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 Blk_Archangel7
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 401
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I personally hate b*tches and they easily get shown to the door in no time. But I do like a woman that is in total control of herself and controls what she can take or put up with.
 Mr.Versatility
Joined: 11/12/2009
Msg: 402
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Posted: 11/30/2009 6:00:46 AM
Let me start by saying that 90% of the female population are ****es, maybe not all the time, but its something every woman has in them, some are just better at hiding it...
Personally if a woman is a **** all the time, I wouldn't put up with their shit, the only guys that want a **** are boys with no backbone......

A Real man wants A real woman who's got some class and saves her ****yness for only certain scenarios which is acceptable..
 Savona
Joined: 11/22/2009
Msg: 403
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Posted: 11/30/2009 6:29:05 AM
Letting a man know you are really into him is the kiss of death.

I am not a biitch ... but I like to keep my distance and space.

I have experienced a few times that a man will say and act in a way that he really likes me and if I just accept his obvious intentions all is good. The minute I say yea I am really into you to .... pufff

Savona
 whenwillthiswork26
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 404
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Posted: 11/30/2009 9:32:56 AM
The author's definition of a "****" is a woman who gives a man a tongue lashing
whenever he tries to pull anything underhanded, which according to the
author is frequently.

In my last relationship I would have expended a whole lot of energy being
a "****". And it wouldn't have made him a decent human being. I just
would have gotten called "crazy" by him sooner.
 tangoski
Joined: 8/2/2009
Msg: 405
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Posted: 11/30/2009 9:11:42 PM
I dont know! If it is so I m going to Cheetas tonight to find a woman to love and get married...lol...
 aprincelyfrog
Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 406
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Posted: 12/1/2009 1:47:57 AM
As I said before, only boys like bit*ches, no self respecting man would put up with being treated badly by anyone... and boys and men come in all ages.

Women who feel the need to mistreat a man (be a bit*ch) is just weak and insecure... these are the same women who fall for bad boys and grow old, lonely and bitter (turn in to a bigger bit*ch) because they dont see their behavior as a problem.

Or as a fem friend of mine said: "Most women don't really like men. They like the idea of a man but they dont really like men." - and this is why most women are bit*ches.
 Fancy007
Joined: 10/3/2009
Msg: 407
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Posted: 12/1/2009 3:42:49 PM
You are correct in some of what you say. However, you obviously haven't read the book. There's a big difference in being "****y" and being a "****" in the sense that this book explains a ****. A real "****" wouldn't tolerate the bad boy. Ever. He'll shape up or she'll move on. Period. Read it and if you find a women in your life that fits the description as in the book, I guarantee you'll respect her, never take advantage of her and more than likely find her a very attactive package. Bet that.
 rk1980
Joined: 3/7/2011
Msg: 408
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Posted: 5/13/2012 11:54:32 PM
Definately agree.
 FRANKIE VUITTON
Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 409
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Posted: 5/14/2012 12:37:33 AM
Most man find ****s are easer to deal with then your girl next door.
 purfectmeow
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 410
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Posted: 5/14/2012 5:05:09 AM
^ Thats cause we put out, tell it like it is, and if people dont like it, they can take a hike.
Theres no false pretense of might vs. will. We just play by our rules until we meet someone worth the compromise.
 WD1094
Joined: 9/11/2011
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Posted: 5/14/2012 5:14:19 AM
It's not that men love ****es. Men love physical attraction and a lot of attractive women have learned that they can be ****es and get away with it because of their looks. So it's the look and not the attitude. People think men love ****es because they see women abusing men and they take it. Some men take it because they don't want to lose a person they are physically attracted to. What men really want is a sweet woman they are attracted to.

This same scenario applies to women loving bad boys. It's not the "bad" that they are attracted to it's the confidence. Women would rather date a confident bad boy than a wimpy nice guy. What they really want is a confident nice guy?

Reading a post above says the definition of bitch in the book is "a woman who gives a guy a tongue lashing whenever he try's to pull something underhanded".. well that is not a bitch but a woman who doesn't take crap. Men do respect that. No one likes a push over and every woman should behave this way when they are disrespected. That is not bitchy and so the title of the book is purposely misleading to sell books.
 CJinCentralPa
Joined: 2/14/2012
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Posted: 5/14/2012 5:19:15 AM
****es are a turn off and I avoid them like the plague...I torture the shit out of them in the workplace (with humor ladies...with humor) to shut them up but its not flirting...they are detestable and have the worst attitude.

Word to the wise...in most situations if you act like a **** you will be treated like a ****.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Posted: 5/14/2012 5:55:55 AM
BIt@hes are exciting and a challenge, they keep you guessing. Some men don't think they really deserve to be loved.

It varies and if a women is too submissive it's too easy to take her for granted, as in power corrupts most people. Really depends on how bIt@hy and the guy involved. It a guy is too submissive, then that isn't very good either.
 purfectmeow
Joined: 4/17/2012
Msg: 414
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Posted: 5/14/2012 6:32:03 AM
^Bingo! I date men that are confident or assertive enough to tactfully put me in my place.
I like an exciting challege myself and I am far from an easy catch. Most dates dont get a second one.
Its the nerds that ask and think I owe them an explaination as to why I said no.

If anything I do or say makes me a bytch then I embrace that side well.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 415
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Posted: 5/14/2012 10:11:20 AM
Jesus, what a load of crap.
There's being a little bit mean, and there's being a biatch. If a woman is one with me, she can hit the road. I don't have time or patience to play stupid idiotic games with people playing hard to get. I'm worth a helluva lot more, so a girl playing the biatch to me can go waste some other idiot's time...
Guess that makes me a b*stard then huh? Funny how ALL women avoid b*stards.....
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
Msg: 416
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Posted: 5/14/2012 11:49:15 AM
I must confess, I DO love them.



Then I leave them.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
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Posted: 5/14/2012 11:51:53 AM
I don't really know what a **** is. I think it's all in the interpretation.
One guy's **** is another guy's angel.

I suppose I should have read more of this thread.
Maybe it's referencing the book? In which case, they apparently
marry ****es as well.
 Whatheheck1
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 5/14/2012 11:56:49 AM
How do I feel about it?

Well, I believe there is a "direct rati0" between how attractive a woman is and how much bad behavior a man will put up with.

The "hotter" a woman is, the more "BS" a man will put up with.

A woman should realize that a smart man will not put up with this indefinitely. There are certainly limits.
 TraveliciousGuy
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 419
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Posted: 5/14/2012 12:16:10 PM

"B.I.T.C.H. Babe In Total Control Of Herself... Great book....about being in control of your life and yourself. The name gives it a negative connotation.


Yes, some marketing "genius" figured out that a book titled "Why Men Love Women Who Are in Total Control of Their Lives" wouldn't be a runaway bestseller, so they gave it a controversial title to generate publicity.

Haven't read it.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
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Posted: 5/14/2012 12:54:43 PM
I don't think this is true for most men in general.
But it is true as to advertising.

Certain product photo ads will feature an attractive lady looking mean
to move the product. The obvious message:
"I'm way too good for you. but if you buy this...maybe not."

That's why I don't read men's magazines.
It's annoying to see all those mean looking models scowling
at me from the ads.
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 421
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Posted: 5/14/2012 1:11:47 PM
It's not that men love ****es. Men love physical attraction and a lot of attractive women have learned that they can be ****es and get away with it because of their looks.



Yes, and thanks to all those guys who created these monsters and made us as a gender look dumb .


So it's the look and not the attitude.


I agree, unattractive women can't be bitches and get away with it at all unless it's with a truly desperate guy.


People think men love ****es because they see women abusing men and they take it. Some men take it because they don't want to lose a person they are physically attracted to.


So sad but true


What men really want is a sweet woman they are attracted to.


Amen
 silver323
Joined: 10/7/2009
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Posted: 5/14/2012 1:35:25 PM
some very frightening statistics on this thread,, women that are spoiled tend to be ****es,, i agree, but why are only ugly girls free of this ****iness ??? and " ugly girls" are only ugly to shallow men! i wouldn't consider myself ugly and i definitely wouldn't consider myself a **** ,, sooo lets not brand all women or even 90%,
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:45:03 PM
oh i don't know...i have many a male friend that seems to only end up with demanding, hard to please women. i think men do like women who are hard to please, and yes, in a sense, sort of ****y. maybe this doesn't work long term, but in the short term, i think a lot of men seem to respond to this for some reason. i suppose it is the equivalent of the stereotypical woman dating the bad boy, jerk off, and putting up with his cheating, lying, and other such nonsense.
 Plenty_of_FreeTime
Joined: 10/26/2011
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:50:22 PM
Why men love ****es.......We don't!

Haha,that's funny,it bleeps in the thread post but not in the thread title!
 MissAusra
Joined: 7/15/2012
Msg: 425
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Posted: 7/24/2012 9:51:27 PM
Lmfaooooooooooo!
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