| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 9/28/2006 1:02:07 AM | | Most women will direct you and tell you what they want.. specially when they are getting excited. So dont worry about that. Besides who cares if u do finish in a few mins, most experience men do that anyway=p .. but u better be ready to go a few more rounds before u fall asleep! haha | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 9/28/2006 6:42:11 AM | I think it's commendable. Takes a lot to do that and I know I sure couldn't. And you will probably be glad that you did when you get married so who cares what any guy friend thinks...
I do know doing that would scare the crap out of me. It would suck to marry someone and not find out how much they suck in bed till its too late lol | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 9/28/2006 4:05:40 PM | You are a VIRGIN OMG
Ok seriously buddy be proud and don't do anything you don't want to. A lot of people would have loved to wait and a lot regret giving it away so early so why does it matter.
I have friends that are almost 30 and still virgins and they are not lacking at all, they have relationships and still lead full and fun loving lives. I waited until I was in my 20s and I am happy that I did and would not have done it any other way.
Just relax and when it happens it happens..... | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 9/28/2006 4:46:17 PM | | There's nothing wrong with it. I was a virgin till i was 24 or something like that. Other guys give you shyt because of some Macho BS attitude. And if a woman can't accept you for who you are, do you really want to be with them anyways? | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 9/28/2006 10:18:04 PM | | Dude, i know what ur going through and it aint easy. I was recently on a talk show speaking about virginity and actually alot of people respected what i had to say about it. Trust me it wont be right for you until u find the right person. I am a virgin in my late 30's and if i had a chance to do it all over again i would still want to remain a virgin till marriage.to What u need is a close group of friends u can confide in when the times get tough. Heck maybe even a wingman could do the trick:) | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 81 | |
| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/16/2006 8:33:54 PM | | my god backgammonn13 just go to an escort already | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/17/2006 9:32:49 AM | If a guy who is still virgin at the age of 21, thats no problem..but he needs some experience before having sex with a lady cause sometimes his first time having sex, it wont be good.
I suggest that he should have some experience but just be careful! | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/17/2006 9:55:14 AM | | My ex was a virgin when I met him and we started dating.. he was nearly 24. Don't give in to peer pressure. Stand up for what you believe and to heck with your friends. | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 84 | |
| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/17/2006 10:23:42 AM | | you got another 9 years before it becomes a real problem lol plenty of time | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/17/2006 4:06:57 PM | I'm still a virgin at 19 I think it's pathetic haha, but I'm so into oral sex I don't know do u think it would be a big disappointment? (penetration)? main reasons was I was afraid of getting a disease or someone pregnant, but I'm scared anymore anyways.
-peace out, Luke | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/23/2006 7:23:11 AM | | if thats the reson youre waiting then i think its cute. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2006 11:48:37 AM | lol I meant I'm NOT scared anymore haha. there we go. but I mean if it happens it happens I'm in no rush but if I meet someone who shares passion with me then it will happen.
thank you Tusha. haha I don't get it but thank you.
-peace out, Luke | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/30/2006 12:42:24 PM | Not a turn off, definitely.
As long as its gone by the time you hit 40. | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 11/30/2006 10:15:02 PM | | It maybe hard now, but think how special you will feel later. Think how many women can ay they were their husbands first and only. She will feel special knowing that you were waiting for her. you should not lose it just to lose it. once it gone its gone. | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 90 | |
| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 12/2/2006 6:35:54 PM | one thing that annoys me is how people make way too many assumptions about virgins
1. We're not all religous or waiting until marriage
2. We're not all "saving" ourselves for anyone
3. Yes WE DO like sex
Why is someone still a virgin? ask them, everyone's answer is different. for me it's a few things, lack of opportunity, shyness, and growing up in a strict household, (I believe you're a product of your environment) and lastly I'm not really interested in dating or having a relationship right now.
kudos to anyone waiting until marriage however I'm not interested in waiting until marriage first of all what guarantee is there that I'll even get married? and what guarantee is there I'll find a woman who is willing to wait. | |
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sexdog
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Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 91 | |
| Lost mine today
Posted: 12/2/2006 7:20:04 PM | | I'm 18 and I lost my virginity today! It was amazing! If your holding out, your making the wrong choice! I am disapointed I did not lose it sooner! | |
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Posted: 12/2/2006 7:35:23 PM | | To the above poster ^^^^ You're only 18. Wait until you gain more experience, and then come back here and tell us the same thing. Read some of the posts, not everyone is "holding back" as you say it. And not all of us posting here are "virgins". People enjoy posting in the forums and some of us find this topic to be rather interesting. | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 12/2/2006 7:44:38 PM | i'd say do what you FEEL is RIGHT - for YOU! but on the other hand i say to some people here.. sex is for pleasure and it's some pleasure guys.. for me the special one gets love - the greatest gift, isn't it? and meanwhile (i've had a few right ones already) i have sex with women i care for. You shouldn't regret anything so be cautious but having sex just makes you better and makes it better for the special lady you're all talking about!
And hey, SEX is NOT a BIG thing guys.. damn! You do whatever you want and THAT is courage my friends. Not avoiding pleasure.............
Thanks and keep it up.. | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 5/29/2007 9:06:52 AM |
God told us not to commit adultery for a reason. He is wise.
Adultery is very dishonorable.
Sodomites are much more trustworthy than adulterers.
I mean, for people to engage in adultery just to lose their virginity is like trading the speck in their eyes for a plank!
Michael | |
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PHK
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Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 95 | |
| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 5/29/2007 9:26:09 AM |
This is probably the hardest (and most potentally embarrising)question I have ever asked. What do you ladies think/feel about a guy still being a virgin at 21? and the main reason why is to save for that special someone or marriage Don't be embarrassed! I respect him | |
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Posted: 8/28/2008 6:51:59 PM | I was a virgin until I was 24 years old. I'm not religious, I'm picky. I lost my virginity to the first girl that met my standards who would have sex with me. It wasn't great the first two times. I think I was too nervous to keep it up. After the first couple times, we had great sex for over year and a half. I don't regret it at all, it was a great learning experience. It may be evil to say this, but I used her as a "practice girlfriend" and I made just about every mistake possible. Now I know what not to say to a girl.
After the break-up, I had a better understanding of women. (I still have a TON to learn!) I'm way more confident and better equiped to land women than I was before my first girlfriend. I don't get that nervous before asking a girl out or going on a date anymore. I'm much more chill.  | |
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Hewee
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Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 97 | |
| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 8/29/2008 2:09:05 PM | well seems like we are on the same bus... im 23 and me tooo...
if that is what you want then its ok because there nothing wrong with that...
but this is not what i want, so it sucks for me... i want to look for someone special but theres not much of them left in this world... and i cant even lose mine when im tempted to... you'll find her someday.. good luck to you and to me as well.. :D | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 8/29/2008 4:44:24 PM | | Hey man more power to you. Nothing wrong with being a virgin at all in my book. I personally wished i waited but that day has long come and gone. It will allow you to meet a girl thats actually worth something if she has the same morals and values as someone that has waited so long. You can have a relationship with someone without the bull**** that sex brings into the mix and find out what the person is really like. Just hang in their bro! You'll find your misses right one day. | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 8/29/2008 7:16:14 PM | | Shop at www.shop.collegelearner.com for the latest hot new mens clothes! "Women Friendly if you know what I mean" | |
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| Still a virgin!?
Posted: 8/31/2008 7:05:55 AM | Very good to see so many nice, encouraging messages about this subject on here.
I most certainly don't mind admitting to anyone who asks that I haven't lost mine at 25 yet either...I just think, so what? Like many people it just unfortunately happens that the only offers I've had up to now have been from women who were quite obviously not right for me, and to me it definitely feels a lot better for not having jumped into bed with the wrong girls simply for the sake of getting some sex. Not in any way religious but it still means a lot to me for the first experience to be with a special and suitable lady after so long, and personally I don't care how long it takes.
So to me it's not a bad thing at all -- thanks to all you lovely people on here expressing so many similar sentiments. Cheers everyone!
Best wishes Stu | |
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