| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/3/2006 4:43:45 PM | just cause some of us are opinionated dont mean were ****es.
but i say hooray to all ****es out there.  | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 3:12:25 AM | Men like ****es ? Uh....only a **** could think that.
However, I know you're talking about a book. Meh...in ten years somebody will come out with a book called "why women like ***holes" (who knows what that will ostensibly stand for) and fill it with pretty much the same stuff that gets repeated ad nauseum in every other book on the subject. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 5:14:01 AM | the title of this book drives away many people... this is good for the women like me... who have greatly benefitted from the info and tools/ skills taught in the book. lets face it... when a woman learns those skills.... its only to HER benefit and she keeps good care of herself. Guess with the title of that book... it is reserved for people who can truely understand what it means :) and can put it into action !
I would like to thank that lady who wrote the book... she did me a massive favor in putting what my grandmother said into new and modern terminology and applying it to microwave cooking, dipping suaces, pink slips and a lot of other things in a single and dating gals world...
 its nothing like that stupid mars and venus book which I think is just so .. well..... stupid ! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 5:26:41 AM | I love this book!!!!! I just wish I could learn to be more of the Biotch she describes! I keep being the other girl. dangit. But I am glad she put the info out there... I bought the other one too, why men marry bit ches... i keep it on my coffee table as a reference book. LOL I hope one day to be a b-i-t-c-h, oh I do I really DO!!! :) | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 8:26:28 AM | I have not read the book. But on a personal note, I have been called a B---- because I don't take sh-t from anyone, I express myself when I need to, when I exert my own independence, when I say what's on my mind when it's on my mind, when I don't act like a "perfect lady" in the sack, and under some other circumstances. I don't consider that being a B----, I consider it just being myself. Opinions are like ass-----, everybody has one. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 10:15:48 AM | | Blues...which is it .. married or not.. do you still love Bit....,s? | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 10:44:48 AM | I haven't read it....because chances are the person who wrote it followed me around for a while for research.  | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 2:08:31 PM | SnowBear . why do women get P.M.T?
............... they just do .. RIGHT !!!!!: | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 2:10:39 PM | never did like a ****y person male or female.
i prefer the friendly smiling type myself | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 9/4/2006 3:22:25 PM | I imagine that the meaning of b**** in this book is very different then its real meaning. Because the real meaning of a b**** is an animal with a vicious temper.
Ahhh, why can’t b****** (and a** holes I suppose) come with warning labels like the ones find on cigarette packages. | |
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| Babe In Total Control of Herself Posted: 9/19/2006 2:45:20 PM | That's what "****" stands for, according to Sheri Argov, the author of that brilliantly hillarious book, "Why Men Love ****es".
If you want to criticize something, you should know what it is your criticizing, and this book is a tongue in cheek look at how a girl who has always acted like a doormat can instead become a dream girl... a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask (nicely) for it.
In this case, a "****" is not a mean or nasty woman, but a woman with her own life and interests... a Babe In Total Control of Herself! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/14/2007 4:49:39 PM | | I read the book and have to say that the popcorn meal is worth it! I am a great cook and as soon as I start cooking thats it, I never get to go out again as I am always doing the cooking. I used that suggestion and it worked and even burnt that popcorn!! Yet on a deeper level, its important to be yourself because then when you find true love it will be because they love who YOU ARE and not who they think you are. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/14/2007 5:04:07 PM | | Self-preservation is awesome! But if one must play the part of the slave while the other plays the part of the tyrant, well, that’s just pathetic. Love has become a byword to some people! The unfortunate part to this all, is men and women are always playing mental chess with each other opposed to actually showing to the other who they actually are. Thus, when the relationship finally ends up where it belongs, in the pits of hell, they both play the blame game. Just get real……..if you aren’t ready for a healthy and mature, equality based, mutually understood relationship, then don’t waste other peoples time with trying to see if some book you have read has all the right answers if you follow and execute with accuracy the principles therein that have taught you how to exploit the male species on a grander scale. I mean really, get a job…and play them games at work. But when you are with your man, let him actually see you. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/16/2007 8:25:38 AM | The most recent thread on this topic seems to have been deleted so I will post my comments from today here. This was in response to Lone Stranger who posted:
Before I got caught up on this topic I had'nt said that word to anybody in many years....I can't remember the last time. It ain't me.
I don't like the word b**** either. It strikes my ears as harsh and coarse, and I can't see myself wanting to equate my identity with it even in an intellectual stretch. Trouble is, most of the material inside the book is very good.
I'm sure the b**** approach to the material and title were chosen because they are provocative. Look at the reaction it got from people here who have not read the book. I've seen the same reaction everywhere I've seen it discussed. Controversy is always a good marketing ploy, I suppose. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/16/2007 8:28:58 AM |
Self-preservation is awesome! But if one must play the part of the slave while the other plays the part of the tyrant, well, that’s just pathetic.
This is exactly the philosophy the book promotes. Read it and see if you don't agree! One does not have to become a tyrant in order to stop being a doormat. One merely has to adopt a heathy approach to the opposite sex. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/16/2007 9:34:14 AM | Because she is a "BABE IN TOTAL CONTROL OF HERSELF"  | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/16/2007 10:47:38 AM | I haven't read the book, but it's probably like "The Rules" in the sense that the target audience is so far to the doormat extreme that only toughlove will bring them to the center (as opposed to making them instant "b1tches". Some people need certain boundaries to work with so that they don't throw out what they've read.
If you are already a balanced person who is self confident, you realize you don't need help messing up your life from someone else, and you are tough about things you don't want from a man as dealbreakers, the book might be a mild form of entertainment for you, but not necessarily needed. I'll have to check it out. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/16/2007 10:48:47 PM | | in my experience it's because a lot of men where abused by their mothers. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 3/17/2007 10:16:59 AM | | I have read both books, why men marry/love B!tches.....both are great books and I highly recommend both of them!!! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 4/17/2007 9:43:27 AM | YES I BELIEVE THIS TO BE TRUE .....THE B*TCHIER I AM THE MORE MEN LOVE ME....
I GOT A PHD IN B*TCHERY...BY THE WAY....  | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 4/17/2007 9:51:22 AM | | So ladies? You are all raving about this book. It might give you some great reader entertainment, but do you really think that a guy with a future, self respect and self assurance will even consider staying in a relationship with a b%^ch when our options are to date good looking low maintenance women? Let’s face it, bi%^es are used for one thing and one thing only. You might be able to intrigue the male initially (the chase mentality), but once you give it up you are out the door he he. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 4/17/2007 10:07:29 AM | What is wrong with a woman ( Being in Total Control of Herself ) ? | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 4/17/2007 10:16:57 AM | | why woman love Azzholes.....they're a challenge... and most of the time there the pretty ones that are a ****.... | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 4/17/2007 10:27:09 AM |
What is wrong with a woman ( Being in Total Control of Herself ) ? Being in total control and beeing a bi%^h are two different things. Control and self assurance are sexy and attractive traits. Being and a%^ hole or B^&ch are not. Why, because being an A^& hole or bi%^h is always a product of low self-esteem. | |
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