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| Have you had to BURY one of your kids?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:18:39 PM | Yes, I have! I dropped my son on his head at 3 months old. He had a long hard life untill he passed on at 20 yrs old. I lost my son to complications in a surgical operation. Its a long story I care not to talk about anylonger, but I do understand what it is to loose a child. I've had to deal with my issues over my first born baby boy for many years. It cost me a lot of time trying to sort through the confusion of my mental torture. Do yourself the favor of seeking out counciling in any and all avenues you can find to work through this. The world is toooo heavy to carry on your shoulders with topics such as this.
I found the lousiest way to escape my desaster with my son. I dove into a gallon jug of whiskey every chance I got. Only when I sobered up, the pain was still there. So, I drank that much more the next time I chose to escape. each time got worse. I got mean and nasty with many people that I cared for just to shut them up and let me alone over the idea.
Only these last few years after his death have I found any release in my soul to feel like moving forward.
Don't kill yourself as I did for all those years. Life is just to short to do it alone. | |
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| Have you had to BURY one of your kids?
Posted: 6/13/2008 3:24:59 AM | I have,my angel was 7 weeks old and she died from SIDS,cot death, and one of my twin daughters the same year.I thought i was never going to be able to lift my head again,mothers day was 2 weeks later and it was terrible and to this day i dislike mothers day but put a smile on or my subsequent children.
To lose a child is THE worst thing ever and my heart goes out to each and every one of you
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| Have you had to BURY one of your kids?
Posted: 9/3/2008 1:06:18 PM | | YEAIDD, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure that in with your greif is a lot of anger mixed with it. I personally think that you should get counseling to deal with such a huge loss. I lost a child at birth. I had gestational diabetes and my doctor did not watch me as closely as he should have. I continued to get bigger (or rather the baby did) and I was huge right out front. He saw no need to do a c--section since I had just dilivered a 10#8oz baby 18 months before without problems. He waited and waited and I was so miserable but finaly went into labor and was unable to deliver him. I got in trouble and me and the baby both nearly died. They did an emergency c-section and delivered a stillborn 11# 2 oz baby boy, perfectly formed, nothing wrong with him except that he was post-term and my placenta had gave way. It was hard for me but I am sure that it was not nearly as hard as what you are going through. My way of dealing with my greif, even to this day is that I plan to see him again one day. I plan to be reunited with him in heaven. I know that this type of thinking sounds so corny to a lot, but it works for me. I recently lost my mom and I sat at her bedside for several days before she passed away and we discussed her coming death and her thoughts on it and the things that she wanted me to know and would never be able to tell me again. She said that she looked forward to seeing my dad again, along with her parents and siblings and my older brother that died before I was born. She said that she will be seeing my baby son and knows that we will all be together again someday. Like I said, it may sound corny to alot but it brings comfort to my heart. | |
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| Have you had to BURY one of your kids?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:53:45 PM | | You have my sympathy. While I have never had to bury my child, thank God, I understand loss. Have you talked with a grief counselor or therapist? What about antidepressants to get you over the hump? | |
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| Have you had to BURY one of your kids?
Posted: 3/23/2009 6:47:39 AM | | This is the first time I've looked at this thread in two and one half years. I can't believe people are still feeling sorry for YEAIDD. I suggest everybody read messages numbered 105, 110, 113, and 114 to see him for what he is. | |
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