Tayven
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Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 76 | |
| Duration of intercourse
Posted: 7/27/2006 11:52:47 PM | Really good sex (from first touch, for we all know great sex starts with sensual flirting) is at least an hours worth of fooling around and each person cumming at least once before penetration...
After that... Well, it should last for (at the very least) a half an hour.... And, should be more.
Tayven | |
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| Duration of intercourse
Posted: 7/28/2006 2:59:25 PM | I've found that with age (I'm 52) I take a lot longer to cum. So that means the usual long time spent in foreplay, followed by penetration, and the actual act could last a very very long time, maybe an hour or more. I use restraint such as mental tricks (thinking of baseball) to prevent premature climax, but since women can have multiple orgasms, I will focus on her until I know I won't last much longer, then I'll let myself go for my final home-stretch, at which time even THAT may last much longer than before. (with my partner possibly orgasming again, due to my obvious increased excitement)
If you know exactly how many hours your lovemaking lasted, then you were paying too much attention to the clock. (and not enough to the c*ck)
I'm finding sex more enjoyable at this age, simply because the machinery lasts much longer than before. Why end such a nice experience early, when it can be made to last for hours? | |
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Posted: 7/28/2006 4:58:24 PM |
Why end such a nice experience early, when it can be made to last for hours?
Because, as a lot of women have stated, the actual penetration gets uncomfortable after a long time. I could handle hours upon hours of foreplay, however. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 6:22:44 AM |
Because, as a lot of women have stated, the actual penetration gets uncomfortable after a long time. I could handle hours upon hours of foreplay, however.
I'm sorry, I missed that in the previous posts. I hadn't considered that, and hadn't met a woman who felt the discomfort. I should also mention that I vary the penetration - sometimes its just shallow entry and almost total exiting, or it may be entering from one side, then from the other, it seems to reach new areas inside the woman, and of course the 'standard' very deep thrusts, usually that's what leads to my own orgasm.
I agree that hours upon hours of foreplay are the best part. Patience has it's own reward for guys who can make the experience last like that. I sure couldn't when I was 18. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 8:21:12 AM | | It can last as long as I want it to last, when I am close to cumming, just change positions or think of an ex wife, that usually works. lol When she has had numerous orgasms, I give her a break. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 10:46:06 AM | Guys have to learn how to control themselves  I'm glad I know how to control myself at a young age Foreplay helps alot, there are different ways to hold off, I heard theres a spot that if the girl grabs your balls if you tell her your about to cum, you wont go. I have yet to know if that works. Myself ,its pure communication with my girl  | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 10:51:45 AM | | For some unfortunate chaps... 7 seconds has been reported. To last... takes practice, learning what each other likes and not making your ejaculation the top priority or cumming for that matter... what are you having intercourse for... hopefully not to settle a score because she let you take her out. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 12:24:57 PM | | I'd say 45 mins. Half hour of foreplay, 10 mins of penetration, and 5 mins. of her in the kitchen making me a sandwich. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 12:32:11 PM | (NOTE TO SELF) Don't sleep with Stever298 ^^^^ OMG, thats weak!
If that's all you've got, it'd hardly be worth it, darling.
and whats with the 1950's attitude? | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 1:13:18 PM | I'll show you! I'll show you all!!
*runs and hides in corner crying and curled up in the fetal position*
I guess you couldn't sense the sarcasm. I thought maybe the whole 'making me a sandwich' line would've given it away. Sorry. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2006 1:25:46 PM | | After I play with her clit and she is about to cum, I slowly slide in and it give hers great orgasims and ladies to feel a man cum into them. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 6:48:22 PM | | Just as my lady is peeking, I speed up , tickling her clit and when I cum into her, she loves feeling my juices as I feels her, the I slow down and hold her down and watch have tons of pleasure. Her pubic hair is also a turn on for me. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 8:35:56 PM | I would say roughly an hour for yours truly...just being blunt about it....thats about my time frame....thats not too much or too little...its what most have told me was just right to get the job done....then time to eat ....afterall I have worked up an honest appetite...at least I think so | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 9:51:08 PM | | Ok I'll be honest. I have been with lots of women, Older, younger, bigger, smaller, so-so looking, too damn fine looking. From the prude to the WHERES MY SEAT BELT. I know what I like and what to run from. So I am experienced, but don't tell anyone k.... And yes experience matters for duration as well as setting the atmosphere. Women are very much like guys on the time frame. Some like it for 5 mins and others 30 mins Most I find to be 1 hour plus and yes thats penetration. forplay extra postplay......Nite. "And thats all I've got to say about that". | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 12:50:49 AM |
Cheap Trick Fan wrote,
"I don't call ten minutes a quickie. I've rarely had a guy last longer than five minutes....sometimes less than two!!"
She's right. The guys just lie about duration as well as size. The researches show less than 5 minutes.
What research? Please do share the the references.
If by "sex" you mean concentrated fast thrusting by the man in the missionary position until he ejaculates, then 5 mins is probably accurate. If this is your sex life, then you need to open your mind a bit. Personally when I have sex I like a lot of foreplay, kissing all over, oral, varying the speed of penetration, changing position. Each of these things make the feelings build. Usually I make my partner cum using oral sex (most women can't cum otherwise) then concentrate more on penetration, since it seems to feel nicer for a woman just after she has cum...
I didn't mean to make that sound so mechanical - it was just an instance. What I'm saying is, sex can last as long as you both want it to. Cues like, "I want to feel you cum inside me" or "I want to cum inside you" or "make me cum" can help! Communcation, even if just a few breathy requests or moans, makes a big difference!!! | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 12:53:33 AM | Original Poster.......
Porn is edited. They simply shoot the first scene with the guy shhooting his full load, then shoot several scenes thereafter and edit the movie to look like the guy bust a nutt after 45 minutes. | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 12:56:12 PM | You're exactly right. It depends on if you are equally involved in sex. I've had women who just expect me to do all the work, well, thats when it lasts tops 5 mins. When you find the right person, then you can make it last as long as you both want. | |
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KWDGuy
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Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 94 | |
| Duration of intercourse
Posted: 8/2/2006 3:33:17 PM | It varies on many factors... how much foreplay, no distractions, how tired each is, if true give and take, and attitude = if both want more than just once - pacing and charging together.
I have found myself having sex with my partner while sleeping; and have been woken up many times to having her on top.
Sex is great to relieve tension, get rid of headaches, and a good night's sleep.
making love is great for exercise, confidence, and general mutual trust, affection and appreciatation for each other.
Having sex times varies greatly; but making love is like time standing still.......... | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 4:38:40 PM | I just think its awfully droll how guys love to come onto these threads and illustrate to everyone what awesome majestic all night long machine gun rigid hard on guys.
Awesome entertainment :)
Having said that I agree with most of the girls here...the actual act of intercourse can be not as long as the whole overall experience. I think sex is an encounter with everything encompassed, not just a moment thing of course this is just me where I have to actually really like the person I am trying to get off and am not in it for just myself :)
(and in that case a lot of quickies is fine sometimes :)) | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 5:26:34 PM | | Intercourse is just part of the play....what happens beore is just as important and I like to take my time, as well as my partner to take his.(although nothing wrong with a quickie now and again ;) ) | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 5:59:29 PM | Depends on if the Hooker is charging me by the minute!
Then I'm a squirrel lookin for a quick nut! | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 7:03:37 PM | I guess it all depends on the person. I know my first time with any girl, i never cum,, intentionally, it's part of a nervous thing to,, but I mean if I can help it, i'd rather give her alot of oral while resting from the hole penetration part.....it's a great cardio work out,infact i'll probably run out of breathe after about 15 mins and have to take that rest.... the only time it's quick for me is when it's an awkward place, like a car or something...., sometimes too much stimulation at the wrong time will prevent the hole thing from happening for me.. it's frusterating, hahaha, but maybe i'll find a nice woman who's willing to learn and make the effort. If a woman doesn't make any effort, i'd rather not touch her at all for any purpose. | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 7:28:17 PM | | I read this post from start to finish and when i got to the last post and read what 40yovirgin wrote i busted out laughing and had to get up and walk around. If a moderator is reading this delete mine and lock it. there is no better finish to a thread. | |
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