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Posted: 10/2/2008 9:18:08 AM | jkc63, you are correct. Everyone MUST learn more about borderline personality disordered people in order to stay clear of them in dating, and in life in general, because involvement with them on ANY level can cause a perfectly peaceful person all kinds of trouble....including LEGAL! Been there, done that, tore up and burned the tee shirt! | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 10:29:51 AM | | You are right about that get out and walk away from it. Another way to deal with those type of people is to cut off all contact with them. You don't need to be put in a situation that you can't get out of. P.S., If you have any of their belongings, give it back to them as well! | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 11:10:28 AM | | Avante is correct cut off all contact. Change your email and get a second phone number for extreme cases where they refuse to take no for an answer. Hopefully they will move on to their next victim quickly. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 11:14:39 AM | | There are several guys on here who are pathological liars and im sure there are some females too. My sister is the victim of two such 'men' and has nearly lost her kids and her job because of one. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 11:17:30 AM | I think that we all believe what we want to,and wear rose color glasses then when everything falls apart then we turn from believers to blamers. I think that individuals mean what they say at that moment And at times we are willing to let our guard down and actully believe what was said just bebause we want to, individuals look at a realationship for many qualities we have high expectation, and then it all goes wrong, I for one believe in love, and hope someday to find love, wheter it be on this screen or somone out there that wants the same thinggs I do, I have been single many years the last relationship my SO died, did he lie to me, heck yes he did, we have that compulsion when know we are playing a losing game, So place more emphasis on getting to know the person better, than having a realtionship with whatever comes your way, trust your gut instinct and review the past mistakes and for real learn by them.  and grow to be the very best person you can be before jumping in to anything ::Have a wonderful day, one step at a time. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 11:21:28 AM | This def sounds like someone I know, whenever we would argue there would be something wrong with this person to get my sympathy, they would lie about the smallest things and always say that things are not their fault.
If u believe ur partner is anythin like the above u should get out of the relationship because it seriously affects u. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 5:51:21 PM | | that sounds like my exwife and most recent girlfriend funny thing is i always think it's cute at first, but in the end you can only take so much | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 7:37:40 PM | | yes its very sad and scary to think these people r out there in societyi fell in love with one had my heart broken only to find out he is a pathological liar con man sociopath is a better description i guess its a lesson to all the good people dont b so guliabe and trusting they r experiened con men with no remose 4 their victims | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 8:31:48 PM | | Wow...I never dated a guy like that...but let me tell you that a co worker of mine fits that description to a T!! She is dangerous... | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 8:42:09 PM | Sounds very similiar to my ex. He was a cheater and a liar.
When he was caught, he alway turned it around on me.
I feel so much better away from it all and you should too.
Your heart may have been ripped out....but it will grow back healthy and happy.
You will also be much, much wiser.
Linda | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 8:52:43 PM | | it was nothing wrong with you. she was manipulative and you were brainwashed, that's all... | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 12:49:38 AM | I ran into a Pathological Liar and a thief on this site (surprise surprise Gomer) but it was too late I fell for the act, and all the table dressing too. Yes folks I even got fooled big time and it was too late before I knew it. I came home to find that I had been robbed. I hate to admit it but it's true!
She was sick and needed a place to stay, (feel sorry for them) she would pay rent, clean house (help out) bla, bla, bla what ever they think you want to hear or believe they will tell you to get what they want or make themselves feel better about themselves. Most are very good at it, for at least a while.
A little word of advise; Don't be gullible, that's all I can tell you. For every honest person on ANY given dating site, there are about 30 liars, cheats, players, theives, sickos, and preditors of all shaps, sizes, and sexes! . One clue to look for in a profile is anyone who makes a HUGE deal about how honest they are and how many friends they have probaby can't be trusted any further than they can be tossed. Also guys and gals out there is if someone is moving or has moved from one guy or gal to the next, and state to state, look out!
Stay safe and be smart!  | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 9:38:15 AM | just got out of a relationship he lied about everything and he is on here too, well made friends with his wife LOL | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 11:07:23 AM | | i met someone from here, turns out he was nothing but a liar and a user, he's still on here pretending to be a decent bloke, but its people like him who make it hard for genuine people, hope no-one else gets hurt, as for me i'm leaving for good, cant trust people cos of whats happened....thanks and goodbye | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 4:12:28 PM | | Thank you all for showing me that I am not the only one to fall for one of these monsters! I think they all should have warning signs tattooed on there foreheads! But until they do I will continue to educate myself as to the dangers and signs, so as I can steer clear of them. The one thing I have found the last few years is that only people who have been through this really no what it is like. I am glad to have found a place were people can talk about this. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 1:58:31 AM | | yep,i agree with what bull said,it took me and only me to reaslise i was in the wrong,i also lost a women i loved with all my heart. that pain alone was enough for me to wake up and just be myself instead of something im not. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2008 2:02:52 AM | | im actually goin on a date this weekend,not through plentyoffish but zoosk. things do get better and look up,ill be nothing but honest from the word go. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2008 12:18:07 AM | | Good luck on the date, just look for the warning signs, and educate yourself. Life is what we make it we all make bad choices or make mistakes. Lets not get stuck on them to much. Lets learn from them and move on to the next great adventure life has to offer! Too bad there is not a website for some of these crooks. I know I put out a warrent out for her, but she moves from one sucker to the next. All I am saying is lets educate ourselves, not get stuck in a pitty party. Good luck to us all! | |
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Posted: 10/21/2008 12:29:36 PM | I think we might have the same ex. Does yours do drugs? I met a really nice guy on here or so I thought, But he was also a pathological liar and crackhead! Just using people that is all, and they don't seem to care about anyone else's feelings either!
Mine did alot of things that yours did! Holy Moly, can't anyone just be honest and Kind? Sorry about your experience.
Love Rachel | |
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