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Posted: 7/24/2006 6:15:15 PM | | Thanks for the kind words miss boognish. I personally do not like my smile, which is why I hardly smile for the camera and besides, the more i smile, the more people tell me that i look like Adam Sandler and I'm sick of it, lol! | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 7:55:37 PM | | Gee hun? You have like 68 favs? And you have not yet found someone? You are a cutie. Just hang in there! Takes time is all! Good luck! | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 7:59:30 PM | | He has 68 fave's???? And You are COMPLAINING???? C'mon dude you've been here not long you have 68 people who are on favorates and you are chatting and IMing people back and forth. What the heck did you think would happen? Someone fall in love with you the instant you logged in? Take yer dang time man!!! | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 8:01:27 PM | It's when you're not really looking that you end up finding someone anyway (as luck would have it)
I've been single for awhile now and I've met some really cool guys (and yes some not so cool ones) but just haven't had that spark with any, enough to want to pursue dating them.
This site is a way to meet people , part of that is getting rejected - and we all do!
hell I messaged a guy just to compliment him on something extremely funny he posted on a forum and he was like "thanks , not interested" haha I wasn't either, I just thought his joke was funny , gawd!
Just get out there, meet people , enjoy and take it for what it is , fwiw , I enjoyed your profile and think you're attractive , so I'm sure many others do as well.
Oh and I had the chance to meet dantesinferno at the speed dating thing and he's a great one too!
That was my first POF event and although I don't think I met Mr right that night ,it was an awesome time and a way to get to know people! | |
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Posted: 8/8/2006 11:03:14 AM | | Never give up, yours eyes are kind which means your soul is shy. When you least expect it true love will come. Maybe not on POF although she is out there somewhere. Take care | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 4:03:57 PM | | Hey at least people are chatting with you, I've sent a few emails that haven't even been read and were deleted, so ... I'm not giving up, yet!!! | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 4:21:47 PM | Okay I'm trying not to be negative, but I've heard that "when your not looking it just shows up" line so often it's not funny...... and I don't mean to sound like a pessimist, but in my experience that's a load of bulls**t. That's just my experience though.
As far as am I giving up.... no, I will agree with everybody here on that note. As the oh so wise Joe Dirt says. "You can't have no in your heart, ya gotta just keep on keepin on"
Do I actively look....no....if I see somebody who is interesting in the forums I drop them a line. If they feel there is no need to respond...well think of it this way, I know what they are missing, they don't. No need to get upset. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 4:30:04 PM | I say just give up on the SPARKY'S pal........i feel realy realyrealyrealyrealyrealyrealyrealyrealy
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just my six point 5 cents
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Posted: 8/29/2006 4:37:45 PM | Well if you maybe actually ASKED someone to go hang out, you'd maybe get somewhere. You seem to be the one that likes to chat, if that. You seem to disappear and wait for the women to come to you. That right off the bat hardly happens. Most women wait for the men to come to them. You need to just jump and ask. If you're getting turned down, maybe you're asking the wrong type of people to meet up.
Dantes, You're the same. You i've met and i KNOW you're an amazing guy, you're funny, cute, you smell wicked, but you chat to people out here all friend like and never ask anyone to go out and do anything one on one. Maybe the odd one now and then but just like a resume when looking for work. You dont apply to one place with one resume and sit back, expecting it to be the only one to get you somewhere. You drop off say 50 to different places with even a couple in the same one place, and hope that maybe 10 will get back to you.
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Posted: 8/29/2006 6:41:04 PM | | Edit: yup, just noticed the date of the original post. "Sparkys", huh? Sounds like a term only a clique would create and use... ah well. Good luck with that LOL | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 6:44:35 PM | Ok the guys profile is still here - it's an old thread - he's still in the crapshoot!!!! 
Seems like the 'Sparkies' are keeping him here - hum!??!!? | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 6:52:08 PM | ya the SPARKy"S can grow on you like bathroom mold.......
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Posted: 8/29/2006 7:26:54 PM | | I never experienced that, a women to afraid to meet me, maybe it is how you come off. Maybe, you are rushing too much. Just chill and let things happen, no rush man. | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 12:58:19 AM | | I agree....this site is an obsession for people....even though there are many nice people here...some live to be on the computer and for get there is a real world out there and they need to get out in it and live........hopefully your luck will change and you will get to me someone in person....I have met a few...all nice.... | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 1:47:29 AM | | Hey Dude,,Take matters into your own hands!Attend or host your own POF party! | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 5:59:38 AM |
Posted By: prof_chaos on 7/19/2006 11  20 AM Subject: I GIVE UP!!! Message: they chat with you? well good on ya dude!!! I know where your comin from on this,I dont know what Im doing wrong either,you be nice polite friendly try to be funny considerate all that shit they claim they want,,,,,,,,,,but alas no fishies lmao
???????????? What the hell ya fishin for anyways??? Ya have the dam catch already damitt!
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Posted: 8/30/2006 7:54:51 AM | Never give up. It's never to late to meet MR/MRS. right.. It just takes time to find the right one.. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 9:16:25 AM | | lol...that's just what pd calls pofer's | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 9:36:06 AM | | Give up? What was there to gain the first place? lol I'll just turn lesbian soon I swear, so I won't have to give up anything!!! | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 9:42:22 AM | | Go to your local "meet and greets" if you can . It's a great way to actually meet the people in here. :) | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 9:45:44 AM | ^^^^^ Trust me on this GCG not a great idea ..........
I have no prob meeting people face to face, I have faith in my ability to discern a psycho from a decent guy, and have met some awesome people. I think it is not about doing something right or wrong, but about spark ... if it is there it is if it is not it is not ...
Plain simple and to the point. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 4:28:41 PM | Hey magraphix
you sound a little aggressive in your profile....maybe you should say "would love to have a female companion to play golf with" | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 4:36:35 PM | | I can understand your frusteration but from a woman's point of view not all men are upfront about their interested and what it is they are looking for. When we do meet them they turn out to not be who they say they are or want what they say they want. This can make some women standoffish and wait longer to meet someone. And there are a lot of PHSYSCOS out there and not just on here. Don't give up, just yet. Also like someone else suggested try going to the events, women feel more comfortable talking to someone they don't really know in a crowded place. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2006 4:48:48 PM | It depends on the way you use this site. I'm approaching it as a social venue... not a mate finding site. If things happen that I find someone..great. But I'm not expecting that to happen.
Keep in mind, this is a virtual setting.... much is not as it seems. | |
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