| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/9/2006 11:11:50 PM | To 'anotheraviator': Yeah, you definitely lucked out on that one... Some of us need a bit of work on your part :) As for the 15 minutes being too long.... I beg to differ with that one. The actual intercourse is the grand finale of the foreplay, however it should be performed with care even greater than foreplay if you are striving to have a completely satisfied and happy woman next to you. For a guy, he's going to cum, no matter what. You can light a fire under his ass, but he's cumming within a few minutes, that's for sure. But for women, we don't know what we are getting when transitioning from foreplay to intercourse. Therefore, you should be extra attentive. Besides, all these stories don't really matter that much. For women, intercourse is much more than just 'cumming'. We appreciate the bond, the warmth of another body next to ours, and we can have a highly satisfying experience even without cumming. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 3:32:30 PM | I was not stating that there was a 15 minute time limit on good sex, but what I was pointing out is that 2 hour sex is not normal (its fine now and then). Sure it can be done.. speaking from the guy... easily... but would there be much enjoyment in it? Not really... It would mean mentally removing yourself from the pleasure several times... I prefer to keep the intensity there throughout the entire session...allowing my mind to be completely turned on.
I do believe in foreplay... but in actual thrusting penetration, I don't think you should be there for hours... ouch..
There is also a difference between a woman who is "holding out" and a woman who "Can't"
My personal preference is a woman in tune... it's a fact that orgasm is all in the head. If it's taking a long long time it's usually because she wasn't 'in the right mood' to begin with...
..when you're in tune with your body (you can get yourself off easily manually - not just with a toy).. and your partner has you so horny that your panties are soaked, your breathing is heavy, and your body is trembling at his every touch.... it won't take you an hour. Remember.. sex starts in the mind first....
Now if he's one of those eagar beaver types... and wham, bam, in it slams... then... you may NEVER get there. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 3:42:46 PM | I am blushing at this topic! Let my shaky hands type my reply!!! The act is the closing of what should have taken atleast an hour to get to. I know that being in love is the greatest feeling in the world, so when you are with that person you feel that way about, my response is ...." which time" lol | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 7:21:06 PM | | i think the average is 17mins??? me i like fore play for 20-30mins and then when we are warmed up...the deed??? could last from 10mins to an hour or more. stop for a smoke and some fluids... and start again...back to back is the only way to go! way to many positions not to try them all!! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 7:32:11 PM | | Finally a fun thread..I was just on one that wasn't so fun! I hate to break it to everyone but the average intercourse time is 5-7 mins ...just intercourse time(foreplay not included TG!) I've also read that the average penis is 5-7 inches long and the average vaginal canal is 4-5 inches..ouch, no wonder its so complicated sometimes! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 11:06:54 PM |
d say good sex is about an hours fooling around and about 15 minutes of the actual deed!!!
thats what i think lol
I'd say you've never even had sex. Shame you've never been with someone like me. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 11:09:00 PM |
I was not stating that there was a 15 minute time limit on good sex, but what I was pointing out is that 2 hour sex is not normal (its fine now and then). Sure it can be done.. speaking from the guy... easily... but would there be much enjoyment in it? Not really.
Congratulations, you don't know what you're talking about. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/10/2006 11:10:22 PM |
For a guy, he's going to cum, no matter what. You can light a fire under his ass, but he's cumming within a few minutes, that's for sure. But for women, we don't know what we are getting when transitioning from foreplay to intercourse
So many ignorant people..... so little time. You make me lose faith in humankind. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/11/2006 4:15:14 AM |
Congratulations, you don't know what you're talking about.
Ayup. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/14/2006 12:27:19 AM | If it's taking a long long time it's usually because she wasn't 'in the right mood' to begin with... Nope, not at all. T u n i n g takes time and it doesn't happen at the whim of one's clicked fingers. Yes, I can speak only for myself, but the longer & profound tuning is, when body & mind is nourished, the better g r a n d f i n a l e. And then, not sure whose last breath we would be talking about?
Remember.. sex starts in the mind first.... ... mind that sets the body on fire. But SOLO is not my 'gusto', whether we're having in mind building up the anticipation ~ momentum ........................................................................ DUET is my kind of performance, the only one indeed. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/19/2006 6:54:01 PM | I'm sorry lady but listen here I'm 53 now and never had a problem and I can compete with a lot of 30's and 40's no problem I would even say that I'm better now than when I was 30 so don't paint everyone with the same brush please. And if you want proof lol just contact me lol Vic | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/19/2006 6:55:43 PM | I'm sorry lady but listen here I'm 53 now and never had a problem and I can compete with a lot of 30's and 40's no problem I would even say that I'm better now than when I was 30 so don't paint everyone with the same brush please. And if you want proof lol just contact me lol that is to ritzygypsy oct 8/2006 lol
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/19/2006 8:34:30 PM | this whole thing is totally subjective and dependant on many factors.
positions - i know in some positions i climax quicker than others. doggy is quicker, cowgirl is slower.
condoms - wearing a condom makes it last longer (only been without with one partner was long-term with). even different types of condoms can vary the length.
toxins - alcohol and certain drugs can prolong things.
woman - let's face it, just like not all men are created equally, all women are not equal either. some are tighter, some know tricks, and some just have that special something.
foreplay - the amount and type of foreplay can vary your length that you last.
technique - there are techniques to lasting longer. taking a short break, such as going down on her or introducing a toy, can allow you to last much longer.
rounds - round one can usually go faster than other rounds. round two or three, or when i was younger, four, five and six, can last a lot longer. although the climax is much less intense and dramatic.
so it can vary greatly, just with the same two people. with the same partner i've had quickie under five minute sex and then sex that lasts hours other times.
only problem, the longer it goes, the more you hurt the next day.  | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/19/2006 9:31:58 PM | If some guy tried to screw me for "hours" I'd shoot him
Seriously, no woman wants to and no man can screw for hours. Unless your into Tantra or something similar it just doesn't happen..........Unless you're drunk or hopped up
Why do people feel the need to lie about the longevity of their sex? | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/19/2006 9:39:17 PM | Alright now..... If you can read all these responces, You can go on the net and read for free about "tantra", it helps to know how to Breath........ do your homework people.  | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/19/2006 10:32:34 PM | | One thing alot of ment won't tell you but you probably already know is if a man has been sexually inactive for a long time then intitially he may not last long. I have had that happen and have had many times where she got sore and we had to stop. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/20/2006 1:26:09 AM | | doesn't it depend on how much time you have? sometimes all night, sometimes a quicky,...both can be just as good! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/20/2006 6:04:49 AM | I'm glad you asked cause i always wondered if i was a freak.. and now i know. I have sex on average for 1 1/2 hours. an hour being "penetration" or swimming up stream. longest would probably be abotu 6 hours switching on and off from foreplay to "insertion". Now i know why my girl only wants it every 4 days like clock work. well also in the morning she never says no in the morning. Side question what is with that? Are there certain times that women just want sex no matter what. i mean i can literally tell the girl she is a beast faced lame **** and she still will want it... well, as long as it is in the morning; i am still getting raped. That's right raped. i have woken up to some nice surprises. The morning sex part has been pretty global through out my love carreer but the frequency of need has varied.
Here's the secret guys around 45 to 1 hour the knumbness starts to kick in. Now if you can still keep the bat swinging you are good for another hour. Just tell yourself all you have to do is hold out til that kicks in. Also try switching to positions that you don't personally enjoy or are painful for you .. but she likes alot.
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/20/2006 6:10:36 AM | btw you guys out there talking about your lady getting sore aren't paying enough attention to what she needs man. it's not all hard fast deep dudes. you got to let the juice loose. and stop sucking up all the air with your breathing exercises it's sex not labor. if you first meet a girl and are worried about cumming quick then use lots of foreplay. if you pop quick then you weren't comfortable. Odds are you go right for the puntang and when she starts to show that she is loving it you pop.. well make her love it ahead of time so everything else is gravy and it will stop the gravy.
i am the sex god it's confirmed and you confirmed it. woot. Now i must make haste break up with my women and fulfill my duty to the ladies.
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 10/20/2006 8:42:57 PM | to taluvs2laugh:
I suppose I made a mistake by posting that message in a thread titled "Duration of intercourse". I was referring to the entire range of bedroom dynamics rather than just the intercourse itself. Much of the fun is the anticipation of it! | |
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