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 mykytyzyn

Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 276
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/4/2008 6:14:15 AM
Being attracted to a the physical attributes of the opposite sex has nothing to do with being less positive. Gods the one who gave us eyes, so blame him. Blame him for your ears, nose, taste buds, ahhh, just blame him for everything. Create an atomic bomb and blow him to smitherines. Maybe that will change the way we were created.
 felix_C

Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 277
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/4/2008 7:08:13 AM
I look nothing like a Barbie, Nor do I act like a Barbie and I don't get overlooked... I believe it is all in attitude and confidence!!!


I look nothing like a Barbie, Nor Do I act Like a Barbie and I Don't get overlooked!!! I believe its all about attitude and Confidence...


repeating yourself often helps to get you noticed too

I did spot the differences in both of the posts though and I claim my prize

( sorry people you'll just have to work out the differences between posts 274 & 275 for yourself , theres at least 5 ... hey its a quiet Friday at work what can I say )
 nogo3

Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 278
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/4/2008 9:04:30 AM
Why is it that fat people are so hard headed and bullheaded that they can not understand that not every living person is going to fall all over them .
Fat people don't look good, oh sure lots of them have pretty faces, but what can you do with a fat person, they can't walk very far but they can sit real good.

and they are always crying and saying that you have to see the inside beauty, that does not matter, you have to get thru the outside first.

Now you take the hot little barbies, wow, they are cute, look great and can buy nice looking clothes and they can walk and do things with you, so why would you not prefer a barbie.

 felix_C

Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 279
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/4/2008 10:06:41 AM
so why would you not prefer a barbie.


because they have plastic cars with no engines ?
 getluckenow

Joined: 6/26/2007
Msg: 280
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/21/2008 1:10:14 AM
And What About Ken? My Gawd....Did Someone forget about Ken?
 nicebluiz

Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 281
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/21/2008 4:58:06 AM
Not a barbie and overlooked? Someone should tell that to my girlfriend. She's on here, and her handle's Chattycatz. Let me tell you, she's not "Barbie," but she gets plenty of attention from guys--who either don't read her profile, or ignore the essay where she says she's taken. It's not a matter of being a "Barbie doll," it's a matter of being attractive. That will vary from guy to guy.
 Alienware Adam

Joined: 5/31/2007
Msg: 282
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/21/2008 5:10:07 AM
Maybe posting a picture on your profile would help. People tend to look at a pciture then read.
 chickalina

Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 283
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/21/2008 5:24:21 AM
I am old enough to be Barbie's mom but she sure didn't get her looks from me and I have found the people that I talk to are wicked nice. Keep trying and be honest.
 Bodacious7Blonde

Joined: 4/4/2008
Msg: 284
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 4/21/2008 5:27:11 AM
Attitude is everything. I think the problem is girls who think they aren't pretty enough. Negative thought manifests itself like a cancer upon the soul. So, even if you're not "Barbie," why not let your good features shine anyway? You don't have to look a certain way to get a guy!
 pebbles_2006

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 285
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Posted: 6/17/2008 12:48:42 AM
Well some men find it hard that Normal Girls, Normal figures are completely different from Women who are Artificial (botox, liposuction, and the works).

The thing is some men find it that women that look like Barbie can sometimes be, a disappointment too. Not trying to be Judgemental or anything, But women that look like wouldn't take a chance on someone who isn't looking like Ken or Jean Claude Van Damme.
They would be looking for someone with the same Stature its all based on Stature of what society perceive to be very Superficial if u ask me.

I often tell my friends, and also people I meet right off batt, if you are looking for Barbie- I am not it. I am an average looking girl, cute with a pretty face but I am no Barbie. So if u are in search of one, Skip and collect $200 dollars & pass Go (its like monopoly).

Its society that makes people think that Looks are all that's important of every human being out there. If watch entertainment on TV, You see all this good looking couples splashed on the Screen. They are called the Ideal couple, they are always on the spotlight. They get married & when they split up its a huge controversy why because everyone Idolize them that they are the Ideal couple. But why did they split up, because either one is satisfied with what they've got.

Average women/Averaged men are people too. Despite they don't like Supermodels or Body Builder- they eat the same food, the drink the same water, they hurt & feel the same way. The only difference society makes them feel like the outsider because they are not up to the standard.

I have dated/been engaged to good looking men myself but to be truthful with you- Looks can be DECEIVING because Love wasn't based on what we felt for each other, its more of what People think when I was with them. They were more worried of what other people think of us, as a couple than what we are to one another. I have also been with AVERAGE MEN ( Average Joes) they are the most caring, affectionate, well grounded people I know that values the person.
 stillanicechick

Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 286
How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 6/17/2008 12:55:03 PM
OP its a preference. Maybe the guys you have been writing arent attracted to your type. It doesnt mean there arent others who would find you attractive, perhaps there are and they have writtent to you and you havent found them attractive. Also, if you dwell on not getting responses then guess what your gonna get? .... NO RESPONSES.
 IronHorseTamer

Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 287
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 6/17/2008 1:08:55 PM
I can't see your profile, to whom you are writing, or what your emails contain, so I can only guess. Perhaps you are being unrealistic in your target audience? Perhaps you could do some things to make your profile, your pictures, or yourself more appealing to others. You can't shop at Nordstrom with foodstamps.
 ritawayward

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 288
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 6/17/2008 1:24:02 PM
WE cant see her profile because she is long gone!
Why people keep posting answers to her or this thread I don't know.
Her question was asked a year and a half ago and she has cancelled her profile since.
I take a look at the first page ,first post of any topic that interests me to ensure
there is still a reason to participate by answering.
I would appreciate it if other forum posters would do the same.
 username10

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 289
How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/10/2008 2:45:27 PM
I don't like to laugh/have fun. I'm a very boring person with no life outside of sitting in front of my computer, writing dumb shit like this.

And yes I am a nice guy, but nobody knows that because I don't have a life outside of sitting in front of my computer, writing dumb shit like this, then copying and pasting parts of sentences I wrote before.
 lovers_pain

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 290
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/10/2008 8:10:37 PM
CountryGirlJo:
I'm pretty sure that a lot of men on here are looking for sex. So far, even though I am gay, that has been the response.

I wouldn't get to upset because most of these men on here don't really know what true beauty is and therefore never find it. I bet your a beautiful woman inside and out.

Men get tired of Barbies and once they do Im sure they will come running right to you.
 catman40

Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 291
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/11/2008 5:30:18 AM
had " barbie type " . no fun . was cold . NOW , those 180 + know how to have fun and treat there boyfreinds like he was ken .
 helinda

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 292
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/11/2008 5:44:31 AM
Hi ,Like some women,some men lack the know how to make great conversation,but not them all. I always think that it is best to make a friend first,and if anything happens after that then it is a bonus. Because I don't rely on just "barbie dolls",I have met quite a lot of ladies who I now consider my friends,and many of them are attractive with looks and personality,some of which I didn' think at first were very attractive,but after I got to know them they seem more physically attractive now. My advice would be to find friends first. Good luck.
 jeffreysearch

Joined: 2/19/2007
Msg: 293
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/11/2008 5:45:38 AM
Well i think the Dating scene is totally `Lost in itself ? Who knows what is right , for who and what means what anymore ! Got That It seems that Women think they have Independance and freedom..... at what Cost ! Not Looking good from what i see
 niksmama1124

Joined: 5/12/2008
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How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/11/2008 5:48:55 AM
yes attitude has alot to do w/things! in my experience it seems lately more men prefer bbw to barbies
How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:57:26 PM
Attitude and self-confidence, will take a person, a lot longer in a relationship, than compared to someone, whom is considered a "Barbie"; which is irrelevant , anyways!
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