| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 7/22/2006 10:03:00 AM | ok..lol..first off, I am not looking for a virgin nor do I own any chastity belts....
Nor am I bitter. I am happy with who I am and the progressions I have made in my life. It's just that I am really not looking for someone who has kids already, mainly, because the 'ex' always pops in and out of the picture - and I won't be second to no one in any situation that involves my feelings. And I give th same in return. It just seems that everywhere I look anymore it's a dead end street in this factor... | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 7/25/2006 6:30:01 AM | My grandmother once said to me... "I quit, gets you nowhere real fast, but I can, moves mountains!"  | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 7/25/2006 6:37:10 AM |
Nor am I bitter. I am happy with who I am and the progressions I have made in my life. It's just that I am really not looking for someone who has kids already, mainly, because the 'ex' always pops in and out of the picture - and I won't be second to no one in any situation that involves my feelings. And I give the same in return. It just seems that everywhere I look anymore it's a dead end street in this factor...
In any womans eyes, the kids will ALWAYS come first whether they are hers, or yours, or ours. And if they don't she isn't a decent mother for kids. Second... If an "ex' is still popping in and out for emotional support, what they have is not over. You should move on. Their one and only reason for communication should be kids. Maybe this view will help you more, I have no idea. But kids ahould always be the primary focus in any relationship. Don't give up on women with kids, give up on women who are emotionally unstable with kids...  | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 2:53:48 AM | It's a double edged sword.
The older you get, the fewer women there are who don't already have kids.
But then, the older women who don't have kids probably never wanted any.
So, if your looking to find a woman who doesn't have kids and wants them, I suggest starting in High School.
Past 45, the pick'ns get pretty slim. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 6:56:36 AM | | Simple fact is and most women here will agree with me, is that men are like fine wine. We get better with age. We take better care of ourselves, make better lovers, are more financially stable and just flat out more mature. Age isn't a numbers game, it's how you feel inside! You need to get out of this headframe Vin and start working on your self esteem.. Sorry for being so blasted honest but hey, that's just me. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 7:05:15 AM | poshrat,,, I
m not far behind you,, and I'm not giveing up, eather,, till I enter heaven, then I might just chase the sweet old man around in heaven as well,,, xxxxxx | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 7:12:40 AM | | gabriel s,,,,,, ha ha ,, yes to all that you said,, but will add,, men are very much like a diamond,,,some have flaw's,, but are still nice to have and looked at,, some can still sparkle,, and fit real nice,, ha ha don't you agree, smile,, xxxx | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 7:22:31 AM | | Confused is right, Some "First" things are to be avoided, like death, only joking, I am trying to say not all first things are a good thing. Sometimes age and experience and renewed experiences can be pretty darn good. " Like a kiss it need not be the first kiss, but it could be the first kiss with a new special partner, get it. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 7:23:31 AM | Us women with no kids, no crazy ex's coming around who
are balanced with a comfy life...
don't need guys... in the way other women may...
we are mostly early retired and on permanent vacation
so you will not see much of us...
if we choose.
so... its another dead end cuz if your looking for one of us...
you better have your life in order... and self in order and balance
in every possible way... be emotionally mature... emotionally
balanced... have a great job or enough to retire...
because that is who gals like us look for.
because we can ! | |
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t-gurl
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Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 37 | |
| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 7:48:51 AM | | Well, if we've settled the debate on virginity, what sort of "firsts" are we talking about? If a person gives up having "firsts" in their life, whether on their own or with someone, they might as well just give up everything. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 7:54:47 AM | op your in middle age now...
you will be looking for "lasts" soon...
not firsts !
last car
last home to buy
last job to take you to retirement
last kid
last set of furniture
last leather jacket
last woman
first are for the youngings who have the time and energy !
Us smart people leave the firsts to those who have purpose for
the nonsense that goes along with growing up.
Be glad you made it this far... so you can start planning your "lasts"
that will take you through the next stage ( middle age)
into
old age...
cuz at 35... your not in the "firsts" catagory anymore.
that ends at about 21-25
for some who are late bloomers 30
and your over the hill now... like it or not. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:00:53 AM | so... its another dead end cuz if your looking for one of us...
you better have your life in order... and self in order and balance
in every possible way... be emotionally mature... emotionally
balanced... have a great job or enough to retire...
because that is who gals like us look for.
because we can !
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:06:35 AM | | Judging by the age range on this site......I would guess somewhere in your sixties?...lol | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:07:12 AM | OP: Are you in dreamland or what? Your 35 for heavens sake. Dream on baby, i doubt your gonna get what you crave for, your an old man to all the virgins out there. How could you even think of such a thing? Go and wash your mouth out with soap, then bang yer head on a wall till you hit reality again.   | |
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t-gurl
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Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 42 | |
| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:21:04 AM | Rainbowfishh, you are far far too young (and you claim to be older than the OP) to give up on firsts.
First trip to Paris (or any other country of your choosing)
First cruise
First time skydiving (no desire for that from me, but whatever)
First motorcycle
Many more firsts that I shouldn't mention publicly 
Looking back on things is one thing but I'd still like to look forward to things. | |
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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 43 | |
| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:33:59 AM | OP - I checked out your profile, you'd prefer not to say as to whether you want children or not. You're at that tough age where the majority of women out there will have children. Finding a woman without children at that age would be like winning the lottery. They are out there, but the process of finding them can be frustrating and slow.
You're living in an instant gratification world. We all want it now, we want it our way. I'm 15 years older than you are, and I still find men out there with kids under the age of 18! When I was 35, I preferred men without kids, but I was in the same boat you were.
Don't give up. There are other ways of meeting people besides online. Find some hobbies, interests, that you are passionate about. Just get out there and meet people. You love cats, you'd be surprised by going to cat shows, yes the women can get "catty" but there may be a lovely woman out there w/out kids who has common interests that you do. You won't score 100% of what you are looking for (looks, occupation, money, values, etc) in a person, but if the person you meet has 80-90% of what you're looking for, trust me you won the lotto! | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:48:05 AM | The day after I take my dirt nap ... maybe I'll get a reprive
To the Op
You never give up on something if that's what you truely want in your life
Besides what are youy worried about
You're on 72 people fave list
and you have 2 testimonals
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 9:36:11 AM | What is your expire date? You will find it in the middle of your back just above your bum. You will need someone to read it to you because I will not be able to see it. Go ahead I will wait.
Dum da dum....
...dum dum dum....
...da dum dum....
Oh...here you are. What? Nothing there right? I thought so. So you do not have to worry about this anymore. Next item please.
Doc Sage  | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 9:41:00 AM | You don't
If you are thinking in terms of "giving up" then you have been trying to hard in the first place.
If you are a half worthwhile guy then you shouldn't have to try. A good woman knows a good man when she meets him and the rest of the women are a waste of time anyway.
And if you are a waste of time then, even if you do scorea woman, you wont keep her for long. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 9:44:35 AM | Vindicator.
A lot of the time the ex will pop into the picture to check you out. Thats all.
He doesn't give a damn about you porking his ex wife but he definitely wants to check that you arent molesting his kids. | |
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| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/2/2006 10:38:30 AM | | our societys rules dictate if you havnt lost your v card by age 16 theres something wrong with you and ought to commit suicide..thats the impression ive been given at least. | |
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beario
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Joined: 10/2/2004
Msg: 50 | |
| what age does one give up by?
Posted: 9/9/2006 1:33:49 AM | Isn't a first the first time you have ever done whatever with that person? I already
had a child when I met my ex. The child we made together was the first one we
had together. He made my daughter his as well but the experience of pregnancy
and birth was our first as a couple. It's all how you look at it. | |
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