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 johnnyss

Joined: 10/6/2005
Msg: 126
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Posted: 3/31/2007 8:11:26 PM
I'm still trying to figure out how "this" FORUM, and threading works, but I was replying to graysam's,,,,,"because we rock".
Ok, that's funny, but paLease.
And everybody else, uh uh, a 50 year old woman can be as goofy as a 30 year old, when it comes to relationships, and or sex.
"Oh, look at all the lonely people".
 Jazzydysh

Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 127
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Posted: 4/1/2007 10:29:52 PM
Let me guess, one of his names is.........Henry_Duke working in Nigeria while his sons grandmother looks after his son ..........in New Jersey........ Ladies, give us some names here to avoid............then, if an email comes through, just delete without reading........ Hmmmmm Nigeria.....they're really reaching out to touch someone!
 Jazzydysh

Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 128
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/1/2007 10:33:36 PM
Knightwriter33.......if you are 25 then how come your profile shows you as 34yrs of age??????????????
 xJenax

Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 129
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/1/2007 11:21:13 PM
Knightwriter was quoting someone else and not saying his age is 25. In response to the OP, I have also had much younger men and much older as well contact me. The younger ones say they like older women for many of the reasons stated above but is there such a thing as too young? Somehow I can't see myself dating someone who is closer to my daughter's age than my own..... This might be asking the obvious but what do much older men really want from a younger woman?
 ARTSYLADEE

Joined: 4/13/2006
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Posted: 4/1/2007 11:33:36 PM
Younger men want to be taken care of, older men want arm candy.

I put a limit at 10 years either way. Any younger than 10, and I will feel that I have to burb 'em.
 Thirdguy55

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 131
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/3/2007 6:59:24 AM
Speaking as an older man ... I am more interested in women my own age so they might be able to laugh at my 'Gunsmoke' , 'Marverick' and 'Man From U.N.C.L.E.' references .
 ARTSYLADEE

Joined: 4/13/2006
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Posted: 4/3/2007 9:47:36 AM
Man from U.N.C.L.E.! Ilya Kuriaken! Napolean Solo! Do you remember the girl from U.N.C.L.E.? Stephanie Powers starred in it! How about Honey West?
 orareroseo

Joined: 10/22/2005
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Posted: 4/7/2007 9:17:24 AM
Some of the younger men really have it together.....but....I think it's just so they can tell their friends "I was out w/ this 40 something divorced women...and she was HOT"....to me it's kinda funny.......and to be honest....most of the men in their early 40's can look 55.......and the 55 y/o's look 70....but hey...guess life was hard on them ...(meaning EX wives)....but I'm w/ you....I like younger men....more fun....like doing things....I'm heading into my late 40's....but I act alot younger....my 31 y/o daughter get's mad at me....and yells at me about behaving.....lol...but...it's all about havin fun....right?
 feesie

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 134
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Posted: 4/13/2007 2:48:04 PM
the way i see it is age is just how u feel its a goverment thing age is like a toe tag just for the goverment to identify u my grand mother was 52 when she died dating a 24 yr old man and was never happier so its all up to how u feel i like older women because girls are girls and women are women and ppl my age are girls not women and i want a women
 ponygrlâ„¢

Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 135
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Posted: 4/13/2007 3:23:17 PM
hey feesie, long time no see stranger.....
this is too funny....since i changed my settings because of the knoebel's thread that i have running (sorry ld, had to say why...lol) i've been getting emails from guys 10 years younger than me telling me that they have no problems at all with just being friends with me. why is it that men my own age can't even do that. instead they'd rather try their damndest to get into my pants. guess again boys, this is one challenge that you're going to have fun trying to beat. i'm not an easy lay, i don't believe in first date sex let alone within the first month.

would i go out on a date with a guy younger than me? sure, just as long as he respects my wishes.

hell, who knows anymore, i'm getting older, i'm not getting dumber. i know when i'm having a great time and i know when he's not.
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 136
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Posted: 4/13/2007 6:14:49 PM
Don't worry, I still will get you that butter cream egg sweetie.. you gave a really good A@@ explanation..( ld)...now you know only you & I will understand this..lolololol...
As far as this thread goes.. as long as a guy has his head on straight.. what does the age matter?? Sometimes the income that is brought in sometimes causes problems..just as long as there isn't a power struggle..lots of hugs & kisses..equally

JMPO,,,ld
 RuthieB

Joined: 3/25/2007
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Posted: 4/13/2007 7:32:07 PM
I also like the younger men, 35 and over.. But I seem to get contact from young kids.. and that is abit disturbing to me,as my youngest is 19,and I would never date a kid..

My age requirement on my profile is 35 to 60.. And one man that contacted me was 54 I think "with no photo" who was quite upset that I was dating younger men,which he called BOYS.."Why would U want to date a kid,when U can have a man"?? LOL
Maybe,because they are HOT...

I found that very judgemental.. I seem to be attracted to younger men,as I appear to be a younger 53 yr old then the norm,I guess..


 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 138
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Posted: 4/14/2007 8:30:40 AM
RuthieB.. Hey there..I understand what you are saying, I think? But sometimes Men..especially after being bruised or worse yet..have some trouble "sucking it in" even if they "think they have it all together". We can't tell them any different..it' not for us to convince them, they have to "figgirred" it out all by themselves. With some help I hope...Male egos, and I am not saying we are all that much different, as Woman.. just that I have been trying to figure them out for a long time now. And whether we or you are 38 or 58, it doesn't matter, if you don't have or want to get proverbial S*** together, it wont!. Not being judgmental at all..I don't particular care to date for Men that can't walk with out a cane..am I being that "judgmental" again?? You don't know me at all, sweetie.. I work with mostly with abused Women, but also Men too..can't get my priorities in the way.. HOT or not..
 Snake11B

Joined: 9/15/2006
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Posted: 4/14/2007 8:59:50 AM
I just want to throw my two cents in quickly. I'm chuckling at this topic: Not for any dirogatory reason, I just can't get used to 35-40 year olds being referred to as "younger". When I hear/read someone say younger men, I assume that they mean me.

Of course, we all know what assumption does.
 Anniexo

Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 140
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/14/2007 9:03:17 AM
LOL... I have to agree with that... Younger guys also have a better sense of humor and aren't stuck in there ways... Older women seem to have more energy then younger women these days...
 john boy2

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 141
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Posted: 4/14/2007 10:20:23 AM
Well i'm 55 and looking for a best friend and sex is not my first concern.Also I don't need any of your money LOL
 KareninPhilly

Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 142
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/14/2007 10:37:14 AM
At 43 I have to say that ALL the men that have been interested in me for the past 5 years have been younger than myself. The most recent is a just turned 31 year old attorney I met through my job. He is a sweety and I enjoy our friendship. He seems to enjoy mine as well. Life is short, enjoy!
 The Write Stuff

Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 143
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/15/2007 12:01:02 PM
I was discussing the irony of a similar question with a friend recently. Remember back in high school when you were a freshman or sophomore? Remember trying to get a junior or senior girl to even talk to you? Remember that they would not even give you the time of day?
 ARTSYLADEE

Joined: 4/13/2006
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:02:27 PM
Keith-
Amazing what a difference a few years makes! LOL
 feesie

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 145
Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 4/15/2007 8:15:16 PM
the way i see it like i said befiore is its all up to the ppeople how u know if antythings diffrent some were else if u eat at the same resturant all ur life u gotta try new things to see whats out there
 orareroseo

Joined: 10/22/2005
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Posted: 4/19/2007 6:05:29 PM
it is kinda funny....I'll be 48 soon....and the guy I'm seeing is 43.....he has a harsd time keeing up w/ me......
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 147
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Posted: 4/20/2007 7:21:39 AM
I am not sure what is considered younger anymore,(maybe 7 yrs either way depending).. but if they want to contact me.. I usually write back ~~~ you know, that's the nice thing to do, right?? And if they are sober and have a car and job. Hey, that's even better yet!! I am here for the friendship mostly...
In hopes to find a real Man!!
 feesie

Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 148
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Posted: 5/10/2007 3:26:32 PM
the way i see it is age is just a number its all about how u feel
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 149
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:06:09 AM
Feesie.. twenty years is something else, now sweetie, you could be my Son I did take this as a compliment, (as she says this blushing)..I wish you were a bit older as you are nicer than most on here...But as we chatted about our notes.. I will keep you on my favs, as I think you deserve someone special... Don't give up Jeff..

Woman do get a second wind in their late forties.. it's a proven fact..and it only get better from there..sorry guys..we may choose to use hair color..or whatever, lol.. but hey..our energy levels get waaaaay up there...!! If not, there is something wrong. & maybe get a physical. Again, my JMPO

Pony, I still have that Buttercream Egg of yours..seriously..from Easter.. I froze it. So the first time I get to meet you I will have to remember to bring it along OK sweetie.. Hope all is well with you.. no worries be happy lil' one..((hugs))

POST EDIT for wire fly*** how's it going cali?? so good to see ya, and that you came back!
 LifeLessOrdinary

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 150
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:21:53 AM
Sighs....................................Sighs again.....................................and sigh

I have always dated older women even in my 20's, 4-5 yrs not much of a difference. But still I don't see why its a question unless ya say he's 20 something and shes 40 something, I would have to look at it from a conquest point of view or something. Heck I dont know women are so funny sometimes .
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