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 cedar77

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 151
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Posted: 1/4/2007 5:02:41 AM
Racism...Schmasism..... the term has been so genericized that it has NO meaning anymore.

Having, or expressing a simple opinion that doesn't "fit" in with the current Pop culture politically correct wordspeak of the day...is now called Racism! Its nonesense! I will not be held hostage by it anymore. And, I will not be held hostage by 'white guilt' anymore either. More nonesense.

this guy sounds like a fat bore. and he obviously lacks style. those are his main transgressions as far as I am concerned.


^^^
IMO ....one of the most honest and savy post's yet!
I think that when "racism" become's meaningless as is beginning to happen already ...people will be open and honest and will possibly make thing's better for all races.
 knee_hacker

Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 152
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Posted: 1/4/2007 1:19:57 PM
All your saying is world peace and everyone should get along. Why don't you just pull out a bong and call it hippy fest 07 ? seriously a person has the right to choose who they want to associate with and who they would rather not associate with and if you can't take it without crying or getting mad grow up. They blame alot of shit on social inequalities but I don't see them doing anything about it but complaining, selling drugs, going on welfare, and attacking people based on generalizations. It's cool now adays to be the "minority" I mean if your a different skin color of religious belief people want to hang out with you more because its socially acceptable, you'll never see anyone hanging out with a white kid cuz he's white. Now adays the white people are the minority, we do something wrong or slip up and make a mistake we get sued for racial or religious discrimination, its pathetic.
 Railwaymodeler

Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 153
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Posted: 1/4/2007 1:39:38 PM
OP: Sadly there are pigs out there that are so inwardly unhappy, and can't bring themselves up, that they have to lay blame on anyone and anything that is any different from them.

I myself firmly believe in equality and to love your fellow person. regardless of weather you believe in Adam and Eve, science, or whatever, we're all the same fundamental people. Period. The world would be so much better if everyone learned to respect each other, and to keep the golden rule of treating others as you would like to be treated.
 Tamalo

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 154
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Posted: 1/4/2007 1:46:49 PM
I get so tired of it.....to the point where I hate to watch TV. I never know when it's gonna rain anymore because of racism!

I'm joking, but not really. So many people in the world need to get an m-effen life!

Hey! I just noticed that I put "an" before "m"--grammatical no, no. But, alas! "M" actually begins with "E", thus "an" as opposed to "a"...........

Just trying to change the subject.

 knee_hacker

Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 155
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Posted: 1/4/2007 2:03:35 PM
tolerating what ? Why should I have to tolerate a bunch of border jumpers and ppl that we ALLOWED to immigrate into OUR country ? Why should I tolerate someone who comes into my country and can't even speak my language and then gets mad at me for not understanding him ? Why should I tolerate them coming and breaking OUR traditions and heritage because it conflicts with their beliefs ? It's our country and if you don't like it stay the hell out. How about you learn to tolerate our rules and regulations ? Any idea on how much money we waste on border jumpers and imprisioning people who have no right being in our country in the first place ?
 16sage7

Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 156
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Posted: 1/6/2007 2:06:51 AM
-designingwoman-

Thanx for the compliment. I just love being flattered by a girl

The fact is I like all people. I have always been this way. I don't mind even having a racist for a friend but I will admit it is a different story to date such a person. I have a very strong capacity to confront. I also understand how hard it is to change your indoctrination in to the world and yes racism is usually learned from your enviornment. You don't combat hate with hate is what I have come to unsterstand inimately. That is why I could be a friend to even a black racist. You would wonder how could that happen. You won't understand this until you meet me, only then it will become all so clear. As long as you will not move to doing bodily harm we will not have a problem.
 carlitosinbg

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 157
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Posted: 1/6/2007 4:03:16 AM
knee hacker forgets history. it's always the convience of europeans to forget history when it suits them. if he was to ask these same questions about the europeans who "invaded" this country, he'll find that the europeans did the same thing he's attacking the illegals for doing. if we remember that the western european did this to the native american and then to the mexican, maybe the tone and attack would be tempered a bit.
 onegreatm8

Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 158
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Posted: 1/6/2007 12:58:26 PM
16sage7, interesting rejoinder but I'm afraid I don't understand your last missive?
I don't mind even having a racist for a friend but I will admit it is a different story to date such a person. I have a very strong capacity to confront.
the aforementioned statement doesn't make sense? how can you tolerate a friend being a racist but not someone you could potentially date? I'm sorry that doesn't make any sense.

I have family who are racist, and I prefer not to associate with them, I for one won't, don't,shall not tolerate racism, I don't care if its my family, friends,associates, etc. For the people who I call friends , they are not racist, I'm lucky to have friends, colleagues,even some in laws who are from different ethnic backgrounds.

I couldn't care less what colour a person skin is, If there a racist, they dont hang with me or vice versa, for the record I believe Racism is wrong, NO MATTER WHAT ETHNICITY you are, for those who are not that bright and cannot understand what I just said, I basically said, I dont care what colour you are, Black, white, Yellow what ever, racism is wrong , and don't confuse having a preference for a certain ethnicity ( some call it race) for bigotry?

just my 3 cents.
 passioniteone

Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 159
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Posted: 1/6/2007 4:05:51 PM
I find though ...people scream racism wayyyyyyyy to loosley...I was on a bus recently and i ask a woman to reopen the window it was sooo hot in there and she had just shut it...she was not of my color.... what was her comeback ....which was not nessasary.. was I was a rasict....
And that i should respect her....I was shocked and I did end up saying stop talking crap to me and saying something because I had asked u to do something....I find its used tooo much and out of context...
I don't know what people teach others but "WOW"...If thats the best someone can say ..I find that pathetic...
Now this woman was @ 60 and..what crossed my mind is how well mannered are her grown up kids??????
It starts in the home.........
 carlitosinbg

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 160
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Posted: 1/7/2007 5:51:53 AM
passioniteone before you attack a woman as you did stop and think about how you would feel if you dealt with segregation the way the woman did since at her age she suffered fromthe jim crow laws. it's great to judge a person but do you ever get involved in ending racism. most whites don't bother to stop racism unless it's a personal circumstance whites need to realize that people of color deal w/ racism in one form or another everyday of their life.


one thing to remember people of color didn't invent the racism in our society, white europeans did and it will take a concerted effort on the part of whites to end racism
 passioniteone

Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 161
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Posted: 1/7/2007 11:13:26 AM
Sorry but i realize your from the south ...not all racism is about color......people use the word tooo loosely....If that woman woulda thought about it herself...my window question had nothing to do with racism....
thanks for your input though
 dawn1114

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 162
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Posted: 1/7/2007 4:38:07 PM

the aforementioned statement doesn't make sense? how can you tolerate a friend being a racist but not someone you could potentially date? I'm sorry that doesn't make any sense.


I think people are mixing up "racist" with "prejudiced." A true racist - someone who hates and is blatently convinced of their own supposed superiority based on race - is hopeless. Agreed. Get away from me.

Someone who has prejudices is different. That can happen to perfectly fine people because of their life experiences or upbringing. It can also change. I've seen this. People who honestly "thought" black people (or white people or gays or whatever) were this, that or whatever, but learned different. I can be friends with these people. So can my black friends/family and my gay friends. It's what will change the world, eventually.
 carlitosinbg

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 163
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Posted: 1/8/2007 5:28:10 AM
I think people are mixing up "racist" with "prejudiced." A true racist - someone who hates and is blatently convinced of their own supposed superiority based on race - is hopeless. Agreed. Get away from me.


racism is about the acquisition and maintanince of racial power, prejudice is about personal likes and dislikes. one more thing, we need to stop looking at racism from a slavery/jim crow 24/7 racism. racism evolves it's now about what is normal and something other than normal not so much superior. all the power once involved in being superior has transferred to what it is to be normal this is why most whites don't see themselves as a race but a nationality. racism is also contextual. one can go years w/o acting racist but a certain circumstance arises and the racist comes out. like micheal richards example
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 164
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:39:20 AM
with the exception of passonate and knee hacker I would say this is actually great responses...i love seeing people post educated and thought out responses.
Racism has evolved and just because you have black coworkers you dont lynch doesnt mean you arent a racist.
 tesh_88

Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 165
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Posted: 1/17/2007 10:42:49 AM

tolerating what ? Why should I have to tolerate a bunch of border jumpers and ppl that we ALLOWED to immigrate into OUR country ? Why should I tolerate someone who comes into my country and can't even speak my language and then gets mad at me for not understanding him ? Why should I tolerate them coming and breaking OUR traditions and heritage because it conflicts with their beliefs ? It's our country and if you don't like it stay the hell out. How about you learn to tolerate our rules and regulations ? Any idea on how much money we waste on border jumpers and imprisioning people who have no right being in our country in the first place ?


y should you tolerate?because my friend,once upon a time european people only lived in europe nowhere else,america was coloured,south america was coloured,asia was coloured, africa was also coloured,and lastly austrailia coloured.then along came europeans enslaving every coloured person they saw,killing people,destroying traditions by the rule of gun.After destroying whole civilizations they settled.And implemented their own rules and heritage.You don't see anything wrong with that?
Did i mention the death tolls involved?So next time you want to slate people trying to find a better life,think about where you came from?

Sorry for putting it in to a simplyfied form but if i included an indepth history,it would be worthy of a book.
 tesh_88

Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 166
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:11:35 PM


Maybe if black people would learn to speak proper english instead of perverting the language to the point where its almost barely understandable and learn some manners and how to dress like a normal human being instead of walking around with pants hanging off their ***holes things would be different.


oh dear,you mentioned 'normal human being',your ignorrance is quite astounding.Are you saying that people should dress in a way that you want them to?and speak how u want them to?

i'm speechless at your generalisations.Next time you get hot under the collar go up to these people and tell them that u don't think they are 'normal human beings',see what happens,instead of posting on forums from the safety of your own home and spouting nonsense.
 marcusishere

Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 167
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Posted: 1/17/2007 12:50:14 PM
being a racist or saying discrimatory things isnt very jesus-like.
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 168
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Posted: 1/18/2007 12:28:16 AM
markmsteel....I was trying to agree with you but you dont make it easy. I am not sure you can tell what "most blacks secretly approve of". I really wish you were open to having a discussion about this...and possibly learn...or teach if you have valid points...and not just stereotypes about "blacks" not speaking your version of proper english, not dressing like normal human beings etc.
Can you conceed that not all black people dress or speak the same? Maybe you can agree that some do try to fit in and get educated? It sounds like the ones you've focused on are the same few shown in movies. Not all are gangsters, here illegally, welfare recipients, or drains on society...just as not all whites are trailer trash, angry cops, cheating wives, promiscuous teens, or murders...obviously. Just maybe there is a lot your missing by focusing on the small percent of loosers in society that hollywood finds the most entertaining?
Just my opinion but what do i know...i read your profile and I found i dont count because i am a black and probably a fatty in your books.
 quadmom

Joined: 11/6/2006
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Posted: 1/18/2007 12:48:50 AM
Markm is the reason that there is racism in ALL ethnicities. When ANYone lumps an entire race of people into one category, there you have it. That last paragraph was so ridiculous that I couldn't even be offended. You are defining ME by the actions of a few. You are defining my mother, my father, all my sisters and brothers....Michael Jordan, Colin Powell and every other person of color you've never even met. Grow up. Shall I define YOU by your Jerry Springer counterparts? Lets try. Maybe if white people like you would stop marrying their cousins, sleeping around the trailer court and get some decent dental care......see? Oh ya, and you all smell like wet dog. Sounds just a little bit ridiculous, doesn't it? But thats basically the level of b.s. you just spouted off to every black person that read your post.

Tesh, you might have the most intelligent posts I've read here. All the people screaming "go back to Africa....Mexico." WHEREVER need to take a second and remember who was actually here first. Black folks were forceably BROUGHT here and white people stole the place. Shut up. Lets ALL go back to where we came from, shall we?

It would even be racist of me to quote evolutionary history. No matter how true it may be. Markm I would love to have a conversation about it with you though. Drop a line anytime.

And for the record Mark, a black woman probably wouldn't HAVE you with that backward's ass way of thinking. That little crack on your profile has probably made a lot of white women skip right past you.
 ddtits29

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 170
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Posted: 1/18/2007 1:18:31 AM
You go Onegreatm8!! Ya'll done made me laugh out loud! haha, Seriously though, thank you for pointing out the difference b/c us southern folks do get a bad rap sometimes. I don't like racism or any other kind of "ism" like generalizing a group of people just because of the geographical area they're from.

~dixie chick~
 pujakama

Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 171
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Posted: 1/18/2007 1:49:49 AM

Why is racism only a considered a disease of white people?


It is not, you have tried to make a straw man of this. No one in this thread said it was only a white mans disease.

Really, I havent ever heard of any black leaders saying such a thing. All I ever hear is white people claiming black people do this. I have the fact of this thread to back that up, a few white folks logged in to insist this... but none of the blacks here have taken this stance or said any such thing.


black rage and its acceptable and most blacks secretly approve of it.


If you can read people and know their secret thoughts, you are wasting your life by not abusing that for vast wealth.... or you are just talking out of your racist a$$. (my money is on the second one)



The White race was the first race of people on earth to abolish slavery and yet it still and always has existed in Africa . How come no blacks whine and **** about that?


My african history teacher (a black man) did, in fact, teach me this. Theres no way in hell id describe him as anything near whining or b*tchy. You are the one whining.



Maybe if black people would learn to speak proper english


Languages change and grow constantly, otherwise you would be speaking the same language that Shakespeare wrote with. While few bits of slang make it into the next generations conversations, some does... and EVERY generation has changed the language some. Until you are talking with all the "Thee" "Thou" and "Thine" you are just using the slang of the last 6 generations. Of corse if you did talk like that, you would look like a fool... but then you look like a fool anyway, for not grasping that languages are growing, changing, living things.

English is one of the most versatile languages ever, because we freely steal words and ideas from other languages as well as making up so many new words for new ideas. Our language lends itself so very well to poetry because we have many words for the same ideas... those variances came as much from slang as from other cultures.



and how to dress like a normal human being


You cant really be so stupid that you dont understand that fashion changes even more often than languages, can you? Human beings change and alter their clothing styles WITHIN the span of one generation, and this is an issue to you? I find this to be even more suprising than your bigotry.


J
 readyfor2012

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 172
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Posted: 1/18/2007 3:21:36 AM
Im not a racist...I hate everyone equally :)


Seems to me "a$$hole" knows no color same as "cool" dosn't know a color as well. As a Native American in this country ( America ) I think all these self proclaimed "races" here need to STFU and realize we are all mutts here like it or not. White people say how African Americans are to blame for crime and drugs while the rich white kids are the ones buying them and using them in thier big surburban parents homes. How Mexicans are taking all the jobs in this country while we as born americans know damn well they do jobs they think they are too good for.African Americans think all white people owe them somthing still for slavery forgetting more americans died for thier freedom then ALL other war casulties combined not realizing how many white people gave thier lives for them to be free.Everyone seems to think somone else is to blame and its always the other colors game piece like some sick never ending game of chess.Focus on yourself as a HUMAN and start there we all bleed red and have a brain...USE IT!

My ancestors in this country ( Apaches ) were almost made extinct by the US Army. The Army put out a standing order to kill Apache women and children with there boot heals to save money on bullets.By the time the hunt for my people was over there was less the 100 of us left on Earth. I'm 1/2 Apache and proud of it but I dont blame anyone for it nor do I go around hating people I see today in 2007 for it....forget the past you cant get it back...learn from it and teach your children to not make the same mistakes.

A world united without religion,color,or money is our ONLY chance at a brighter future for ALL mankind.

just my .02

peace to all of you :)

Joel aka Soaring Hawk (Kiowa Apache)

PS: I dont hate everyone equally that was a joke I say when somone says anything about racists lol :)
 Carnegie

Joined: 12/6/2006
Msg: 173
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Posted: 1/18/2007 6:51:34 AM
So my question is how come it's only us white guys who are accused of racism but anyone who's of a different color can be a$$es to us? Living in Vancouver, well, being white is a minority.
 sal36

Joined: 9/6/2006
Msg: 174
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Posted: 1/18/2007 7:21:39 AM
Thank you Nishama,Firstly, if the guys a jerk-off, so be it,what does being fat have to do with it? I know it make him more depressed by it,I know I am,especially when some one was never fat before. I gained mine from hitting major depression mode before i got divorced.I mean,I went from 280 lbs,and a body like Batista,( a wrestler for those of you who dont no him,lol), to 410 lbs,and body like big shows. Ive dropped some, now down to 380,hoping to reach 320,and ill be happy,.....am i a racist...no,do i blame others for my weight gain,no. But ill tell you what, I got a heart as big as texas,would do anything for anyone,no matter what color or race. Does it hurt to be called fat , hell yeah it does,. Some of the females on here need to be more open minded and see beyond the outside,because i tell you what, theres a good catch right here, not to sound pompous or anything,just a big hearted man,lookin for someone also
 ~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
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Posted: 1/18/2007 7:32:04 AM
carnegie...maybe he was an ***hole to you becuase he doesnt like you....not everything is about race....also the issue is seen as a use of power against another race....white people generally are seen as having power that minorities dont have...so they can be racist.....not just bigotted and prejudicial.
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