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Posted: 11/15/2006 6:20:10 PM | | Don’t take this person serious Bella, probably it’s not even a guy, some jealous insecure frustrated lonely person that hasn’t had any sex for a long time and is taking out her frustrations by posting negative comments on POF forums like life is going to get better by having something to say that no one appositely gives a crap about. Reminds me of one of them big insecure bird that hides its head in the ground. She should go on other sites like the AdultFriendFinder would suite her well. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2006 10:45:01 AM | Just read through this, I do not have this problem but an opposite problem. I really do have a phobia of thin men. I am not talking about a fit body but a thin body. I know why I have this phobia.
My ex was very tall and thin and very good looking, he was also very physically abusive. I consequently am uncomfortable in the company of thin men and certainly have no attraction to one. I am not saying that there are not nice thin men, only that they are not for me for sure. | |
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Posted: 12/15/2006 8:35:33 PM | | Not that we hate BBW.I don't hate anyone.I will talk and accept anyone as they are. For I am not a judgemental person..But.....will not go out with anyone that is BBW.Why?Well I weigh 112 lbs and muscular. Can't see me going out with someone who is 300 lbs or more. Very active.Not because of that person but because of his or her weight(putting on weight does not change personality).If you are not physical or need someone to help you move around ,I will not take on that responsibility.Life is too short!! Call me greedy or selfish.But i have always and still do help everybody whether family or friend but someone really overweight will not take on.I always take care of my weight from the time I was young.Never let my weight or looks go.If you are happy with your weight fine.But I will not alllow myself to be overweight!!Especially an eye sore.Sorry. | |
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Posted: 12/20/2006 11:11:46 AM | [/when was the last time that you saw a fat Rock star?]
[when was the last time that you saw a fat Rock star?]
ELVIS LIVES  | |
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Posted: 12/20/2006 2:34:34 PM | Yes? I wonder about that? Would Elvis have had a career if he would have started out FAT?
Okay then, let’s ask that question to the woman here?
Which Elvis do you prefer?
Do you prefer the Fat Elvis?
Or do you prefer the Thin Elvis?
Okay now for the men.
Which Christie Alley do you guys prefer?
Do you prefer the fat Kristie Alley?
Or do you prefer the Thin Kristie Alley?
Okay I know some of you wise guys will say both at the same time. | |
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Posted: 12/23/2006 10:31:28 PM | Forget Kristi alley queen Latifa is the sexist of them all confidents has sex appeal to most men.
P.S DISCLAMER THERES A FINE LINE BETWEEN BEING A B!TCH AND BIENG CONFIDENT.
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Posted: 1/8/2007 11:53:03 AM | In the first couple of years after my ex and i split (i was 39) i dated a wide range of women from 5' 0" and 90 lbs. to 6' 2" and 375 lbs. They were all unique and special in one way or another and i enjoyed the company of each and every one of them. For the past six years (i am now 49) i have been with a larger woman who is the joy of my life and i am proud to be seen with her anywhere. The physical size and shape has nothing to do with it... it is the very special person that is inside. i have found myself a veritable treasure and i intend to keep her.
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Posted: 1/9/2007 9:23:04 AM | If that was directed at me Olivia, thanks so much. My parents raised me to never judge a book by its cover. Over the past ten years (and especially in the past six), i/we have come upon some amazing books. We have found that many larger women are interested/involved in the type of lifestyle we are in.
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Posted: 1/13/2007 4:52:12 PM | | We have found that the key to a successful relationship isn't looks, money or posessions.... it is communication.... good, honest, open communication. | |
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Posted: 2/1/2007 5:38:16 PM | I think it's ok to not be attracted to bbw....just as it is ok to not be attracted to a certain race, or a certain type of person. We are all attracted to different types of people and it's quite normal.
I think that it's the way a person deals with it is what is wrong with society. I being myself a bbw, have met lots of men attracted to me in life, but have also dealt with a cruel aspect of it. Being ridiculed for my size is just downright stupid. You do not know why i am a bbw, you did not follow my life, so why do you have to stand there and judge me because of the way that i look?
I don't think being a bbw automatically means your are unhealthy or you do not take care of yourself, there are many aspects of why a human body acts a certain way.
Anyway, people shouldn't be afraid of bbw, we are just skinny girls with extra fat and skin...meaning...we are humans!
If you are not attracted to bbw, fine by me, just don't make it a problem to me, it especially pisses me off when guys come up and tell me, you are fat...i feel like screaming in their face, duh i do look at myself in the mirror from time to time!
Anyway...i will stop ranting now...lol Accept us as human beings and treat us like it..and you will be surprised, we actually don't bite! LOL
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Posted: 2/1/2007 5:42:57 PM | Im sorry, i just can't understand that answer lil blackmagic. Most of the men i've been with have been below the average weight...did i tell them to help me go to the gym and turn me into them? Hell no! Wanting to be accepted and having dates doesn't mean we're going to force feed food down your face or tell you to stop working out or ask to tag along, that's ridiculous!!
But anyway, i respect your opinion, don't just quite understand it. Do you really think bbws want to date fit men because they want them to help them lose weight? If i really needed that help, i'd hire a gym instructor.
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Posted: 4/17/2008 7:41:43 PM | Dear Rocinstein,
I have known the good and the bad of you - sorry to say the latter ended our friendship. You also introduced me to a woman you met on POF years ago - she being a beautiful BBW. Because she and I hit it off, she confided in me, also for the reason being that you were my friend, and she came along afterwards - you and I, let me make it clear, our friendship was very very platonic, no romance, none of that, just friends.
However, whenI first befriended you by another friend, you told me about your history, you having been a Big man, having lost a tremendous amount of weight, slimmed down somewhat, and your medical problems thereafter.
I understood this. YOu had met your BBW here on this site, and from the beginning you used to tell me, she wasn't suitable for you because of her extra weight, albeit, you gave in, and started dating her - I had feedback from you, and from her, regarding your turbulent relationship. You, in the end, gave her up, the sweet, intelligent, woman that she is - I always liked her, gave her up in the end, because her extra body weight, bothered you. YOu having once been an obese man.
How contradictory is this? Tell me. Ok, you are entitled to fall in love, date, marry, whomever you choose. None of my business. I was involved in your relationship, because, the 3 of us went out, had a good time together. ANd, I pitied her. I pitied her not because she is not a woman of substance, but because I knew you were going to dump her one day and she had fallen madly in love with you already, so it was too late on her side of things.
But, tell me this ok? After a very long time I abstained from Plenty of FIsh, I returned tonight. TO find that you had 'viewed me'. Our friendship was broken last, because of your harsh words to me. Becauùse of your pre-judgemental views towards me, because you seem to be harsh, crude, no class, just basically saying what's on yr mind without regard to the other person. I ended our friendship, yes I did, but because 'she' was heavily involved with you, she found it necessary to end our friendship as well. Sh e after all, was in love with you. But, I see now that you two's have broken up. ANd I know the reason why. Because you couldnt live with a BBW.
Find yourself a slender woman once and for all - and GOD BLESS, because I doubt you'll ever find anyone as gentle, kind, compassionate, intelligent in the woman I had met through you - the woman you dumped - the woman whose friendship with me ended as a result of YOU.
I still cannot understand why you 'viewed' me on Plenty of FIsh, You were curious no doubt to see if 'I was still looking' right?
Well, I am not. I am happy with my friend I met here on this site and I have no interest in meeting anyone else.
I was going to cancel my profile here - when for the last time I was curious to see 'who viewed me' and saw you had changed your ID, and was still looking for that perfect woman!
The best of luck to you, when you find her1
And, Rocinstein, I will not reveal 'her' identity but I am sure she reads these boards, and she'll know who I am.
And please Rocinstein, look deep within yourself and do not judge other people - in the long run, you'll only be judging yourself, and will lose friends..and one day, you'll find yourself ALL ALONE... and perhaps reflect on yr past, perhaps thinking, I had a good woman once upon a time, a BBW, and I gave her up because of her size, because I wanted her 'fit' because I used to be a big man, and I lost weight, and now I go to the gym and work out and I expect my future woman to take care of herself LIke I'm doing now, but ROcinstein? The question is when you find this fit, slender woman - will she want you?
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Posted: 4/17/2008 8:43:47 PM | OP - If you have fears and can't accept the fact of being BHM or BBW - Go on a diet and quit checking out the best pizza places in town
Now Stop crying about your fears or would you perhaps like some cheese with your whine 
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Posted: 4/19/2008 10:18:57 AM | AS far as i'm concerned, the last thing i look in a woman is her weight.
It's her SHAPE that's really important.
Yeah. a woman can weigh 200 lbs (and probably close to 6 feet for example) and be a total FOX. A HOTTIE.
Look for the waste/hip ratio, not the weight.
With the correct W/H R, between a skinny woman and a BBW, i take the BBW all the way. 
JMO
btw: what the hell is wrong with you people? There must be at least a dozen threads on appearances, fake boobs and botox in the Quebec forums.
It says a lot about the people there who are quick to make judgement on people. whether it is language, religion, sexuality... or weight. 
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Posted: 4/19/2008 10:32:24 AM | ^^^^Nothing fake sweet thang... au naturelle like God intended ... I do not believe in nothing fake.. ok, maybe fake hair colour .. which reminds me.. off to get my fake blonde streaks put in
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