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| sistermoon
Posted: 10/29/2005 11:47:24 AM | | Well sister, I'll say that meeting people on sites is easy enough..it's the 'catching' them that takes work! As far as doing that with your profile, you've done a great job here! However, I would take out the line about your not working. Although your reasons are quite noble, men still don't want to think of you as a finacial burden. That info isn't nessasary and if it needs to be with a potential man, then you can bring it up. Otherwise, you seem very confident with yourself and any man should be so lucky to meet you! Good luck to you! L | |
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| Twilight04
Posted: 10/29/2005 12:03:39 PM | | Thanks for the comments..it really does mean alot! I too, am a writer, among other things! I'm with you all the way about grammar, however, you really don't need to stress your hatred for it to the levels you did. It's a proven scientific fact that alot of men can't excell at english as women can! (they get the math gene instead!) Even still, your words on their lack of this ability are somewhat insulting and really should be taken out. I'd hate to think of a good man passing you by because he can't write or spell to your standards! As far as your 'turnoffs'(?) May I suggest you just flat out remove them!? If/when you meet someone who has those characteristics, don't see them anymore! Simple as that! The sense of smell is everyones primary sense. It's the stongest sense linked to memory and again..if you can't stand that about a person, (which who can?), then move on. You move about your profile describing yourself as a nice person but it spirals out of that realm at the end when you display sarcasm towards men and their faults! You may want to re-think yourself here!! L | |
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| itsmemiked
Posted: 10/29/2005 12:05:56 PM | | I'm wondering here if you have a point to make? Did you want me to review your profile? Then ask!! Otherwise I won't..L | |
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| itsmemiked
Posted: 10/29/2005 12:38:33 PM | | I just think it's nice that you do this for people so I wanted to do something nice for you. Let me know if I squeeze too hard. HUG,HUG,HUG,HUGGIE-HUG HUG! | |
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| For Lolla
Posted: 10/29/2005 1:34:42 PM | Lolla
With Respect
Thanks for your 'constructive' feedback which was more like a venomous beating. I see you do some great work on here in general, and I did ask for your opinion so I have only myself to blame I acknowledge.
I'm cognizant of the fact that you are also just a regular person also sitting at a computer desk, who has taken this task upon yourself to review peoples profiles, which is admirable.. but you are not the profile review queen and eternal godess either
I guess I was looking for some positive pointers or friendly advice or perhaps clarification that any of my profile was 'ok' instead I received a personal vicious attack. Perhaps you had a long day or were fed up doing this profile review for folks. Not only were you ripping my profile a new ass but in essence my character and personality, which is very insulting.
Keep doing the good work, just remember.. people have 'some' reasons for why they post certain things and you cant say people do or do not have alot of 'friends' just because you dont know of many people who do..(or you speak from personal experience) Also I wouldn't consider being homeless 'normal', I never mentioned anything about regular folks using starbucks to try and meet people but 'bums' and 'drifters' and there is some what of a problem with homeless men trying to hook up with suga mammas here in San Diego.. (Maybe homeless woman too but I dont have personal experience with that)
Thanks to you, I'm keeping my profile as is, since it seems to be working and its only pissing the % of folks that wouldnt be what I want to meet or communicate with anyways. I have met some GREAT people on this site, I can honestly say your comments were one of the very few nasty comments I have recieved thus far which is a low percentage. Usually like people tend to attract each other for the most part - thank god
Take care
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| simpa
Posted: 10/29/2005 7:44:40 PM | Lolla, Thanks very much,
A bit more positive than my other visitors seem to think but an opinion known is an idea acheived.
Good luck yourself :) You have the attention, now work it ;)
Keep Smiling :) | |
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| sistermoon
Posted: 10/30/2005 1:54:20 AM | Thank you Lolla, advice taken. It's always nice to get genuine feedback.
Now let the games begin! lol
You are doing a wonderful job. All the best xx | |
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| For Lolla
Posted: 10/30/2005 3:09:40 AM | @euroqtee - Normal people respond in normal ways and always based on their own personal experiences and environment. Some people love verbosity, some brevity. Some like clear cut attempts to avoid the negative and other always strive to bring out the positive. Your profile was submitted for review, not your character or personality. Lolla only has your words to go by and a few posts you may have made in the day or two you had been on this FREE dating site where we are all homeless in so far as we would love to share our time and lives with someone. You say you love your life and don't NEED anyone in it. You tend to, on the outside looking in, be a little judgemental. Everyone gets a sense of what you don't want. That works for you, but in one person's opinion, when asked, it is a sucky way to meet Mr. Right. Life teaches us that real friends are rare and treasured. You can't have too many, but we do tend to acquire many more aquaintances then true friends. Lolla has endeared herself, through her efforts here, to many because she takes the time to help and does her homework. You are a nice lady and live in America's Finest City. If you see a guy sitting on a park bench in Balboa Park with a blanket roll and knapsack, keep walking. If you meet a guy in Old Town who asks if you'd like to get a drink at the Hotel Del Coronado, go for it. It takes all kinds and you are one, so is Lolla. You asked and she gave you her candid opinion, she always does. Take her advice or leave it as you have chosen to do. Others will hug her or thank her. She'll be back tomorrow unaffected by the negative impressions of her work and happy for the positive things she is given credit for. I'm sorry you took her words as a personal attack, but you did ask for it. Some people get a kick, some get a cookie. Be like the homeless guy who is on a computer at Starbucks trying to make himself better or improve his position in life. I hear he found a wonderful job, bought a house, and met a sweetheart one day in Old Town. A FREE dating site is full of weirdos and also wonderful, witty, insightful people. No venomous beating, no vicious attack, and no a$$ ripping. If you knock on every door from Hillcrest to El Cajon and say, "You don't want to buy a vacuum cleaner do you?" Your sales will be horrible, but if you say, "Boy do I have a vacuum cleaner for you! Look at this thing!!!" Even I might buy one. Lolla has an intuition about how words are taken and just what makes people's eyes light up. To see ourselfs as other's see us!! Guess what? She didn't like your profile! You didn't like her for saying so. Let's meet at Starbucks, I'll buy you both coffee if you promise to bring a few new vacuum cleaner bags. I live in a cardboard box on Fiesta Island. Lolla's going to kick my butt for doing this too, but I happen to think she's awesome. JMHO, take it or leave it!  | |
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| ceknasmile
Posted: 10/30/2005 1:09:29 PM | Thankyou lolla ..Ive removed this portion now..I know it was alot to have in a profile but I thought it would weed out some and importantly show more about me ...I'm not above admitting when I'm wrong ..
What kinda of >00> am I looking for ? Well I'm NO MASTER ANGLER but I want just ONE GOOD whopper preferably "sole"!One that has the courage to venture out of the weeds and experienced enough to swim in the open water,both shallow and deep(deep is good but to shallow is no good though) One with only one eye (faithful/loyal) thats got a heart of gold (so I can treasure it)thats so big that its hard to believe I caught it (a pic will help prove it though).One that is so attracted to my "lure" that it WANTS to get caught paticularly by me and is smart enough to know it even if my line might be a little worn and rough and the reel has been cranked before ,it reconizes the rod is still in great shape! (how do you do a wink here?)...One that sees the boat is in rough shape ,but it's still floating and it is'nt afraid ,it is attentive enough to either pull the boat to calmer water or at least try and pull some mud n sticks in with it to plug up the leakin holes so that at least we're hitting shore together.One that is'nt going to jump ship just because of some rough water or theres too much sun (I'd be putting a towel underneath and massaging with water) . Then once we are on shore and I'm holding this healthy average sized fish I see its magnificent colours ,how they sparkle and change with every movement , I'm intoxicated by its presence in my hands so much that I'm not wondering about what waters it has swam in.I'm just thankful that those waters lead it to me...........I'll stop there because after the flint and steel...we really get cooking and there's dipping in wine,and getting spicy with devouring and forking going on and things are just sizzling..It may be more than some bot ty may allow me to post.... Nowwww I'm wondering,,,,, is this descriptive enough ?? | |
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| beeker246
Posted: 10/30/2005 2:28:24 PM | | Thank you very much for the feedback, it is appreciated, but...maybe it's the hangover today but the fifth word in the last sentance is ever......kinda confused!!!!! | |
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| Let ME analyze your profile for you
Posted: 10/30/2005 4:12:04 PM | | hey fancy pants. I have not analized your profile, but it seems that youve spent some time on mine. Now>>>>>what kinda deal is that? If You have a relationship going, I could deal with that. I think it would be only fitting for you to mail me. Everithing was true. You don't have any idea of this heartfilled man that you started this little venture with! I really hope to hear from you you you! As Sincere as I could ever be. Mr. Kevin M. Smith | |
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| You are correct
Posted: 10/30/2005 4:25:44 PM | | Actually there is a lot more to me than Irevealed You really have no idea what I'me made of& if you want to know then you're gonna have to write or show up. 4022741194 Kev | |
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| sparkyyoung You little Sweetheart
Posted: 10/30/2005 4:40:28 PM | | Thank you so much for your remarks on my PROFILE. If you are not spoken for,I would just luv to meet you You seem very intuitive. We need to meet! Heartfelt from Kevin | |
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| For Lolla
Posted: 11/1/2005 2:27:39 PM | time2spare..I knew I always loved you for a reason!! Thanks sooo much for your positive feedback reguarding my unhappy 'customer'! As for 'euroqtee', well you're right..you DID ask me and I ALWAYS call 'em as I see 'em! Otherwise why would I bother wasting my time!? Yes, you're right again when you say I'm sitting at a computer just as you are..HOWEVER...It isn't mine!! I ask you, "Did you have any clue of that?" I, myself DON'T own a computer but I still manage to abide my time here for YOU and others who would like my opinion. You're completely WRONG when you say I'm just a 'regular' person...Hardly! Nor are you or anyone else! I'm working on my master's in psychology (it'll be a while..) as well as english literature and secondary education. While I'm struggling with that, I'm also struggling with my rent and a deadend job. So, perhaps in a way, I am speaking from experience and consider myself to be one of the people you (although not a man..but in general) you were rejecting. Trust me when I tell you that I've given worse critiques! I never claimed to be a queen or a godess..but who knows maybe in someones eyes someday, I just may be! The same applies for you and everyone else! Again, I'm only doing what I'm asked of me and I do it with pride and great care. If you don't like what you hear well, then don't! Look around you, if you will, and you'll see that the '%' is in my favor here! L
**Beyond this post, I'm done with your profile and feedback..I',m too busy & I'll respond to it no more. | |
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| desert serenade
Posted: 11/1/2005 2:29:16 PM | Thanks babe!! I needed that..always!!  L | |
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| ceknasmile
Posted: 11/1/2005 2:37:38 PM | | I'll re-review this and gt back to you tomorrow! (ok!?) L | |
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| Next in line for Lolla....
Posted: 11/1/2005 2:40:06 PM | | I'll be back tomorrow afternoon after work to help you all out..promise! As for everyone else I've already seen..THANKYOU so much for your kind remarks and gestures! Again, you've all made MY day! So glad to help & luv you all.. L | |
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