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 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 126
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Can someone help me to understand men?
Posted: 6/13/2008 4:11:56 PM
Lets get one thing straight, all men want sex.
If you cant cope with that then stay away from men.

Clearly these men havent been playing your game and waiting for sex.

Its just some men are better at the game than others but that doesnt mean all men who wait arent just after sex.
 guy richie

Joined: 10/8/2005
Msg: 127
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Posted: 6/13/2008 5:15:16 PM
just what he said game. its a game to get in your pants and once they get it its bye bye. but making friends is much better because if you like them and you become good friends then you start to have feeling and they amount to something other just sex. so as for game those who feel that way wh7y dont they just go play for the NFL i know you wont make that game its too much for you.

guys who rush to have sex are just dog's
 singer James

Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 128
Can someone help me to understand men?
Posted: 6/13/2008 5:25:23 PM
Can someone help me to understand men?

That's probably never going to happen. If you don't understand men by now, you never will.
 Twinkieo

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 129
Can someone help me to understand men?
Posted: 6/13/2008 5:27:46 PM
If you want a guy to like you for more than sex, don't put such provocative pictures of yourself up here and make sure you demand respect. Make him do the work to court you. Don' t sell yourself short. If I've learned anything about men, its that they are actually very simple to figure out. They don't over-complicate things the way women do. Most men have one-track minds...meaning if they are hungry, they eat. If they want to watch the game, they'll watch the game. If they are horny, they'll look for sex. If they like you, they'll show you. So, be patient. Because, what you are looking for (a decent man, who will treat you like the princess that you are, and love you for who you are, not what you are putting out) is hard to find. You have to find that one person who is at the same point in their life as you are in yours, you have to be attracted to each other on multiple levels, you have to complete each others lives, and you have to be ready to commit to each other. Imagine the odds of finding that person. Its a lot harder than we allow ourselves to think. Just give it time, and don't let these douche bags who keep propositioning you for sex and only sex get in your way. Your Prince is out there. Focus on yourself in the meantime and let him come find you.
 vivaciousvixen2

Joined: 3/1/2008
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Posted: 6/13/2008 5:39:47 PM
You seem to be a nice lady. Everybody has needs. Don't change for anybody. Be yourself. There will be a man of substance who will appreciate you as a person.
Just remember, when these men don't call you back, it is not because of you; it is because of their own issues and problems with intimacy on a real emotional and mental level for a committed caring relationship. Leave your sexy pics up. Find yourself a hottie who appreciates you as a woman. All aspects of what you have to offer!
 browolf

Joined: 4/7/2007
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Posted: 6/13/2008 5:40:32 PM
You've really got to be figuring out how you keep having dates with guys like this.
There's a pattern there. Since not all guys are like that, you can't wholly blame guys per se.
There's no answer that doesnt involve you somewhere.

there's no logic in saying guys are all different since the OP is ending up with guys that are the same.
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