Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 26 | |
| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/19/2004 4:05:36 PM | | Ciganous, Only a man with a 4"penis would find that funny. Are you still laughing? hahaha | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/19/2004 4:28:42 PM | | My son's father is 10 years younger than I am but it didn't make much of a difference...a jerk is a jerk at any age lol. The bad thing is that my son, who is gay, brough home a "15 year old friend" when he was 13. Turned out that he was acutally 19 and was much more than a friend. In his case I broke up that relationship and when he threw his father's and my age difference in my face I reminded him that yes there was a big gap but we were both adults! Other than an adult dating a minor tho, I'd say it if works for you go for it. | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/20/2004 11:28:20 AM | hehehehehehe
um....hahahahaha.....ha...ha..he...he.....ack....cough......cough....
ahheemmm.......whew better know...
thanks for your sensitivity and amazing lack of insight!
I can only imagine that the next forumn you reply to will be
"Am I a stupid gutter-whore or just a dirty-cum-dumpster"
In look forward to the discussion | |
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Juni
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Joined: 7/18/2004
Msg: 29 | |
| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/20/2004 5:20:40 PM | | I used to say that age is just a number.... However, that was when I was younger and had less experiance. Now I think that it does matter. This is because you need to go through you own life and experiace your life- not have someone remake you or experiace their life through you. You should be going out with guys closer to your age and he should be dating girls closer to his age. However, this is just something that I have learned in the last few years so enjoy your relationship- maybe it will work out! | |
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 30 | |
| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/20/2004 9:04:46 PM | cigano you thought it was funny to insult a womans vagina. It was not so funny when I insulted your penis now was it?
["thanks for your sensitivity and amazing lack of insight!"]
What are you refering to? You wrote the first tasteless joke!
["I can only imagine that the next forumn you reply to will be
"Am I a stupid gutter-whore or just a dirty-cum-dumpster"]
Yes I probably will "REPLY" to the posts. ";p
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Now don't try to out smart me in a battle of wits, you are unarmed!
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| age does not matter
Posted: 7/20/2004 10:23:43 PM | | im 37 and my GF is 19. we meet on march 22nd 2003 and we are a very happy couple since then. this relationship is the best i ever had. ok she allways liked older men's before and i honestly was a bit afraid of getting together with her at the first few weeks but all went ok and we are happy. | |
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| Re: age does not matter
Posted: 7/21/2004 6:05:41 AM | Not that it really matters in effect. But had you actually read what I had written?
What I had posted was a QUOTE from 6 feet under. From a conversation between WOMEN talking about vaginal reconstruction and thier contrasting views to the touchy subject.
Maybe you should get laid Ruby. Or maybe just a clue.
Not armed.....that was funny......I suppose that when I reach an advanced age and have lived a long cold lonely and useless life I may react and treat people as you....
Until then....have a great day! | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/21/2004 8:57:16 AM | Sara,
I personally wouldn't mind dating someone of your age, as long as they were mature. I am 29 years old, and for what I am wanting, which is someone with no children and haven't been married before, I am finding that I have to look younger than what I have been dating. My last girlfriend was 25, she hadn't been married before and hadn't had any children....which believe me, is a rarity in my area! However, she has had alot of other baggage from bad relationships in the past that sort of sealed the fate for her and I. Anyway though, back on the subject, I, for one, think as long as the person loves you honestly and isn't sporting you around as a trophy, then age shouldn't matter. Problem is, I am attracting more older women than younger women...what is up with that! ;-)
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
Msg: 34 | |
| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/21/2004 9:49:10 AM | CIGANOUS QUOTE THIS;
" If I think a person is old at 53, I am in for a rude awakening, if I even make it to that "advanced" age!"
You assume I have had a long cold life and you know what assuming anything does?
Now move along big boy and leave this alone! | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/21/2004 1:07:37 PM | | Thank you everyone for all your advice and thoughts. Unfortunatley, the guy turned out to be a chauvinistic pig who was just using me. | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/22/2004 8:53:36 AM | Sorry to hear that Sara.
I really think though that what goes around comes around, people seem to put themselves in situations that repeat their life cycles and eventually those who harm us find themselves in the harmed catagory sooner or later.
sorry though.... | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/22/2004 5:16:44 PM | | Thank you ciganous. I hope that's true, lol. I've been hurt by many people in my lifetime. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2004 5:22:39 PM | | Well it all depends on the ppl. invovled, it's like everything else in dating, it matters 2 me. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2004 10:49:50 AM | | I'm not sure what you and a 35 year old could possibly have in common besides sex, and sooner or later that will fade, then what? I'm sure you feel love and closeness but the age gap will eventually turn into a noose around your neck and regret will inevitably follow. But there is always that one in a million deal. :o) | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:10:50 PM | | Inside of ten years is a good rule of thumb to follow, but whatever floats your boat I guess. | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 9/23/2004 4:53:13 PM | | I think it does, the more years between the man and the woman, the more likely the relationship is about sex. The numbers don't favour love on this one, sorry. | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 10/26/2004 6:26:43 PM | age aint nuttin but a numba...wen i was 16 i had a fiancee who was 39...wer not together ne more..but it was a good run while it lasted...its all bout love hunni
xxx booty xxx | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 43 | |
| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 10/26/2004 7:40:59 PM | | I dated a girl 10 years younger then me and it was tuff. not so much after 25. i was 30 she was 20.. she wanted to do the things i was already so over. and it caused conflict. | |
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| Re: Does age matter?
Posted: 10/27/2004 3:23:15 AM | | There is no answer that fits every situation. If it is working for you, that is all that matters. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2004 6:31:51 AM | i have a frend he was 30 and she was 17 , Everyone almost everyone gave thenm a hard time , they have three kids are hoplessly in love to this day one of the happiest couples i know of ! My hats off to True love!
If it s Real Go for it ! the Hell with Age !
The big thing is If it s TRUE LOVE age dosnt matter! If it isnt you can be born on the same day , with the same sad results !
When she or he walks into the room and your universe just got brighter your going in the right direction !
Good luck Sweety ! | |
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| Does age matter?
Posted: 10/28/2004 10:31:49 AM | When it comes to a relationship intended to be long-term, I think the female should be older than the male because females tend to live longer. I only say this to reduce sadness of a loss. For short-term relations, I think age does not matter but if your mind tells you otherwise, stick to what you think is legal and right for yourself.  | |
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| Does age matter?
Posted: 4/17/2005 4:59:58 PM | the general rule is half your age plus seven
it never fails | |
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| Does age matter?
Posted: 4/17/2005 5:54:47 PM | I am all about ignoring age differences - but I have to say, not for someone as young as you, if you are looking for this to be something long-term. As mature as you may be, you are not through growing up, and that means you will change. It is very likely that what is appealing to you today will not be the same down the road aways.
But if you just want to date him and enjoy it for a learning experience, and you are both clear about that - go for it. | |
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| Does age matter?
Posted: 4/17/2005 11:44:19 PM | I'm not worried about you. I'm worried about him. Because of his age, his life has probably settled into just who he is. You, on the other hand, are going to change a lot in the next few years (or else not grow as a human being). People change a lot from 19 to 29. Have you even lived out on your own? Can't be over 3 years at most. Living on your own for a few years will give you a new perspective because life is hard and with the challenges, you will form opinons about how you think life should be lived best and form a set of value. Your taste in men is likely to change in that time period. You may become more independent and with that, the dynamics may change in the relationship with this man, where when you begin thinking more for yourself and likes and dislikes grow and change and finally become convictions; at this point, he may be threatened as you begin to think for yourself and in new ways that doesn't fit his values system. He obviously likes a woman so young that he feels more powerful. As you grow, you will become more powerful and thus, there could be problems. But, hey the good news is that you will be the one most likely to bolt, not him. He will wonder what happened. So, I say, enjoy it while it lasts, as he should know better.
But I could be wrong, as there are always exceptions to the rule. | |
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| Does age matter?
Posted: 2/13/2007 7:50:33 PM | | No age doesnt matter, its if you love one another, and you are compatable, and you like doing the same things , go for it its better to have really loved and been loved than to never have loved at all, so you may miss being loved more by this person than anyone will ever love you so dont miss it if you both have that much love for each other. | |
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