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 Hug Goddess

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 8/14/2006 7:52:49 AM
^^^so which category does "bed her" fall under...Making Love or Getting Laid???

First of all - in defense of the OP (whom I happen to know personally), he's is not an unsavory type just looking to promote himself..

Secondly - OP...tell her you'll "watch" her to her car...not "walk" her...might avoid an uncomfortable moment that way and she might respect you that much more.

H.T.
 GolfGuy74

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/14/2006 7:57:44 PM
Nowhere in my post did I state that I compare myself to Brad Pitt. Maybe you should re-read my post.
Maybe you just need a hug and a kiss so here you go.
 GolfGuy74

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 8/14/2006 7:58:30 PM
Rosie
Nowhere in my post did I state that I compare myself to Brad Pitt. Maybe you should re-read my post.
Maybe you just need a hug and a kiss so here you go.
 GolfGuy74

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 8/14/2006 8:01:39 PM
RosieC.
One last comment......you prob don't get many messages sent to you, so I decided to give to charity. I sent you a little hello from Canada.
 GolfGuy74

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 8/14/2006 8:03:30 PM
eyebeesweet...
Yes I did.
 GolfGuy74

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 8/14/2006 8:08:03 PM
crystalise.
Thank you for your input....although you never really answered my question.....maybe we should go for coffee to discuss!
 GolfGuy74

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 8/14/2006 8:09:45 PM
JustOnEdge
Looks like you have your hands full brotha.
 rosieC46

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/14/2006 10:02:24 PM
GolfGuy74
are you all screwed up
you ask for help
then you promote yourself and brag
re gals literally throwing themselves at you
then when somebody gives you an honest
opinion, you lampoon that person
you replied to your own post
more self-propaganda.
i do get a lot of e-mails from a lot of guys
some as far as Australia, Spain ,UK, Athens.Greece
no i don't need your charity,no hugs and kisses either from a leper
go back to basic training and hopefully
you obtain some emotional maturity
and always remember age comes before beauty.
grow up and stop sulking
 rosieC46

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/14/2006 10:04:53 PM
if you can't take the heat ................stay off the kitchen
 Imfit4life

Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/16/2006 10:08:55 AM
Well seeing as posting your querry in this forum has brought you nothing but insults and ridicule.. I am here to be honest and forthright.

IT must be the choices you are making. (one person's post did lead to this) Perhaps too young, perhaps basing it all on a pretty face Im not sure.... But I do agree with you! Sex seems to be the goal of most POFers.... Then there is always the "3rd Date" rule. Supposedly in this new age of dating, 3 dates = the right to be brash enough to presume sex is OK. Not in everyone's books.

As much as Sex and intimacy are part of a relationship, I do agree. Everything tends to move too quickly in the world of dating. Not my style.. obviously, not yours.

Chin up "so you've been told Handsome guy" LOL...Just be certain of your choices, and really follow your intuition, dont compromise and be certain in your convictions. Know what you do want, what you don't want and where you are willing to compromise.

As for myself, Internet dating/ meeting is not for me. Im going back to the tired and true ways. Meeting people through recreational events, friends of friends, grocery store..LMAO.. or perhaps just take a break.

Something I have learned. The more you think you "want something", the less chances you are to find that. Its when you are not looking / trying too hard etc... that you get wacked over the head and someone walks into your life.

Stay out of Trouble Golfguy!
 knytesprite

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/16/2006 10:13:33 AM
HAHAHAHAHA are you seriously complaining about it? lol Most guys would be happier than pigs in sh** to have that happen to them.
Now as for why it happens...why would it be ok for men to have those sexual needs, urges, desires, etc....and not for women to have them. We women are no different...just looked upon differently for having them. Men are called studs women are called sluts...maybe this is a good thread for guys to start thinking about that one!
Anyhow..hey..I think you should be happy and go with it..lol Enjoy yourself..let her enjoy herself too..lol
 Kerenliz30

Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/16/2006 10:15:17 AM

Are you wearing "AXE deoderant body wash" by any chance?


LMAO!!!

That could be it!!! LOL...I am cracking up over here....
 katz2001

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/16/2006 10:47:45 AM
I agree with "yourgirl" maybe it's the women you choose to meet. I've heard from other men that alot of women are only on here for sex. Maybe chatting longer and getting to know them better on line before meeting would help weed out those just looking for sex. Are you going for women much younger? I have younger female friends and thier morals are much different than most of my friends my age. Good luck
~ katz ~
 dorel4

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/16/2006 11:03:01 AM
Wow!!

Maybe it's something Tim Hortons is putting in the coffee out there? I see alot of womens profiles who state there addicted to it! LOL!! or in the water! LMAO!
 katz2001

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/16/2006 12:27:00 PM
dorel
You might be on to something I see alot of guys profiles saying they are addicted to Tim Hortons ! It's turning everyone into sex maniacs !!...lol
~ katz ~
 killer_smile

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/16/2006 12:56:45 PM
First off, just how many women are you talking about here? You make it seem like dozens of them are doing the same thing. Perhaps you just met three in a row with insatiable urges?

Secondly, are you saying you don't participate in this? Do they gag and bind you? Are you pressing charges here? It takes two to tango, buddy.

Finally, I think you are just taking the opportunity to stroke your ego a bit with your tales of conquest. You can't generalize about all women based on a few encounters. You also can't generalize about a particular woman based on one encounter with her. Perhaps you were just in the right place at the right time and she just needed a release. Why assume everyone else is the same way, or that she is the same way with everyone else? Thats pretty simple-minded if you ask me.
 dorel4

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/16/2006 3:42:31 PM
Let's hope so Katz2001 it could be the next generation..Baby boomers...Tim Horton Humpers..
 rosieC46

Joined: 4/5/2006
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Posted: 8/16/2006 4:16:17 PM
i'm new to this comp;uter jargon.................. what's LMAO or LML or is it LMQ.
found out about Tim Horton's and mile high club
boy i'm so behind times
thanks for the reply
 P!ickle

Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/16/2006 4:17:21 PM
lol I dont know ANY ladies that would do this ... maybe a hooker! but they don't require coffee first ... but hey ... maybe you're just attracting the wrong kinda gal?
 Adam Taylor

Joined: 5/11/2006
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Posted: 8/16/2006 4:32:31 PM
I've known quite a few women who've done this.
And right there that's the end of the date.

I'm not against the idea of making love on a first date... it happens... rarely...
But, when the woman's just trying to jump me, and it's not like we have any strong bond or anything... yeah, no thanks. I'll wait for someone special.
 Kel-Gal

Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 8/16/2006 6:06:34 PM
Crystalise I think you hot the nail on the head. How many men do you know that would complain about it. I think he's protesting to much and is hoping he'll ttarct that type of woman.
 MizzyBlu

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 9/1/2006 12:46:48 PM
Well Rosie, I think you need to lay of the OP as I didn't read any of what u acuse in his opening comment.

As for why women do it, sounds to me that what they are looking for just sex. Cause if they wanted a relationship they would take time to get to know u better and would certainly want something more than the back seat of your car. LOL
 Mizdameanor

Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 8/7/2007 8:20:48 PM
Hold your hand on their forhead and say "Trust me, I'm not gonna respect you, if my coffee gets cold."
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 6/7/2007
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Posted: 8/7/2007 10:44:37 PM
Mmmmm....The old 'coffee' routine eh? Coffee makes a person hypo, so switch to a nice cup of tea.
OP, You have to learn to say NO to these wild nympho maniac's. Lie to them, and tell them you are not THAT sought of guy. Tell them you don't even like sex, tell them your impotent, tell them you were born a woman.....tell them anything you can think of. Geez, you poor man, I feel for you.
 SassySky

Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 8/9/2007 3:14:37 PM
Actually me thinks you are protesting alittle to much and just what type of women are you attracted to.
Me personally I love Smart cookie answer
You must have one decked out, tricked out, comfy backseat....because....if I ever considered doing that in the back of my pickup...someone's going to get some serious waffle-butt off the bedliner...and that someone wouldn't be me.

I also personally drive my own car for my dates and I don't have a back seat.
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