| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/5/2007 3:15:43 PM | | I think of myself as an Alpha male. That means I have very strong opinions. So when I am around women that just say "yes honey" I am completely turned off. End of that. May as well say, roll over. So, why do we like ****es. Because only an Alpha female can put up with me. Hehehe. She is strong, has ideas, is willing to share them, is willing to win some and lose some. I challenge her, she challenges me, but the result of that exchange is just heaven. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/5/2007 3:48:25 PM | "Why Men Love ****es"
ULTRA-stupid and off-putting title. Simply using such a title immediately negates any positive points the book could possibly have. It smacks of cheap sensationalism in order to boost sales and, as such, falls into the 'flavour-of-the-week' category, not to be taken seriously. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/5/2007 4:25:27 PM | It forever escapes me as to why a woman should be called a "****"...especially by a man!....and "NO" , I don't think that it's even proper among "friends"
Any woman who would respond or think that such a name is "OK" , even as a joke, has a lot of serious self esteem issues..JMHO | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/5/2007 5:03:29 PM | I am going through the thread trying to get a gist of what the book is about, and whether to add it to the list of books of should-reads. Honestly, the title is stupid, though, just the kind of thing you would do to get publicity. But hey, it has its point - it aims to re-program the highly negative word into something more neutral. Let's face it, **stard does not have the same negativity attached to it as b***.
I agree that no one should be a doormat to another, there should be a healthy compromise between partners. But encouraging women not to cook or tidy house with their man to ensure not being taken for granted - both need to be engaged in these chores. As equals. Taking care of each of each other is what the whole point is of a loving relationship, don't you think? The problems start when you get involved in a crummy abusive relationship where one dominates, manipulates, and shames the other into accepting blame and shame and acting out in passive-aggressive behaviours they would never think of doing with their family, friends or others.
The issue of surrendering your will to another is not merely a female thing, and if more men came clean to express their dissatisfaction at being treated like they have been taken for granted, like doormats, and having their self-esteem slammed by the women who claim to love them, maybe more people would realize it is not about only gender differences - it is about human relationships that are toxic, where one allows (male or female) oneself to be repeatedly victimized by the other. Men do not have the monopoly on that type of abusive behaviour. 'Nuff said. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/5/2007 6:17:36 PM | | Given the fact that I have never heard of such a book, the title alone brings me to this conclusion. Because the good girls are too afraid to tell a guy how they feel. Just one of those things your parents never taught ya | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/9/2007 1:58:11 AM | | Haven't read it / Think its a load of crap. Unnecessary conflict is my kryptonite. Nice girls rule. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/9/2007 5:04:28 AM | The book "Why Men Loves B1tches" was a work in progress, a crusade to 'empower' the women so they go from 'doormat' to 'strong/independent woman', full of confidence to the point that "she understand that if someone does not aprove her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance."
If this other wording for the 'me-me-me' attitude is the guideline for the dreamgirl to have in a relationship...I pass.
The other book "Why Men Marry B1tches" is the work finished, once 'empowered' the women are in charge and in control of the relationship "to lead him to propouse you" looking like it was his idea or give him the ultimatum: "where is my ring?."
If this other wording for manipulation is a guideline for the dreamgirl to have in marriage... I pass.
I see both book as a revisionism, a new feminist aproach where the open confrontation treating the men as the enemy and destroying the nuclear family is replaced by the 'compromise' to restore the institution of marriage.
Of course, as long the roles are reversed and the women are in charge. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/9/2007 5:42:58 AM | Read what book? Who's the author? I'm supposed to know am I.
Anyway, I don't think men do love biatches - or women love b**stards. I just think they get away with it 'cos they're hot. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/20/2007 7:06:20 PM | The general idea is that men will stick around if they still get the thrill of the chase.
I was repeatedly advised to follow some of the things written in this book and I did not. Primarily, I made myself too available to the man I fell in love with.
I said I did not want to play any games , that this guy was different. He was real and if I wanted a real relationship with him, then I should just be real. And be his friend. And be available.
So here I am- he found it too easy and got scared and pulled away.
So if I had followed the advice, my girlfriend says, I would have had his attention for longer- long enough to get a real relationship.
So- what is real?
does this nice and real man just want a b!tch and not know it?
I don’t want to be a b!tch, but maybe I was just too nice.
remember it is not about screaming loonies! it is about strong women. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/20/2007 8:53:36 PM | I'm going to write a book "Why men love Women That Kick Them in the Balls"
WTKTB's know what they want and what they don't want, and they are able to communicate it to men. Men love that.
I could make a million dollars. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/20/2007 8:57:57 PM | Every time I read B*TCH in these post I thought about a motorcycle shirt I read once.
On the guy: "If you are reading this the **** fell off!"
On the gal: "This B*TCH doesn't fall off!"
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/20/2007 10:31:26 PM | | yah it totally just taught women to be independant and recognize when a guy is taking advantage of them....it really does teach ya how to be a dream girl. every guy wants a girl who has an edge to them and can hold down the fort ya know? i loved the book i even read the second one "why men marry ****es" i liked the first one better but this one was kinda like...."now that ya got him this is how to keep him." lol the title does give a bad impression but never judge a book by it's cover, even guys would have to agree with the stuff the authorette says! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/20/2007 10:32:32 PM | hmmmmm lets seeeeeee my def of a b*tch
sarcastic,smart mouthed condesending etc
mean spirited most of the time
lies,cheats,and blaims men for most of their bad behavior
dishonest about her part in failed relationships
basicaly figures men owe her ( she is so great she deserves everything)
Stuff like this. A woman who stands up for herself and can do it respectfully isn't a b*tch. A woman who meets this world 1/2 way everyday and realizes she isn't the only one on the face of the planet who has their good and bad days isn't a b*tch. A good woman shines like a star and is a pleasure to be around. A b*tch causes nothing but strife and conflict every where she goes. Loves to fight and argue. And her only pleasure in life is to WIN.
My 2 cents | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/21/2007 6:07:47 AM | There is a second one? ( msg 216)
I didnt know that... the first one was pretty complete.
who really needs to know more ?
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Posted: 8/21/2007 9:36:09 AM |
(Msg 212)The general idea is that men will stick around if they still get the thrill of the chase.
I was repeatedly advised to follow some of the things written in this book and I did not. Primarily, I made myself too available to the man I fell in love with.
I said I did not want to play any games , that this guy was different. He was real and if I wanted a real relationship with him, then I should just be real. And be his friend. And be available.
So here I am- he found it too easy and got scared and pulled away.
So if I had followed the advice, my girlfriend says, I would have had his attention for longer- long enough to get a real relationship.
So- what is real?
does this nice and real man just want a b!tch and not know it?
Does one expect to keep up the "thrill of the chase" forever? If the man requires that then sooner or later he will leave.
As for "he found it too easy and got scared" sounds like you didn't have much of a man to begin with. I wouldn't mourn the loss. His leaving is something to celebrate.  | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/21/2007 11:37:39 AM | | I have not read the book but from the title alone I can tell you that it is false. I can not stand b*tches. They are an embarrassment to take out to dinner anywhere let alone introduce them to your family or friends. They think they are so strong and always correct, act like they are so tough and masculine. It is a complete turn-off especially when they insult a waiter or waitress trying to act so superior all the time. They are just very unpleasant people, period. You can have your b*tches. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/21/2007 11:44:08 AM | HMMMMMMMMMM...and I always thought B-I-T-C-H stood for....beautiful individual that causes hardons... ...that's what b*tch stands for in my eyes... ...I love it when someone calls me a b*tch...because I am a beautiful individual that causes hardons... | |
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| My Bitch, Myself
Posted: 8/21/2007 7:27:40 PM | The Dover B1tch: A Criticism Of Life
by Anthony Hecht
So there stood Matthew Arnold and this girl
With the cliffs of England crumbling away behind them,
And he said to her, "Try to be true to me,
And I'll do the same for you, for things are bad
All over, etc., etc."
Well now, I knew this girl. It's true she had read
Sophocles in a fairly good translation
And caught that bitter allusion to the sea,
But all the time he was talking she had in mind
the notion of what his whiskers would feel like
On the back of her neck. She told me later on
That after a while she got to looking out
At the lights across the channel, and really felt sad,
Thinking of all the wine and enormous beds
And blandishments in French and the perfumes.
And then she got really angry. To have been brought
All the way down from London, and then be addressed
As sort of a mournful cosmic last resort
Is really tough on a girl, and she was pretty.
Anyway, she watched him pace the room
and finger his watch-chain and seem to sweat a bit,
And then she said one or two unprintable things.
But you mustn't judge her by that. What I mean to say is,
She's really all right. I still see her once in a while
And she always treats me right. We have a drink
And I give her a good time, and perhaps it's a year
Before I see her again, but there she is,
Running to fat, but dependable as they come,
And sometimes I bring her a bottle of Nuit d'Amour. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/29/2007 3:13:46 PM | Brandyboo
yeah not sure that the B in B I T C H stands for Beautiful tho, but i rekon your correct in the other initials........most women ARE p r i c k teasers and they get off on it.
i dont get hard ons from looking at women..........most women arnt worth wasting an hardon on.
yep a lot of women ARE B I T C H E S and most men are stupid and fall for the "charms" of these B I T C H E S.
but the BIG question is .......where are all the nice women.........oh sorry , they are with the thugs and yobs............my mistake.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/29/2007 5:51:18 PM | | I never read it, but I hope men don't love ****es. I am not a ****. I try to be nice LOL. Karen | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/29/2007 10:18:55 PM | | I don't put up with ****y people of either sex... ****y women in particular though rattle my nerves. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/30/2007 12:15:41 AM | I have No Idea WHY a self-respecting guy would marry a B***h . .
{Other than for $$$$$$!!! }
Even Moreso with a _Lady_ and a bad-boy . . !!
A Real Lady is to be Respected, Admired and Loved . . !! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/30/2007 3:19:58 AM | Maybe a woman that makes us feel small reminds us of our mothers.
"Lying and manipulation... why does that feel so familiar?" | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/30/2007 3:27:41 AM | I grew up in a household of B***HES...They loved to wrap men around their little fingers...
Bad thing about growing up around them, however...If you're smart and quick to observe, you learn all their tricks and become quite skilled at the art of turning their own BS against them...
Gotta watch out for the Frankenstien's Monster you create sometimes!!!  | |
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