feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 201 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/23/2007 1:39:44 AM | lol well see thats the problem im a old soul i dont wanna go out drinkin with my buddies and pick up girls i wanna be with my someone special maybe go to movies to dinner and just chat sit at home and cuddle to a good movie  | |
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xJenax
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Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 202 | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/23/2007 8:11:32 PM | | Personally, a lot of us women in our 40's and 50's are looking great. We definately do not look like our mothers did at this age. I guess we should be flattered. Although I would never date a younger man. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/23/2007 9:03:56 PM | | I agree with you that people in general look younger than their parents did at our age, but it still doesn't mean that I would date someone in their 20's. I still believe in what I said in my earlier post. | |
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xJenax
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Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 206 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/24/2007 11:58:15 AM | Welcome to the forums Hans-solo. How about posting a pic for the ladies to see? There are a lot of good women in here and I'm sure they would love to see what a self-proclaimed genious looks like lol. Ladies this man definately has a way with words and likes verbal sparring as he showed me this morning. Was all in fun since I'm taken already but definately entertaining to say the least.   | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:19:55 AM | | I have no problem dateing younger men. I just don't want them to show up looking like a teenager and unable to hold a conversation. I have teenage children and don't want to feel like I am dateing their friends. Most of the men I have ment on here are younger and I've only heard from the men in Egypt that want to marry me. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/25/2007 4:26:22 PM | Overall, I take it on a person by person basis, and don't consider age at all.
Sometimes though when I do like older women its because they are not afraid to tell you how to feel.
Also in the bedroom, they know what they want. They have learned how to take care of their bodies and are not afraid to tell you what their needs are.
They are generally better at communication.
But you cant make too many generalizations. Some young woman are spunky enough to be open and honest with you. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:28:31 PM | Yes I prefer an older woman, I am guilty of said crime. Better communication in "most" cases not in all. I have tried both sides of the fences the youngest 29 was thrown for a loop by this one the oldest one 53 and continue to date age should'nt be a factor as long as you love each other and honest and open and happy what more could you want? Besides women live longer than us men. So give it up for the older lass's | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/25/2007 9:37:19 PM | | How True that is about the Nigerians, but Im actually getting ones from artists that say they have home businesses and would like to have you help them and cannot use money to cash thru their banks in U.K., so be careful about those people, some are couples too saying that. Pain in the A**. i have a friend who was suckered into Mystery Shopper stuff and she got the check of 3grand and cashed thru her bank, she no longer works for that bank. Women out there.... you need to be smart from all sides of life. dont believe everything you hear and everyone who tells you stuff. Figure out what makes sense and go with your sixth sense in your gut and you will be fine. These little guys online, they are parasites and want money, sex from us more mature women. Thats the bottom line. do not take them seriously, thanks | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/25/2007 9:40:35 PM | yes yes yes you hit the nail on the head didn't you?
These little guys online, they are parasites and want money, sex from us more mature women. Thats the bottom line. do not take them seriously, thanks
I would qoute you b ut that would take to long. Your in the wrong thread.
Trust me when I say older gals are great one here can vouche for me | |
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feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 212 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/31/2007 8:08:06 AM | lol well see thats the problem im a old soul i dont wanna go out drinkin with my buddies and pick up girls i wanna be with my someone special maybe go to movies to dinner and just chat sit at home and cuddle to a good movie  | |
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xJenax
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Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 213 | |
| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 7/31/2007 9:20:15 AM | | Feesie have you tried posting just that in your profile and letting older women know that you would prefer to date them rather than someone younger? Don't know if it would work or not but it's just a suggestion. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 8/1/2007 11:40:03 AM | wel mine pappie onced tolled me that ifn the youngins start comin by they only wants 1 of 3 thangs, sex, money or boof. So I imagine it might just work the other way around in some cases. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 8/7/2007 5:44:10 PM | Oedipus Complex, Maybe? Half the time these kids write and I don't even know what they are saying.
Can someone please tell me what " hit me up sometime " means? Is ok with their mother if I do? | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 8/8/2007 7:55:44 AM |
Can someone please tell me what " hit me up sometime " means? Is ok with their mother if I do?
lmao at this because I get that line alot on my space, and also these:
"chat at me"
"lets chill sometime"
"lets kick it sometime"
"lets hang out"
"you know, we can hang out and just make out" (is "make out" even a word us "grownups" use anymore?) | |
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feesie
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Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 217 | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 8/11/2007 9:28:34 PM | | I am not at all pleased that women my age are harvesting the younger guys. What is left over for me? I think it is almost incestuous that wome would even condsider having a relationship with younger men who are old enough to be their sons | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 8/18/2007 8:57:08 PM | | I WISH some good looking younger men would contact me. I belong to another dating site and the only ones who contact me are the old men. I lead a very active lifestyle and the last thing I need is to have someone have a heart attack while I'm with them. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:02:33 AM | I guess I've had the best of both worlds. I grew up in central Penna. Mostly catholics. At 18 I left because I felt the women were to uptight, screwd up and to straight for me. My mother had 8 kids and acted like she never had sex. She tried to lay that sick shit on me. I left and did some traveling and ended up in Woodstock ny. Sex drugs rock n roll. I was 21 and my first lover was a 45 year old--very hot and sexy and we banged our brains out. Then my 20 something lovers. Life is to experience not deny it. The fetish is what the mind lacks till its fullfilled. We become healthier people that way.
At 45 I had my 20 something lovers-great sex tight skin and boobs. Yet they couldn't be there emotionally for me..Thats life. I guess from there its finding a lover, friend comrade-lol. To go to that ole fishing hole in the sky-lol. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 1/20/2008 4:25:04 PM | | Younger guys vs. Older women! The world is a lonely, heartbroken, and super stressed out place that's extremely NOT easy to be in all the time . (It was always accepted when it was an older guy and a much younger girl).. I love to enjoy life, all of it! All that is has to offer, and I desire to be doing it with someone that has somewhat the same interests as I do. Whom ever decided to write the book of laws and Etiquette on how to think, feel or even act or react at a certain age is just a matter of opinion and outdated superficial society expectations! When you are searching for someone to be with in this life, it's all about what your heart and soul needs, wants or desires! I have met guys that are 25, that are more mature, stable and more fun, adventurous and outgoing than a 42 year old, same as I have met guys 25 that act as if they are ready for a rocking chair and need viagra. It is sort of like my age verses my interests and my attitude. I am not ready to just "kick back"..or just curl up and die. I take care of myself, I work fulltime, have a home and pay for everything myself, but there are so many things to do and places to go and good times left to have, that a lot of guys my age just don't have the heart for. I am looking for someone that "I" can enjoy life with. If that means that I'm 46 and he's 25 oh well.. if it works then who cares! "Happiness" is far more important than the superficial opinions and views of a pathetic society that survives life at the minimum, worried about what others with think or say, and going through life as a puppet or in a coma. People search and find who they can communicate with and "LOVE" or be "LOVED BY". It was never written that love was to be influenced or determined by the age or anything else.. The only regrets that you will have in life, is the chances that you didn’t take…Live Loud, Love Quietly, Die Happy! | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 1/27/2008 2:13:19 PM | Dare I declare the rule of thumb... Again, please don't throw heavy objects my way ..
This is simply because women tend to prefer older men.. Period..
Well, that and men tend to be babies :) Take it for what it is, nothing more than norms.
As far as I know no study has ever been conducted to determine a conclusive correlation/causation between relationship success and age differences.
Males age Womans Age Range
18 16 TO 18
19 17 TO 19
20 17 TO 20
21 18 TO 21
22 18 TO 22
23 19 TO 23
24 19 TO 25
25 20 TO 26
26 20 TO 27
27 21 TO 28
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 2/1/2008 12:59:50 AM | younger women are still so into their own image so superficial and shallow for the most part and are the furthest thing from real "In my eyes anyway" until they hit their 30s and or are 30 lbs 1 divorce and 2.3 kids later.. then suddenly after being knocked down a peg or 2 they seem to finally come around. Its sad to think some women have to be damaged to finally see what real guys are all about.. the same real guys they snubbed for years.. in favor of some jerk who managed to be the one who damaged them.
also as a side note.. most guys worth their salt would rather date a mature level headed woman as apposed to some 24 yr old child who still uses the word "LIKE" as a form of vocabulary.
I know I would. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 2/1/2008 6:39:49 AM | "real guys" airbrush? can you tell me exactly what "real guys" are and where? i've been contacted by guys older and younger and some of them were nice but chose to stop communicating with me and some guys were just plain and simple jerks with their sexual innuendos and accusations. i know of 1 guy in here that is just a sweetheart and another younger guy in here that's nice. would i date them? i'm sorry i would have to say no because as of right now they're in their sexual stages yet and some younger guys want to have a child and i'm no longer in the child baring age. am i sexually active? not at the present time since i haven't been dating anyone in over a year.
some younger men are contacting older women for many reasons. sugar momma: to be spoiled by the older woman, mommy: to feel the warmth and comforting that their mother gave them with the addition of being sexual (but not with their mom), maturity: as being compared to some women in their 20's (younger than they are) the woman is still in her partying stage (no pun intended to younger women), financial securities: some older women may already be financially secure and more thrifty with the ways they spend their money...some men would love to have money thrown in their direction while others may look at it as means of retirement and still able to enjoy themselves.
that's just in my opinion. | |
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| Why so many younger men contacting older women??
Posted: 2/1/2008 11:29:46 AM | OK fair question.. country girl
My definition of a real guy as pertaining to this issue..
someone who has seen his share of difficulties only to have triumphed over them without the use of excess money cheating lying or depending on parents and or friends to get them where they want to be..
Example.. lets meet Steve..coming from a predominantly polish Irish German family. hes an average guy working at the meat packing plant who is striving to go to college one day "if he could just afford it" he has a quick wit and has the means to work out problems and never gives up on his dreams. He may never make into college but years later he finds he can apply himself towards a small business of his own creation. and be successful. the thing is most of his life he always seemed to have trouble finding a mate.. during the crucial years.. hes been spurned so much he has developed an almost hatred for the whole dating routine.
However he finally makes it only after he married a woman he felt he had to settle for because after all who else would ever be interested.. right?
He now finds after his divorce the sea of women out there who have been through marriage and are now divorced with kids of their own. It is this type of woman who seems to be on nearly every profile on sites like this.. the younger women are still in their own little self absorbed world of guys in every direction hitting on them. they haven't been through real life just yet. and don't appreciate or even want to take the time to look past the surface of an average guy.
Lets meet Vito,
Vito was born into a prominent Italian family.. he cheats all through school and constantly has friends who he parties with constantly.. through his many connections he manages to land a gravy job with his uncle vinny.
This guy seems to always have a nice car.. AND/OR he always seems to find a woman willing to drive him around. and always seems to get the girl because after all hes the very image of what young women seem to want.. but years later after finally settling down with the girl he finally seems to respect.. they go through the traditional 7 yr itch.. by then maybe having kids.. cheat on each other and ultimately divorce.
by this time he has little clue as to what to do in being a survivor on his own let alone make his own meals.
but have no pity for Vito.. he will eventually find another woman to cook for him.
Meanwhile Steve is experienced in taking care of himself and is astonished of the many women who suddenly see him as worth having.. these women are 35+ and have kids from a previous marriage however they are finally mature enough to see past the surface and able to recognize the hard core qualities in Steve.
vito MAY BE tasty eye candy but thats where the illusion ends.. this guy to me is not a real guy.. real guys have battle scars from life and have overcome. to me they are the winners.
I just think its a shame that women take so long to realize that what they wanted wasn't exactly what they really needed.
Granted life isn't so black and white and these 2 examples are very extreme and exaggerated. but its to make a point in answering your question.
AT AGE 30 i WAS A LOT LIKE STEVE mostly 35 - 45 yr old women seemed to be in abundance for me and were a lot easier to communicate with than the women of my own age. | |
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