| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 5:00:53 AM | cancerians are most compatable with pisces or scorpio,
i seem to attract the ones im not so compatable with like. gemini and aquarius
i think some people take them far to seriously, they are just a rough guide
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 6:06:30 AM | What you missed was that the reason she gave you for not wanting to date you was in all probability just bull.
Next time you tell a woman that you're an Aries and she says she doesn't date guys who are Aries, smile and tell her you're really a Capricorn. Then sit back and watch as she says she doesn't date Capricorns who say they are Aries. | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 9:01:45 AM | galatic hedge hog i like that.im a scorpio and i have found thou sometimes considered fairy tales,I found sunsigns to be about 95% accurate in my life.And anything negative said about scorpios is true.lol .In closing fellow believers the compatabity matches with sunsigns traits etc do seem to jive check out sunsigns i,m off to troll for babes. | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 12:19:02 PM | Astrology is my hobby, and actually Capricorn and Aries can be very good together provided you allow for each other's differences. I copied this from one of my favorite astrology sites. Enjoy....
Capricorn and Aries
The Infant of the Zodiac may seem like a strange match for the Cosmic Old Man, but once you learn to respect each other's strengths and weaknesses, you can be the best of friends. Of course, first you will have to get past an initial sense of competition and agree to be on the same team. You may have completely different ways of getting your needs met, but in the end, you will probably learn to appreciate your differences.
Capricorn and Aries are both Cardinal Signs, giving you both the desire to be in the lead. The main difference is that Mars-ruled Aries will rush in where fools fear to tread, while you, being ruled by conservative Saturn, plan your strategy very carefully before making a move. Aries has no strategy and will often be up the proverbial creek without a paddle. It is here that you can offer support and wisdom, patiently demonstrating your ability to plan ahead with foresight. In return, Aries can inspire you with his or her feisty courage... the slogan, "Just Do It" must have been coined with the Ram in mind. Aries brings a freshness of perspective into your life, while you can provide a practical sensibility on which to build a strong foundation for any endeavour.
You'll certainly make waves in the sexual sense, but even in bed there'll be arguments about money, friends, socialising, and who's boss. Arguments tend to hang around, for both of you are strong-willed, aggressive and need to dominate. Aries loves to find out for sure if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, so jealousy can be a problem between you.
An Earth Sign blending with a Fire Sign, you'll need to take care not to stifle your Arien lover's natural enthusiasm. Sure, the Ram will need your uncommon common sense, but you often need someone more energetic to light a fire under you. In the same way, Aries needs to respect your need for moments of peaceful solitude and will hopefully learn that your reflective nature is in part what makes you so wise. Aries can also benefit by understanding your respect for the material side of life... what good is winning your battles if you don't have a comfortable home and family to return to?
This combination requires discipline, motivation, and will require the support of compatible Moon and Ascendant signs. While not as easy as some other partnerships might be, you both share the bonding experience of being ahead of your time and a world apart from the rest of humanity.
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 12:25:50 PM | Some one posted that it is kind of like a religion, for some people it is. Perhaps for others it is because they had a bad experience, then looked up the astrology compatibility and seen that it said they wouldn't be a good match, thus furthering the thought process.
I don't know, because I have had absolutely all signs go in astrology, Chinese too and things never got anywhere.
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 3:42:56 PM | I am a Taurus and I will not date or have a relationship with another Taurus. I`ve done it 3 times and each time it went for shit . A sweet (Taurus) lady conversed with me on POF a number of times via E mail but I turned her down because I did not want a relationship with another Taurus for reasons stated previous. Please don`t blame your Mom for your B day, it`s just not my thing. My apologies.....
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 4:28:00 PM | Anybody who has any true knowledge of astrology understands that the sun sign is only a tiny fraction of the natal chart. Basing decisions on sun signs alone is a bit silly. I do think that doing full composites of natal charts can be beneficial--though not in determining who is and isn't worthy of my time. Looking at the full chart can be beneficial in understanding how another person operates, communicates, etc. When you have a good understanding of these qualities, you may find yourself getting along with people you never thought you were compatible with at all--romantically or otherwise.
Bottom line: compatibility CANNOT be determined by sun signs alone. Not by a long shot.
Anyway, this chick sounds like a flake who has no idea what she's talking about. | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 4:47:19 PM | I hope not, I am a pisces and my chinese sign is the Tiger. I had an asian lady tell me that men don't like the Tiger Ladies because they are powerful and strong.
any opinions?...
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/29/2007 6:34:29 PM | 1. Do you think astrology really is a good indicator of relationships?
I would say that is helps in having an idea of what someone could be like, to understand them better. But they could be the exception that breaks the rule.
It just might make it easier to understand them, is all.
After all, one poster said that every time a friend's partner has been cheating, she asks them if he's a Scorpio. I'm one, and I never cheated, and I've met a good few who haven't. But one thing was true of all of them: they all loved sex with their S/O.
2. What were your experiences in dating women who had incompatibe sun signs?
One ex was a Gemini and another was a Leo. We still got on. The Gemini didn't last. The Leo, I might have married. But we weren't right for each other. We're still good friends though. | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/30/2007 8:09:59 AM | "YES" they do deserve and chance
(ONE) :)
this is not the end all of people just a way to compare notes, we all have "free will" to change or atleast work on what doesn't work in our lifes .. Time will tell in a relationship with any sign even the VIRGO'S ...
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 9/30/2007 5:13:18 PM | My sister is Aries and my brother in law is Cancer they are not supposed to match and they are still married 24 years later.
I am Cancer too and I was married to Aquarius who supposed to be match lasted only 7 years. | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:07:27 PM | The real question is what's your Divorce Sign? Find out what day and time the final decree was issued, and see how compatible you'll be should things go West ...
Did I say that out loud again? Bad pilot! No doughnut!  | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:25:54 PM | | I have been shot down at least 7 times, because I'm a scorpio. We can't all be that bad, can we? Scorps can't get a break from any sign,not even their own water signs. I can at least say I have never cheated on anyone!And I'm not a jealous person,or demanding person either.I don't base everything solely on this, but I have tested 90% Scorpio. | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:36:33 PM |
I have been shot down at least 7 times, because I'm a scorpio. We can't all be that bad, can we? Scorps can't get a break from any sign,not even their own water signs. I can at least say I have never cheated on anyone!And I'm not a jealous person,or demanding person either.I don't base everything solely on this, but I have tested 90% Scorpio. They're just saying that because they fell for a guy because he was very sexy & very good in bed, and let him treat her like dirt, and as a consequence never respected her and used her for sex and not a relationship.
Scorpios are incredibly sexy and fantastic in bed. Also, Scorpios respect strength, not weakness, and it's pretty weak for a woman to let a man walk all over her because of sex, so Scorpios are very unlikely to respect these women. So these women probably dated Scorpios & other men with the expected results. Instead of acknowledging their errors, they blamed the men, and avoid any men who have a reputation for being sexy.
Do you really want to date a woman who will let you treat her like dirt because the sex is good? You do know that the sex is what she wants, and if the sex is not going so well for a couple of weeks, she'll go off you, don't you?
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 10/1/2007 8:56:35 PM | eye4light.....
"[What if they came into the world with a pre-scheduled C-section birth? Do the doctor schedules turn them into different kinds of people?]"
Actully it doesn 't matter what day you are born...it matters when you were CONCEIVED and usually are born 10 lunar mo. or 180 days later....this does matter!
And the astrological charts are "adjusted" to make this adjustment...so if you were the result of some traumatic even, your astrological chart would be best read acording to when you should have been born...and the influences of the alignment of the planets at your conception. This makes much more sense. It is all mathematics and everything is reduced to math! Everything!
And yes there are 12 houses for the planets sun, and moon and their alignment...PLUS nurture has to mix with nature...and as genetics(numbers) of your parents contributed to your make up...so did the astrological signs of your parents influence the way you were raised....so the daily horoscopes...you bet they are over generalized......but so is a lot of things and we still go by it.
Even children of the same household are different...and have different birth order...thus are not raised the same. First born TEND to be more independent....summer babies TEND to walk earlier....why? First borns are the parents first time to experiment with child raising and the first born has only adults to watch...no siblings (unless in a large extended family...then rules can't apply then can they)...and babies born is summer have less restrictive clothing and less confinement to explore...they get to go outside in spacous environment that winter babies don't have available....or they would walk earlier also.
So are their lots of variables??? yep! but does that discredit the basic principals of 180 day gestation period births of know lat and long to acquire(be born with) certain characteristics???? nope!
Can this "knowledge" assist in matching compatibilities??? yep! But are all the varabiles known??? nope! Then would some mistakes be made as to the "true" sign and expectations of a person??? yep!
That is why "arranged" marriages were so arranged...and it cut down on divorce rate(as well as having other reasons for no divorce)...but if astrologically pre-matched,,,the couple had a better chance of "making it" than if "mis-matched"...
And the signs have "elements" assigned to them...earth..fire..water..air....
so I can boil your water...but your water can put out my fire!....and on and on...
So.... unless you understand all the little nuances and intricate composition...don't overgeneralize and say "IT DON'T WORK!" that's like doing chemistry and/or cooking and leaving out an ingrediant and saying the receipe is wrong...nope...you have to add the right ingrediants,,,at the right time,,,and have the right temperature for the mixture to come out as expected...otherwise...you don't get the same product as expected......
And that...boys and girls is how I understand astrology .... traditional...Chinese...or any other where numerical values are given certain properties and mixed to give certain results.....but...the fun of it all is to explore and see if we can alter the receipe or not....find out about people...how...why...they operate like they do....Astrology is but ONE TOOL....but it is a valid tool. nontheless.
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 10/2/2007 12:48:17 AM |
And the signs have "elements" assigned to them...earth..fire..water..air....
Well, I don’t know about air, but when it comes to relationships, earth, wind and fire are very good indicators of how things will progress for me. If he starts humming “Boogie Wonderland”, I’m outta there.  | |
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| Judging a relationship based on sun signs?
Posted: 10/2/2007 6:22:47 AM | | Well, while I think it's all a bunch of hogwash, there are some people who believe in it. That, just like anything else, is one of those things where you need to find someone who believes the same way you do about it. | |
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