of your business!
What kind of shoes are those?
Faux Pradas custom made in Santo de Tomas
No actually never really had a problem luckily with gold diggers.  
I attract different kind of women fortunately whom are not diggers
In fact my personality is magnetic and attracts the granola hippie chicks (heehee)
 or the cowgirl since I grew up on a farm and like country music and rodeos
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