| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/1/2006 8:26:14 AM | Mike,
what you just said stands at the top of the list for me also...
Of course in my situation they were nurses.... what is up with that???
and you are correct, if it is what a woman would expect of a man, can we not expect it of a woman.
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/1/2006 9:55:47 AM | | thats good Leo I like that..very amusing..almost sounds true..lets see..think we could start our own secret group..just a thought..a mens group that debates the dating and relationship habits of women..what do women really want..there was a thread on this but I still have not a clue what they are looking for..maybe nothing..most relationships are found by chance anyway..I just think we all try way too hard..my advice...BE PATIENT..its gonna come I can promise you that.. | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/1/2006 10:08:22 AM | | Intresting Mike..I think of how I would have handled that..confronted her..just how did you do that..?? Its important to all of us when we see something that is of concern...Tact is the name of the game...who didnt talk to who..she never called you back or you never called her back...some people cant wear deoderant because it is very irritating...maybe if you would have bought her some perfume she would have worn it for you when you were together..think about it...its important to be able to talk to your mate with her self concept in mind...dont degrade her..you love her you like her..put her up there..make her feel good about herself she will make you feel good too promise you that..bring things to her with care not confrontation..you want girls to be girls. Be delicate with them..they have feelings too...they arent here for you to handle anyway you want/...thats what I talk about most of the time with you guys...Wake up men...treat these girls with some respct for a change..they are people too you want love you have to be able to love back..screw all this macho BS...and you dont have to love just one..love them all...I love all my girls and thats from my heart ladies..a lot of you dont have a clue but some of you do..I understand you arent ready and thats oK..takes work... | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/1/2006 4:03:54 PM | | Well, I find that when a woman is pushy when it comes to getting me into a relationship, it is a turn off. If I want a relationship, I will have one, but don't gently force me into one. I don't know about other guys, but I take a lot of time to get to know a woman before I get involved with her, only because of my learning from past relationships. Another thing that buggs the shit out of me is when a woman is non-stop complaining, describing, or just simply talking about her ex(s). I know men do it too, but it is annoying, for both parts. I have to catch myself when it comes to that. I will be honest, if I talk about my ex, I miss her, and am not ashamed to admit it, even though it has been 2 years since we were together in any way. But you have to admit, that no matter the circumstances, there is always something(s) that you will miss, being a guy or a woman, about your ex. | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/1/2006 4:08:57 PM | Career and goal oriented, educated, independant but yet vuneralble..the ability to be rational, conflict resoulution sillks and must love to be intimate..
gonna wish wish big..The last two are by far the most importnat to me, we can work on some of the others..maybe.. thats what Im attractted to
What Im not attractted to is unappreciative bitchs..golddiggers, arrogance, sloths, unclean habits, lack of direction, inability to communicate effectively, lack of career orientation, and must not be a dingbat, I think they are cute but very needy... | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/4/2006 4:46:00 AM | | After the get to know you stage...the stage where you are comfortable and spend lots of time at each others homes....I absolutely hate when a woman wants to stand at the bathroom door and carry on a conversation while I'm trying to do my business! Every woman I've ever known does that! Why? | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/6/2006 12:04:41 PM | To be fair we all have things that annoy us xxx if you dont like it then you dont have to stay around xx go find sumone perfect xx but what is perfect ??? xx ive not found a single one yet xxx  | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/6/2006 12:16:22 PM | What bugs me is False pride, where do you find a need for it but in another feeble mind not having the body for it and dressing like a whore so I question myself at times if she's got thge body is it okay?  | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/6/2006 1:23:49 PM | My #1 issue with women is shallowness, especially where it concerns money. OMG, there are sooo many women out there that that means so much to. Many tend to require the men to make a certain amount of income and at the same time they require "equal" gender roles? Hmmm.
How do you know if she ever likes you as a person? Also, better make SURE you get a prenup if it ever gets that far.
#2 would be, to paraphrase someone else, having opinions based solely on what her friends think. I've seen too much of this as well.
A BO issue is silly to me. I mean, I'd just bring it up eventually if it's that bad. It's immature of anyone to let the relationship crumble because you point this out, which actually helps them in probably every future relationship they have. | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:14:50 PM | | Z28, I have to agree with you. It is amazing how relationships work. The one thing that I find least attractive is not a physical thing, but can turn into a mental thing. I have had women ask me to tell them what I am feeling. When I finally do open up they then play the mind game and stop talking completely. They feel that ignoring me is going to make the problem go away, but we should be adult about this and talk our problems out. Women are not the only ones who have problems, but let a guy vent and watch out. It may hurt, but the wounds will hopefully heal. | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:58:43 PM | | Arrogance, rudeness, and taking good manners for granted simply because they're female and they think they deserve it. A guy opens a door for you, at least have the decency to say thanks and not act like it was expected. | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 9/7/2006 2:57:35 PM | I think I did treat it rather politely, I gave it a 3 dates to make sure it wasn't just an accident (people are human) and I brought it up and told her how bad I felt about mentioning it. I told her 'the last 3 times we've hung out you've kinda had an issue with body odor, I feel horrible to mention this to you, didn't know if you knew or not, but if it's something medically wrong (like that you can't wear it) then I can understand and deal with it', however, she said she did wear deodorant (sp) and didn't indicate that she had any sort of medical issue. I left it at that and didn't say anything else as to not say something that would further embarrass her. We spent the next 2 hours or so cuddling without issue and did similar the next day.
I don't think that what I said is what stopped her from talking to me I think she's got the 'online datingitis'. I've posted about that before which is they're too busy checking their personal inboxes to realize a good guy when they see one. I just wish I would been given a real reason and not been lead on. If you don't have time to date people you shouldn't lead them on and let them know in advance if you're too busy and are only looking for casual dates, although we didn't have sex the kind of conversations and time we spent together was much more than just casual (in my book at least). I'm always extremely up front and honest with people, if you're not feeling it, just tell em', don’t drag people on.
disclaimer: a lot of the stuff I'm ranting about, I'm know women have their own whole list of issues with men online, I'm just complaining about the issues I’ve found. So don't rip me ladies ;-) | |
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| what do men find the least attractive in a women?
Posted: 3/9/2008 1:03:39 PM | All great ideas. And remember, they go both ways! The "overplucked eyebrows" maybe not, but replace that with an "overshaven head". The nazi /cancer patient look is distasteful.
For example, it can bother both men and women when someone assumes they're ignorant of something when they really do know something about the subject. We all show it in different ways, but it is still true. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 2:10:03 PM | It sure does bassgirl747. It goes both ways. I guess I will start it again. It takes attitude. If a lady is really interested in a man, she should say so. If I'm interested, I say so. Both partys should tell each other what is really happen'n in their lives. If we don't, there could be friction on down the line. Sometimes it is hard to be honest,but it works , eventionally in the end. Happy fishing to every one. What a gas. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 3:52:35 PM |
replace that with an "overshaven head". The nazi /cancer patient look is distasteful.
OMG...are you frickin' kidding me????
Andre Agassi? Howie Mandel? Cal Ripken? Chris Judd? Vin Diesel? Bruce Willis? Sean Connery? Michael Chiklis? Charles Barkley? Ed Harris? Chris Daughtry?
*drool* *drool* *drool* *slobber* *slobber* *slobber* | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 9:28:11 AM |
OMG...are you frickin' kidding me????
Andre Agassi? Howie Mandel? Cal Ripken? Chris Judd? Vin Diesel? Bruce Willis? Sean Connery? Michael Chiklis? Charles Barkley? Ed Harris? Chris Daughtry?
*drool* *drool* *drool* *slobber* *slobber* *slobber*
Ah come on Sandee, be fair, those guys are sexy with hair, without hair, with clothes...umm
And Peter, looks like I should be in Austin making you cheesecake,who knew that was the thing to catch your imagination. | |
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