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Posted: 4/19/2008 6:15:09 PM | | On the Elvis question...I'll pass on either one...thin or big. It always amazes me how people are so quick to judge someone by their looks. Nicely wrapped presents are attractive ...but if you open the box and it's empty...........major disappointment!!! | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 3:00:03 PM | What if the box is the empty box is the present though? People can enjoy a good box.
Can store stuff in it, decorate it, etc.. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 3:12:03 PM | | yes they can store things in a nice box...but then once that is filled it's stored away, not all that important in ones life. Does it matter if it's a large container or a small one? Depending on the purpose, but people are not items and should not be judge as one. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 4:59:17 PM | Well, I am not into boxes
I am not an item....I got a shape, I got a brain, a brutally honest mouth or opinion..I can assure you if I were a box... it wouldn't be empty  got lots to say... only God can judge on you .. what and who you are and what your purpose in life is...I am just here to give my opinion from time to time depending on the mood (OK, sometimes I try to reinforce it)...now then, is that against the law? 
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Posted: 4/14/2009 8:56:53 AM | I know this was posted long ago but, c'mom....
[It’s simple, I hate BBW because I’m not attracted to them, simple as that........And I will never date a BBW, so does that mean I have a phobia, No! It just means they are not attractive because they do not take care of them self]
Wow, so you hate us and we are not attractive. That's a very agressive and anger filled response. Then of course there 's your post: At first you say your not attracted to us (which is your own thing; good for youand us!) and then you say we are not attractive (I guess you mean to the general population at large). Then you get defensive. Hmmm, my spiddy-sense is tingling.  | |
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Posted: 5/17/2009 1:10:30 PM | Unreasonable Phobia fears of BBW/BHM
I wouldn’t have any problems getting very serious with the BBW, if by that you mean Big & Beautiful Women; in fact, I wouldn't have any problem with a woman of any size or shape, skinny kitty like, cute & chubby, or big & beautiful, as size is really not that important to me, as long as there is affectionate, kind, gentle, faithful, attentionate, and genuine love, with no financial or materialistic expectations in return, just pure honest love | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 7:28:25 AM | The only Unreasonable Phobia fears of Big & Beautiful Women I have ever seen in my life is Big & Beautiful Women who say of themselves Big & Beautiful Women, but do everything to lose those Big & Beautiful round female curves, and in fact lie to themselves and don't really accept themselves the way they are, and than perhaps some men really do appreciate Big & Beautiful Women who truly reflect that they are happy and feel good about themselves just the way they are; and I suspect it's a similar thing with men. Once people truly start to feel good about themselves, they reflect self confidence and radiate happiness around them; Some men don't like too big women, some not to skinny; the point is not to try to please everyone with your appearance, you can't please everyone, but be truly yourself which will do a lot more than any crazy diet, or extreme exercise routine, and be happy, which will allow the people more attracted to your genuine looks, to more comfortable to come to you. Men & Woman are turned off by folks not happy about themselves. I know a lady who doesn't seem to realize that round is beautiful, and a big smooth belly is sexy to some, and not everyone is shallow and does not look at a person’s heart. Sometimes, all crazy diets do is stress yourself and the people around you, all to try to attract folks not really for them, and that they wont be attracted too anyway because of the diet stress and lack of self respect and self confidence
All I could say is be yourself folks, it’s better than not being yourself, and stressing everyone including yourself with crazy skims; you can’t please everyone, so concentrate on those you naturally please. And If someone looks at you in a certain way, it might not be because he or she dislikes at all what is seen, but rather the opposite, but if the person is uncomfortable about his or her looks, then that is what will be radiated around, and it will turn folks away. Your choice really, it's all in the mind; you want to radiate happiness or uncomfort and sadness towards those that could potentially like you
Personally, I just see beauty & good in all sizes, I'm not stuck up to a specific size or patent, the attitude and human qualities (gentleness, kindness, generosity, affectionate, happiness, loyalty, smiling) makes the difference in the end, and when a person doesn't really feel good about herself, it's a bit of a turn off, and I wish those folks would stop hitting their head in the wall to not be who they really are, and just feel good about themselves so we can finally enjoy a genuine honest long lasting loving relationship; sometimes it just annoys me(for not saying P!$$#$ Me Off) how some just ruin everything because of those stupid false fashion trends.
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Posted: 5/23/2009 10:43:20 AM | Yeah all those that claim to bash on fat people because they care about their "health" are full of sh*t. They don't care if fat people fell over and died on the spot. What they care about is vanity or what their friends will think. That's the way it is and its best to just accept it. I roll my eyes at the "cause its unhealthy" speeches cause they are always hiding behind that when what they really want to say is that fat people are gross.
Forget about people that want to put you down there are plenty more that don't. I always tell the fat haters to just stay away from me. lol | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 1:59:27 PM | Yeah all those that claim to bash on fat people because they care about their "health" are full of sh*t. They don't care if fat people fell over and died on the spot. What they care about is vanity or what their friends will think. That's the way it is and its best to just accept it. I roll my eyes at the "cause its unhealthy" speeches cause they are always hiding behind that when what they really want to say is that fat people are gross.
In my view there is nothing more healthy and seductive than a confident affectionate smiling big and round figured woman with a nice smooth belly, that is comfortable with every single one of her pounds, and I'll never turn away, when available as now, a Big & Beautiful woman that shows interest and smiles at me. The real ugliness is those that can’t accept themselves fully, and stress everyone around them in the process to try to lose weight so severely and drastically, almost like an obsession of some disease
And too bad you live so far away in Texas, you look absolutely beautiful, I would be like in heaven with a big beautiful girl like you to cuddle with, spend long kissing sessions with, and you seem so down to Earth
If you have an exact perfect twin of yourself that lives up north in Montreal Canada, with the same down to Earth attitude, let me know, I would be honor to have a nice girlfriend and life long companion exactly like you
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Posted: 5/23/2009 5:10:06 PM | I'm a BBW and not generally attracted to large men. That doesn't mean that if I met someone I felt a connection with that I would pass on it. I don't like being overweight and I work on it sometimes...sometimes I don't. Going to a gym is out of the question for me because it's too expensive and like someone else said - why do it when people will just make fun of you? I do walk alot and I've changed my diet ALOT in the last few years but it still doesn't help me much.
So, instead of dwelling on my weight and feeling sorry for myself I work on what I wear and how I act. I don't sit in the corner being miserable. I get out and enjoy life. If someone doesn't like me because I'm fat that's his or her loss not mine. If you're going to judge a person just on their size I wouldn't want anything to do with you even if I was "thin".
Everyone has his/her own opinion of what is sexy. Everyone is attracted to something different. Hating a certain group of people because they don't fit what you want is pathetic. Thank you and have a nice day!  | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 10:49:41 PM | I'm a BBW and not generally attracted to large men. That doesn't mean that if I met someone I felt a connection with that I would pass on it.
No one ever said bigger folks had to be set together, some skinnier folks like bigger folks, and visa versa, et vive la différence
I don't like being overweight and I work on it sometimes...sometimes I don't.
Maybe you have it all backwards and maybe what you hate is not fitting in a fashion mould, and just being special to someone who likes a rounder more voluptuous woman
Going to a gym is out of the question for me because it's too expensive and like someone else said - why do it when people will just make fun of you?
Again, Maybe you have it all backwards and confuse the meanness of some with actual envy and jealousy of you round feminine figures, while they have so little to offer in that department
I do walk alot and I've changed my diet ALOT in the last few years but it still doesn't help me much.
Nothing wrong with a little exercise to keep healthy and eating more healthy foods, as long as there is no deprivation, and crazy starvation to lose weight
So, instead of dwelling on my weight and feeling sorry for myself I work on what I wear and how I act. I don't sit in the corner being miserable. I get out and enjoy life. If someone doesn't like me because I'm fat that's his or her loss not mine. If you're going to judge a person just on their size I wouldn't want anything to do with you even if I was "thin".
Maybe you also need not to so much hide your natural charms with darker clothes, and not being afraid to show some color, and to pay more attention to those that appreciate your big and beautiful full round female figures
Everyone has his/her own opinion of what is sexy. Everyone is attracted to something different. Hating a certain group of people because they don't fit what you want is pathetic. Thank you and have a nice day!
If the world only had skinny girls, a lot of men would be very miserable :-)
And the worse part is that some men actually much prefer and even dream of big beautiful round women, but are afraid everyone might laugh at their preferences, and end up going more towards less pleasing to them false fashion standart girls, and are too chicken or shy to go for their true fantasy, which they also might find more beautiful and much more intimidating.
PS: By the way you look very fine to me, in fact the only thing wrong I see about you is that you live too far away from Montréal; otherwise I see nothing wrong, except maybe the smoking which most serious men and women these days ignore completely and totally avoid
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Posted: 5/28/2009 6:05:46 PM | I do have a strong case of BBW-phobia, and it is not unreasonable!
Every time I see a curvy beauty, I lose my cool. I can't look her in the eye. I stammer. I lose the ability to form coherent sentences (or thoughts, for that matter).
It's not just the curves. It's also the human warmth, the unfailing sweetness, the natural charm with which each and every real woman I've known conducts herself.
Damn you gorgeous gals! Why can't you be a little more vacuous, a little more arrogant, a little less wonderful in every way? Then I could keep my cool, ignore your bony bod, and walk on by. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 10:40:24 PM |
Renaud, thank you for the kind words.
Not really kindness, just being honest, and calling it as I see it | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 2:57:01 PM | Bodeans said it best:
Everybody wants to live
How they wanna live
And everybody wants to love
Like they wanna love
And everybody wants to be
Closer to Free
Everybody wants respect
Just a little bit
And everybody needs a chance
Once in a while
Everybody wants to be
Closer to Free
Everybody one
Everybody two
Everybody free
Everybody needs to touch
You know now and then
And everybody wants a good good friend
Everybody wants to be
Closer to Free
Everybody wants to live
How they want to live
And everybody wants to love
Who they want to love
And everybody wants to be
Closer to Free | |
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