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Posted: 8/4/2006 7:30:23 PM | | Wow, Did not realize people got off that quick for real? I started having sex at the age of 16 with my girlfriend who lived next door to me. We would do it every night and I would have 2 to 4 orgasms before sneaking back home, and every morning she would slide into my bed before we got on the bus for school. This went on for 3 years or more. It took forever for me to get off. (I think I was just out of bullets) and usually took a half hour to a hour or more before I could get off. As I got older and changed girlfriends I began to enjoy watching them loose their minds during multiple orgasms and I learned how to pause a sec or two to stop the flow of semen. And the more and longer I was having sex as time went on the more and more desensitized I became. And anytime I am with a new partner I have to force myself to cum. and sometimes I cannot even after 2 or 3 hours in many positions. When I was married for 8 years me and my wife would have sex 3 times a day 7 days a week. and on Sundays we would not even get out of bed until 5pm in the afternoon (I would usually stay errect the entire time) ( I always laughed at the viagra commecials that said to see a doctor if your errection lasted that 3 hours) I have had quite a few first time dates over the years that have turned into a sex fest that have lasted up to 8 hours with out me getting off and my erection never going down. (I have never taken viagra ever) . I have always been like this. A possible reason is I was circumcised as a infant by a Hawaiian Doctor (medical practise in our town) who cut me very close and my parents said I about bled to death. So maybe my nerve endings where effected to cause the above talents? He told my parents that it was a traditional Hawaiian circumcision, I remember he also pointed to a small mole a inch below my belt line and he told my parents that in his culture the mark meant I would have 180 lovers in my lifetime......lol (maybe if I had been 18 years old in the 1960s and not in the age of STDs) . I am a Magnum XL in size (large dia , average length) So lack of stimulation is not the issue. So when you people who who say it is impossible. I think the key is to desensitze yourself and you too can make it beyond the 3min mark | |
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| Duration of intercourse
Posted: 8/4/2006 9:03:29 PM | | The 5 minute men make me laugh because they have no regard to females whatsoever. Forplay can last 10 min. to an hour if needed and the sex from 15 min. to a few hours. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2006 10:56:16 PM | Interesting thread.
For a few seconds, it thought it's paid commercial for Viagra.
So many talented studs here. What a waste! Think about the poor women, who never heard of POF, have to be content with their sad lovers who can only last 5 minutes. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2006 1:27:53 AM | These guys are BSing you. Sex (penetration) was never in the human designs to last longer than 10 minutes!
I dont have facts, but consider a bit of a history lesson: In early caveman days, sex was about reproduction with almost no lust attached to it (sort of like animals!). Now, back in the stone age, Johnny B Caveman had to be sure to bust his nut quick and fast lest he wanted to be attacked by Mr. Sabertooth or get his favorite Wooly Shag Rug stolen out from underneath him. Sex in ALLLL animals is designed to last in short duration due to the dangers of being literally caught with your pants down.
If you are a fellow guy reading this and feel like less of a man for lasting 5-10, dont fret! You are just being a human being. Plus, most people who talk about an hour of pumping **** is just straight up BS! No guy can last that long nor would a women really want to be on all fores for that amount of time.
Take the ladies advice: long foreplay (unless you have fingers that cum) followed by however the hell long you think u can last! it's a lot of fun because you never know if you'll last longer than Dennis Miller at the Republican Convention (oh, did I just go there?!)
And one last thing, I dont like the idea of thinking about baseball or math equations while boning. That's boring! I am an animal when I drop my pants and only think of blood lust carnage and pounding that ass into the pavement! HOLY SHIT!!! LMAO  | |
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Posted: 8/5/2006 5:41:48 PM | 10 minutes? are you guys serious? Sometimes i wish i could get off in ten minutes and not the 40 minutes to an hour! And foreplay? I like about a half hour to an hour
Although I have noticed that something has reversed with age. When I was young I would get off quicker the first time and the second (or more) lasting much longer. Now at 40 the first time takes a good while and the second (or more) is quicker 20 minutes or so. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2006 8:12:15 PM | Good sex all depends...
Now, are you talking about pulling out the rope and handcuffs? Or what?
Everywhere from 5mins (Bathroom at Timmy's)
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8 + hours (First night after being gone for my first set of 30days)
So, again, it all depends on what kind of sex your talking about. Long, slow, passionate?
Hard and crazy get your phreak on?
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Posted: 8/5/2006 8:23:42 PM | Man this can be so different all the time. Sometimes I love savoring sex, and as I have gotten older I can't do one after the other immediately. But sometimes for whatever reason I can't come and can stroke it for a very long time. If your partner wants to get of quick she will not like the long time. I love it when that happens, but the best position to stay long when that happens is doggystyle. So I don't know why sometimes I can go for a very long time until I come and sometimes booom it happens and I feel cheated. Then I have to wait for a good while to start again. When younger I was always horny. Always ready, but it was hard to hold on long like I do now in those unpredictable moments. Now two day rests can have me do some long sex sessions. Up to 45 minutes. Once I come though I have to wait for the next one. If very rested no problem. If not takes a while. But yeah some sessions can be long as long as I don't come quickly by surprise. I've learned to hold it for a long time,
but sometimes it just comes by surprise. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 12:48:34 PM | this reply is to kinky**stard......
You are proof that we just get better as we get older
You go boy!! | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 1:02:15 PM | I agree with Kinky you do last longer the older you get. i am now going anywhere from 30 mins-90 mins of actual pumping. and slow and steady wins the race...with some outbursts of speed for good measure. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 1:13:04 PM | | in the movies they edit out the coffee breaks, stops for makeup touch ups, line rehersals and mis-takes and do forget the special effects. ive always said george lucas should do adult films like .. Star Whores .. for myself duration is afected by how long before the next sportscenter is on | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 3:02:29 PM | It is true. Evolution wise the reason we are here today (our family gene lines) is because our forefathers were bad at foreplay. :)
It is genetic for males of most species to climb on and pump for a few seconds and then deposit the seed. If it takes too long, there is a risk of the mating being interrupted by any number of factors including preditors and other males.
If you watch animals you will see it happens very quickly with most species... except maybe dogs.. who actually get stuck together for upto 30 minutes... kinda like a "forced cuddle"..
By encouraging your man to last longer than 1 minute you are single-handedly destroying the evolution of man kind.. If we ever get attacked by horny aliens... we are screwed. They will push us away mid stroke and then quickly deposit some alien seed into your girl. :O
If the alien's have vibrating or pulsating members.. then SHE may push you away mid stroke for some of that alien seed. Who knows.
Kinda like Star Trek sex.
Ok... I just went off topic. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 4:05:10 PM | | I think im beginning to understand why all these twenty something year old women are running around like they are pissed off at the world. The guys in their age group think that max is 10 minutes. Get real all you youngins, and listen to the older men and women on this thread. 10 minutes is a joke and will get your ass kicked to the curb. If you cant last at least an hour or more, you need to go see a doctor or get your priorities straight and get to pleasing your lady and not just yourself. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 4:49:05 PM | I've no idea what an average might be. Heck, I don't even know what my average might be. In terms of actual intercourse, I've varied from some <5min quickies to multi-hour marathon tantric sessions that required breaks for hydration. If I truely wanted to guess, I would guess that the MODE was around 45 minutes of actual penitration.
Factor in foreplay, and what might constitute it (as some have) and I've had sex that lasted days (with pseudo-breaks for sleep). I good night of play starts best with a whisper in the morning ;) | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 6:55:28 PM | | Guys in their 30's can last for hours and hours. After the age of 42, guys don't last that long. By the time they reach their 50s, it's not worth trying. I would not waste time trying someone older than that. Testosterone levels drop lower and lower as a man ages and so does sexual potency. That's the reason I will date 29 year old men. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 7:18:14 PM | | Lady are you misinformed. Im 51 and the problem i have with most women is they run out of gas first. Do a little research. You will find that males over 50 that have no medical problems have extraordinary endurance. Now you have answered another thread in this forum. ( why do older men prefer younger women under 40 ) Because the women over 40 have some kind of misconception that older men cant cut it anymore. When the older men know that women over 40 are more than likely looking for a nest and also they do not produce as much fluids as the younger ones and we get tired of slapping all that vasiline on ourselves just to keep from wearing the hide off of it. | |
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| Duration of intercourse
Posted: 8/25/2006 9:08:54 PM | | Rx can totaly increase your time too as many people who've taken the antidepressant Effexor can tell you. It makes you hornier and makes it so you can't finish. I've been taking a moderate dosage for a year now and some weeks i can't cum at all. Since i went on the pills my average time prolly doubled to about 40-50min. Usualy if i last past 1 hour or so I wont be able to shoot at all so i just tell her I can stop whenever she wants. It's horrible. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 6:55:08 AM | What's all the fuss? Lots of foreplay, intercourse for as long as you want, more fooling around, more intercourse, more fooling around, more intercourse, etc. Sometimes a quicky is demanded by the circumstances (i.e. waiting for the "don't walk" to change to "walk"). When the time is available, spend as much time as you both want. For those women who get bored after x minutes, maybe you need to change up positions occasionaly? Get a little more creative? As for soreness, I've never experienced a steel lined coochie, sort of an intriguing idea, but maybe opt for lots of lube and occasional breaks for playing and then start up again.
I can't argue with the comment about men being liars re: size and duration, but if you like the guy, and things are generally good, then work on it together. I frequently enjoy extended lovemaking sessions, 3 - 5 hours, and neither of us run out of gas, just have lots and lots of fun. Not bragging, just offering my observations. Certainly it gets better as I've gotten older, couldn't have done this at 18. LOL | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 7:01:31 AM | | I hate to shatter your theory, but if my back didn't give out, an hour or more is no problem. So all I do is change positions, or let her drive for a while, and I can usually last as long as I or she wants. Ejaculation is rarely the reason for stopping, more often a question of stamina / exhaustion. I'm sure that I'm not unique, and I would take serious offense to you suggesting that I'm lying about this. In fact, there are more often times when I wish I could finish quickly, when circumstances dictate, but it usually just won't happen. Do I care? No - I enjoy the act, the closeness, the foreplay and afterplay and in-between play so much, that a climax seems like an afterthought. In way, it's a blessing, because it's given me a lot of insight into what women have always said - it's not always about the O, it's about everything else. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 7:04:43 AM | | Agreed. I think it should be mandatory for all women under thirty to experience physical intimacy with one of us grey-beards. I'm sure that a lot of them think extended lovemaking is the length of time it takes for 3 videos to play on MTV instead of 1! Only problem with my theory? None of the young guys would be getting it anymore! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 7:06:52 AM | At my age, make some toast as we start ..... I'll finish first.
And that's on the LIGHT setting.... | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 7:06:55 AM | | Catch a flight and meet up with me. I'm not unique, I'm sure we could get a cadre of older guys together that would dispel your****mamie theory, and surely send you home with a smile on your face and a strong desire to lie still for about a month. Start getting quicker in the 40's? I wish! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 7:43:55 AM | Msg#33 Leeanne: "Sexual activity can last for hours, but the act of intercourse is much more limited - no one should be concerned if it's only a few minutes - in actuality women don't really want marathon 'intercourse' - the marathon can be in the foreplay and after play!!! "
This is so true, | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 8:21:37 AM | I don't get the whole, "I'll distract myself " logic.
If I'm with someone and she's counting ceiling tiles, I'm offended.
When I'm with a lady, all my attention is with her.
I only get distracted if the kids start pounding on the door.
I believe in long make out sessions and plenty of foreplay solves all the problems of
only lasting a few minutes with penetration. | |
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