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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 12:50:14 PM | i don't do it too often the longest i did it was for about a quarter short of two hours | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 1:31:31 PM | All depends on what your after, a quickie for me is 10 mins on foreplay and about 15 on the job. But if your after a session then i'd say about 30-40 mins on foreplay and about 60-120 mins on the job, the higher end of the scale for when i've had a few brown ales and the beer takes over control!! lol. I change position frequently to keep things interesting and change the angle of penetration, stops it from just becoming and hour or so of boring pumping...... My last partner could cum up to 12 times per session so it was never boring, but it all depends on the individual..... you gotta find out what you and your partner are both comfortable with, as we've seen everyone has different preferences!! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 1:54:39 PM | | there are so many factors to figure in, (time of day, tilt of the earth) that actual times are hard to measure, but in general for a man 30 seconds to 30 minutes, for a woman sometime after the man has rolled off her and fallen asleep | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 2:59:32 PM | Aviator says.......Any man that brags about lasting 2 hours (intercourse) is either lying... or VERY VERY VERY bad at pleasing his women...
Period.
Sorry, but just because you may not be able to last that long doesn't rule out others being able to do so. By the way....it has nothing to do with "Pleasing" the lady. That wasn't the topic. It was how LONG can one last.
Personally, I don't get soft even after cumming, so it can honestly last as long as a lady can handle it or wants it. Weird....yes...I know. Defies the text books talk about recovery periods and all that, but true nonetheless. As for time for me.....longest ever session was harder on my heart than anything and was 6 hours before the 3 of them quit. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 3:11:21 PM | | Over 15 minutes but under 30 is perfect for me. I have never been a fan of marathon sex, I would prefer to have 3/15 minute rounds then 1/45 minute round. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 4:00:38 PM | Thought it was time I put my 2 cents in this topic.
Yes I believe most men last around 5 to 15 mins, however I my ex could go for 3 to 4 hours so it is possible for a man to last a long time.
My personal preference is.....ummm well I really don't need to post it here  | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 7:51:04 PM | I like to enjoy myself and make sure my partner does as well. I Always last 30-45 minutes, by then partner is getting sore, so it's time to cum. I never have cum just from oral sex, any ladies wish to try? | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 8:01:54 PM | | i shoudl hope for a variety... short and lng and medium time lengths..of all sorts and wonderful things :) long marathon sex..sex all day...or a quickie..or lots and lots of foreplay..all sounds good to me | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 8:38:16 PM | Man just make me Cummm baby and all is good whether it's 10 mins or 6 hours... | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 9:22:07 PM | It's always so euphoric ,I'm so elated with "him" it's my little Utopia........ time stands still. So no clock punching! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/31/2006 10:38:20 PM | There's a lot more to sex than intercourse. Remember that while most men can be compared to bottle rockets (a few minutes of anticipation and then WHOOSH! and the show's over), women are more aptly compared to diesel engines; they take a long time to get warmed up, but once they do they can run for a very long time. If you have a problem with duration and you're overly concerned about it, try wearing a condom or two if necessary. Save the penetration for last. Get in lots of cuddling, kissing and touching; use your fingers (and learn where her G-spot is!), maybe grab a vibrator, and don't forget to use your tongue. Take the time to bring her to orgasm a few times before you get to the nitty-gritty so you're both satisfied; a study conducted a few years ago (I can't remember exactly where) concluded that women take between 20 and 30 minutes to reach orgasm, compared to the average guy's 2 minutes. Develop your PC muscles (during urination, stop the flow midstream to find them); you can flex them anytime, anywhere, and no one will notice. These muscles will allow a man to control his orgasms, even allowing orgasm without ejaculation and multiple orgasms. 10-minute quickies are all well and good, provided that's not all you're getting. Alternatively, if every session takes 4 hours, it begins to lose its appeal once sex gets painful. As the beer commercial says, it's all about balance. Find yours, and never think you've done it all; experimentation is a great way to learn. Go to google and do a few searches; there's a wealth of online information available. Good luck! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 5:07:26 AM | wow??!! finally a guy who knows somthing about how a women really works lol.
AMEN Maille.Man Amen!!! | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 5:42:42 AM | the thing you have to remember about those porn movies is they use multiple cameras so a 10 minute shag times 3 cameras is 30 minutes of footage. Which is why it seems longer then it truly is.
Like maille said the PC muscle is key and once you go over 3 hours you will be sore for sure. One advantage to prolonged intercourse is what my ex once said to me, that after one of our marathon sessions and we were done she could still "feel" me inside her. Even though we both had our clothes on for a while already. This is a nice bonus for her since she feels like she's having sex even when she's not having sex.
Foreplay can be touching, massages, touching each others face, gazing into each other eyes, etc etc. It doesn't have to be just intercourse. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 7:53:17 AM | | well, hours upon hours...........it's over when I give him permission!! or I'm simply just too dehydrated from cumming so much..... | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 10:57:02 AM | | Ok girl, I'm your kinda guy...I'm good for 2hrs....1 hr 59 mins of foreplay, 1 second of actual lovemaking. After that, just give me the remote and nobody gets hurt | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 3:36:34 PM | Sorry, but just because you may not be able to last that long doesn't rule out others being able to do so. By the way....it has nothing to do with "Pleasing" the lady. That wasn't the topic. It was how LONG can one last.
Ok.
I'll keep doing what I do... you keep doing what you do... ;) As you say... "It has nothing to do with Pleasing the lady"
I bet you're a popular guy with those ladies.
I'm sorry... I'm not going to pound away at her for 2 hours... gimmie a break. I'm speaking strictly penetrative sex. I have yet to find a woman whom after 4-5-6-7 orgasms wants to keep going. I have yet to find a woman that CAN have an orgasm... that can't have one within the first say 30 minutes. Remember... penetration almost never does it for a woman. If we are talking the "whole" experience then yes.. 2 hours is EASILY attainable. The question was "INTERCOURSE" | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 3:39:20 PM | | depends on most guys i guess for me usually the first time its about 5 to 10 mins before i cum the first time if the girl is good at oral and/or penetration but after the first time it could be anywhere from 30mins to even 3 hours before i cum again staying hard is the easy part to it all | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 3:55:35 PM | | Spot on with the foreplay kidda (for ladies & can't agree more) sadly us guys get excited far to early & we start to leak..lol. | |
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| Duration of intercourse Posted: 9/1/2006 3:57:08 PM | | I do it until i have permission to cum or she gets too dehydrated. lol | |
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