| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:24:23 PM | If I am dating I am not having Sex when it goes from dating to relationship...then its okay!
So in my case it might be never. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:28:49 PM | | Um, try having sex before the date. Yeah, just get the uncertainty out of the way right away! | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:35:19 PM | Depends when you feel comfortable enough to have sex...
whether it is the 1st date or the 100th. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:35:22 PM | Most women are OK with sex after 7 hours of time spent with each other. This can be addative time. 1.25 hours on the first meet. .5 hours on the phone. 2.5 hour date. .25 hour phone call three days later. 3 hour date in future. When the comfort is there then she is ready. She just has to know that he will be around for a while after sex. If not then he has to deal with a lot of Last Minute Resistance before sex......Comfort building is key. Also you might have sex with a guy A after two dates........then it will take 12 dates for guy B because he has somehow said in many different ways that he is long term material.....in that case women tend to hold back on the sex for 99 forevers and eventually lose him. Funny how that works. COMFORT is the answer here. Some guys just suck at building comfort with women. I am quite different.
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:38:12 PM | | I think putting any step of a relationship (even if just sex) shouldn't have a set timeline. It all needs to be when both parties are ready. If any kind of time is set on it then there is pressure. Anything brought on by pressure is not a good thing. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:39:47 PM | What date is sex okay?.......Any date you damn well please. It isn't gonna matter what you do and when as long as it is what YOU wanted to do. I am sick and tired of trying to figure out which guys want what. I will have sex if I am in the mood to have sex. No game playing no farting around. It is gonna be up to me. I just am realistic enough to know that if I decide to have sex on the first date that I am prepared for no other dates and will treat it as a one night stand with them having the option to phone me again if they would like. We are no longer living in a society that frowns on sex...you only have to see our tv shows and commercials that do nothing but promote it....therefore I am not going to worry about my reputation. Anyone who truly knows me, knows I am respectable loyal and fun to be with, a night of spreading my legs is not going to change that factor. It is whether or not I can be a mature adult about it. I am who I am and am no longer gonna apologize for it.  | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 8:36:04 PM | | People place too many rules on dating, sex and love. Why can't people decide what is right for them in the moment of their experience? Societal standards and expectations make it nearly impossible for people to trust themselves without a shame or guilt attached. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 8:38:02 PM | | There should never be a set date for sex........just go with the flow and whenever your both ready | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/22/2006 9:38:38 AM | | exactly,again,lol. life is to short,enjoy the moments that you are given.so i guess its up to you and your date. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/23/2006 4:19:48 PM | Hmm, I think it would be up to mutual wanting.
If it is there, but usually falls to the gals, cuz most men are horny, and a great voice, personality, mind, and legs confuse men, sometimes.
Because women got strong Pimp Juice ohhhhhh weeeee ooooo. Lol.
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/23/2006 4:27:57 PM | I think whenever you feel comfortable whether it's the first or 30th.
However, ladies remember just cause ya had sex doesn't mean you are in a relationship!! And it may hinder your chances of getting into one if that's what you want.
If he @#$%s you and chucks you don't get all crazy and call him an ***hole. You took a chance knowing this could happen. He may "not be that into you"!! | |
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