feesie
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/23/2007 7:26:10 AM | well thank u all but its like this im lookin and im lonley but ill wait for the right one to come by and ill know and as youngser girls naw not for me i want a woman im to mature for people my age  | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/23/2007 8:15:37 AM | c'mon now feesie.....there's a girl around your age that would love you in a heartbeat.
now...ladies of all ages...preferrably the older ones (older than 27) check out feesie...he's a babydoll and you would just love him. it's just too bad and feesie understands why it is that i'm not able to give him a chance at romance...but we are very good friends in here.
artsy, i'm not sure of what happened to the guy up here in the coal regions, i don't know who he is and i'm not asking who he is......all i can say is that it's his loss that he's not mature enough to handle the fact with regards to family and every thing else that i've read. it's his loss and your gain....your gain knowing that he showed that he wasn't mature enough for you prior to your meeting. keep your chin up girl. | |
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feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 178 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/23/2007 11:08:59 AM | | well see its not like people arent intrested ju st not the ones im lookin for they still live at home dont work dont have anything dont have kids and people just dont understand i am so much more mature than people my age they still have a lot of growing the war in iraq and the army made me grow up quick | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/23/2007 7:51:27 PM | I am baffled to why this subject gets so much attention...age does not necessarily equate mental maturity.....If a dude is chasing older women it either means he wants a quick piece of @ss or she looks young, healthy and attractive and he is willing to explore a few years older than him. At the same time he may explore someone a few years younger than him as well.
If a dude is 28 and he is chasing a woman who is 38 it is because he feels he can manipulate for a f*ck buddy. He sees her as desperate and wanting to feel young again. He knows there is too much work to manipulate some young chick and still be left with blue balls. He knows that some of the older women chasing young men seem too quite willing to spread themselves. He believes she is more willing to explore more sexually.
Now the woman looking for the younger man can either accept it as a fling or be prepared after he has his 2 or 3 months of fun he will dump her. If this happens save those threads about how men are such players.....you bought that!!!!
This is the truth ladies and don't let any guy fool you. It is very doubtful a guy will stretch beyond 7 years his age for anything longterm and if he is considering someone longterm that is 7 years his elder it is because she was blessed with a very young body and he can rationalize she will live out past her years. I do know of a woman 7 years my elder that is fabulous for her age. But I see her more my age and don't think her as older. That is a rare exception.
My best advice is find someone you feel most compatible with for a lifetime and stop spinning your wheels in some pipe dream. Most likely that is someone within 5 years give or take. | |
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feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 182 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/24/2007 7:47:36 AM | | well the way i see it is not all mena re the same as not all woman are the same so u cant say hes tellin the truth about all of us maybe about what he kno9ws of himself and some other people but not all so dont say its the truth | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:08:40 PM | | Well when you ask the question of why someone would be interested in someone twice their age and you get the exact same canned response from all of them, you can't help but think that way. I have never heard one original or sincere sounding response to that question. And what he says makes sense. A guy in their twenties may look at a woman in their forties and like what they see, but let's be realistic. It would never be anything that would be a long lasting relationship. Think about what that person will look like when they are sixty or seventy years old and the young guy is now looking for someone younger than him. He's not going to want to be with someone who is twenty years or more older than him then. I know quite a few men and woman that look great at that age, and I hope I look half as well as them when I hit that age. But look on these sites and look at the ages of the women guys in their forty's are looking for, not someone twice their age. They are going younger. If you're looking for something light and fun, then by all means ladies go for it. Just don't expect it to turn into anything more. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/24/2007 7:18:07 PM | Feesie....come on dude....I don't buy that....you are 26 years old. I would say maybe as high as 33 you would honestly consider a longterm relationship. Beyond that you may think you would but once your mind settled down from the infatuation and this was looking like a long term commitment I can almost bet you would re-think. I am not saying there might be that one exception but it is very rare. In most cases if a guy fell for an older lady it was not because he was scouting older women it was just something that happened.
I have to agree with Barb....there are alot of canned responses in here...sorry a spade is a spade and I call them as I see them. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/25/2007 2:17:38 PM | Not me Optimismnlaughter.
It was a foregon conclusion that i have decided to remain on my own for the next couple of yrs. Life is less complicated that way and I can do what I want to do. IE: travel, a new 4x4, pay bills, look at buying a house. Hell who knows if i pass the nursing boards maybe move back to Pa........ hmmm well not to quickly unless given a reason. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 5/25/2007 5:19:39 PM |  I may you a reason.. but all for all right reasons..stay tuned !!
This has nothing to do with me either..so don't even get any silly ideas..any of you match-makers!! | |
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feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 189 | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 6/20/2007 9:37:53 AM | | awwww Paul, you know we all wish you all the best in life...... but us PA gals well no others like us!!!! when you do/if you do you better let me know, im first in line for that special hug!!!!!! I miss them. I think about you often hun............. and remember im older ;) | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:50:04 PM | I am 56 years old and have actually gone out with 3 men in their 20s, after they intrigued me with their profiles. They were very nice but it felt as if they were on a job interview, trying to prove how mature they were. When I realized that some of these guys were born the year I went to college, all bets were off!
Also, the context of the times we grew up in were so different. To them, the war in Vietnam was something they read in a history book; it actually shaped my thinking and actions back in the late 60s and early 70s. And, yes, it's like going out with your son (mine will be 20 in July). Incidentally, I've had the same situation on several other dating sites....when asked, the guys claim that they like mature women but can't explain why.
The one thing we did share was a love of music and even had some overlapping taste. But when I asked one guy what he did for fun on weekends, he said, "I go out drinking with my buddies and we pick up girls." Can you imagine a 56-year old woman wanting to tag along??? | |
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feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 193 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 6/25/2007 9:19:41 AM | | lol well see thats the problem im a old soul i dont wanna go out drinkin with my buddies and pick up girls i wanna be with my someone special maybe go to movies to dinner and just chat sit at home and cuddle to a good movie | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 6/29/2007 12:33:49 PM | | I'm really not replying to this particular message but to all of the messages in this forum that refer to Nigeria. I've met many younger men from many countries in my lifetime, and matter of fact not one was from Nigeria. Many many men younger (than me) are also from the U.S. of America---they, simply prefer woman older---for all reasons other than monetary. Being a "master of understanding the written language" it was plain for me to see the underlying thread of unjust, unfair and false assumptions made about Nigeria. Thanks for hearing MY opinion . Have a good day. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 6/29/2007 12:42:15 PM | | I'm really not replying to this particular message but to all of the messages in this forum that refer to Nigeria. I've met many younger men from many countries in my lifetime, and matter of fact not one was from Nigeria. Many many men younger (than me) are also from the U.S. of America---they, simply prefer woman older---for all reasons other than monetary. Being a "master of understanding the written language" it was plain for me to see the underlying thread of unjust, unfair and false assumptions made about Nigeria. Thanks for hearing MY opinion . Have a good day. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/3/2007 12:33:12 PM | | I personally don't mind younger men contacting me, but I'm just here for friends as my profile states. I have a 28 yr old son and would not date someone near his age, nor would I be rude to them just because they're younger. Most of them I have encountered are actually much more polite than a lot of the men more my age. Besides, its cool to just chat with em! | |
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paul lmao I guess I will always be the OLDER one that was swept off her feet at one time by a YOUNGER man