why hold out? that's so stupid.

1. Guy's with a lot of body pictures. Pics of the abs and crap. Douche bags, they only want u to like them for their body. they cant post anything else because it might require they have to talk to you, which is something they dont know how to do.

Or maybe they know that women don't read the profiles any more than men. They just click on a pic they like a lot of the time. And until you've got dialogue, they have no other way to differentiate themselves. Or maybe they don't know what they're supposed to do in this environment and they're just apeing what they see.

2. Guy's who take pics with other girls in provocative manner. Again, they want u to see that they can get a lot of girls, so why are they bothering on this site if they have girls around them all the time? They think that by showing u that that u'll be more interested...WRONG.

Or maybe they know that they often WILL be more interested. Because you look like you're living life and having fun, not sitting woodenly staring at the camera you're holding in your hand while you sit home alone wishing someone would talk to you.

3. Guy's whose interests revolve around: Drinking, working out, clubs and partying. They have nothing to offer except the fact that they always know where the keg is. If you want shallow, then thats all they are. If they cant even pretend to be interested in something that is mature then u should not try to expect an Einstein conversation with them.

Yeah. Because there aren't any women who like those things. Deep down inside, they want to be dating Einstein so they can finally put a stop to all this childish fun stuff like taking care of themselves and socializing.

4. Grammar. Guy's who cant speak like a normal person and use words that you stopped using once you passed third grade. Typo's are ok, unless it's so butchered that u cant even tell what word they are trying to say. A way a person talks shows how they act and think. Most businesses will NOT hire someone who talks like a wanna be rapper.

That's right. Spelling and grammar are the ultimate judgement of intelligence. Except my brother, who has a 4.0 GPA in university and works in neuroscience but can't spell to save his life.

5. If a guy even HINTS at sex in his first post, delete on sight (and block). The more you do this the less they will attempt it. Real guys dont want sex at first because they dont want a girl to give it up so easily. They want someone who they can know first, talk with, spend a little quality time with, and then when you are into the relationship and decide thats what you want, you can get as kinky as you want.

Of course. When you're looking for someone to date, you need to be very careful not to show any attraction or flirtation. What are these guys on?

6. Guys who write 2-5 word messages. Self explanitory, since their brain isnt focused on anything other then hiding their drunkenness. A real guy might be jaded since he can write a paragraph or two and not get a reply back (or even the dreaded "read:deleted"), but that doesnt mean "Hey baby, whats up?" is acceptable for anyone!!! A real guy will show that he READ your profile, say what he likes about you and what interests you share. If he cant even name an interest you wrote then he doesnt care about you, just your body pictures.

I must not be a real guy. Real guys write long love letters to every stranger they'd like to get into a dialogue with. Guess those women who don't have a long involved profile full of seeds for the imagination aren't even worth introducing yourself to. I know if someone said to me "Hey baby, what's up?", I'd probably say "Screw you, you insensitive ****! Where's MY love letter? Don't you know I like capoeira, dancing, playing harmonica and discussing social issues? How dare you talk to me like I'm some stranger you've never met before!"

Yeah. Put up your filters and walls, and keep judging these guys without ever talking to them and making bitter posts in the forums about "where are all the real men". Cause that's going to get you dates.

HEY LADIES....you pretty gals....let's make a pact.......start dating the younger guys. GO for it. I will tell you why....they are more honest, but it will leave to the old guys to have to face up to thier ways when they can't get a date. DOn't knock the young guys yet. There is a movement from here to Toronto, to London, to New York.....you guys are dating and marrying up in age by like 15-20 years. I read articles in the NY TImes, ABC News....this is not just a fad, its everywhere.....start dating younger. Why not ?