| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 5/31/2007 7:02:19 AM | Im new in these parts of town, and found this thread really interesting actually.
I have to be openly honest and say i've done both, waited past the first date and on the first date.
When things have happened on the first date, i have on occassions been left feeling a little emotionally unfullfilled, but i have waited longer and felt the same on occassions aswell.
I think as anything in life individuals are made up of different things and its either in your make up or its not, personally i dont hold out because of the perception of others, I dont think "I wont sleep with this guy on the first date, cause he might think im a slut" I just generally tend to gauge it on how i feel.
Sometimes it's hard to resist and other times not so hard.
Im going to slip off in to the corner somewhere now before all the women throw abuse and all the guys msg me cause they think i'm an easy lay! | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 5/31/2007 7:02:59 AM | Do women find it weird??????
We spend ages finding out about each other on line, inside leg measurements, family etc etc.....
but good sex is sooooooooooo important too.....
why not find out about each other on that front!!!
and anyway, am I the only one who doesnt feel like its a 'first date' when we have spent ages communicating already.... it always feels like we have known each other a while..
sooooooooooo.....  | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 5/31/2007 8:36:49 AM | | ya they say wait until the third date... its all in there head so they dont think there bein a whore but in reality theyve already made up there mind that there gonna **** you but they need 3 dates or however many.. the fact is on the first date they make up there mind whether there gonna sleep with you so who cant float through 3 dates to get some ass.... well thats my take and ive seen and done it alot even said that to them to get it on the first date.. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 5/31/2007 10:28:48 AM | Ya know this baffled me too for a bit, of course guys want to have sex on the first date, although not intentionally at the beginning... OK lets see, we girls like this guy and we are goin out on our first date.....
Clothing choices.....
Old ragedy sweats, or the little black dress?
the scent of after tibo in summer, or a light mist in strategic areas?
Granny panties? or something you and i both know arnt worn for comfort?????
hair in tossled bun with pencil holding in place, or new color, cut and even rollers.....
ladies the saying I SHAVED 4 this, had to come from somewhere????
HMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmm
ladies.. we go to that much trouble because we want our date to be dreaming of us naked, and that confidence makes us feel sexy then we too get horny and before you know it BOTH parties are willingly engulfed in hot sticky passion.
Ladies if you are gonna pre planned "not give it up" dont make yourselves so sexy, it doesnt seem fair...... if you want to prolonge the anticipation factor, which i think is sexier than sex then dont shave your legs............... this keeps most women from dropin their gear.......
In answere to your question, i think that women say they dont like a guy who "just wants sex"? because they have bin subjected "we had sex, and he hasnt called........"syndrome, so they btry a different approach, act how we (women) perceive a lady should actlike and , say it has to be meaning ful, so that we dont get f*ck*d n chucked.
in all reality women want it just as bad as guys do, and if you arnt the least bit horny on the first date, then honey he just aint doin it for ya....... stop with the "im not that kinda girl"persona.......... men are men instinctually driven to reproduce, not mate for life, so "it has to mean something" is a bit heavy at first......... and unlikely in all cases..... | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 5/31/2007 3:01:20 PM | I wouldn't say that the women hold the sex over the guys head. There have been many good examples on here why not to. The STD one is a real GOOD point . You don't know where thats been. And also if you get the sex out of the way on the first date what else is there? It seems hard to enough to have great passionante sex with someone the first time cause its akward the first time anyway. Afterwards trying to get to know one another isn't going to be that easy cause you will probably be thinking of them in your bed. You won't care what they have to say. That is if you ever did. There is not harm in waiting. If you wait...just think the urges for both of you will be stronger. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 5/31/2007 4:09:28 PM | Hey BC Dream
Plain and simple women want the respect that comes with not being easy
No respectable woman wants a guy that brags he sh....d her on the first date, its equivalent to a girl laughing at the size of a guys manhood in public
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/1/2007 7:43:22 AM | | its better on the mans side to wait to have sex especially if he wants to stay with her tut then again she might want it right away and finds someone else because he waited of course that only shows me the women likes sex with different partners | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/2/2007 3:48:32 PM | | Because weman can have sex with ALLMOST any man they want on the first date and do so but it gets old after a while when they find that what it is hard to get from a man is a commited relationship.... by the way !!! weman never give up on sex on the first date but it depends on how hot the man is ... even if the woman know the man dosent want a commited relationship... if he gets her wet... the likellyhood is that she will F??k him if he trays .... well depending on how the woman has being hurt in the past.....understand!!!!... | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/3/2007 7:01:05 PM | i agree that some guys if and when you have sex on the frist date your going to sit there all day and think to yourself if he is going to call again or if he just wanted sex and that's it you would be going    | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/8/2007 12:40:46 AM |
I'm not here for someone to play with my girl parts! I'm not "dating" to get screwed anymore! I mean I could get laid right now if I wanted to, but there's more to life AND love then a "bang fest"! Although, that does sound fun lol!
I agree with you 100%. It is fun to date and meet people without that kind of pressure at first. If things happen, then great, but it's not cool to just expect it. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/8/2007 5:07:30 AM | ****Once you've experienced that terror-inspiring scenario, you'll find yourself re-evaluating a *lot* of your previous assumptions about how safe "safe" sex really is.***
You do realize that there is more variety to sex than actual intercourse, right? | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/8/2007 5:18:00 AM | ***sex on a first date is weird for some women because some of us need to feel something for a guy B4 dropping our kecks.***
You've never felt anything for a man after a first date? You've never experienced that magical first date that starts off casual in the afternoon but then goes all night because you're enjoying each other's company? You've never had that experience and then thought to yourself, "I really want to be close to this guy!"
If not, then you and all of the other women that have never felt anything for a man after a first date have my pity.
I can tell you that I have felt plenty of strong feelings after a first date. I suppose men are just more passionate than women, eh. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/8/2007 12:10:04 PM | | ever thought that maybe sme women actually respect themselves and would rather wait ...............or the anticipation makes it better..............................or they dont want to be seen as a slut as so many men in so many threads have said they wont seriously date a woman who opens her legs on the first date................or has had many sexual partners????????????? just food for thought. i have had sex on a first date and i have waited sometimes first date sex has been better than sex i have waited for sometimes its been the other way about. personally i respect myself and my body and am not looking for meaningless sex i can get that anywhere. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/18/2007 11:13:55 AM | | I used to be one of those women who thought it was wrong to have sex on the first date. I've gotten older and times have changed and now find that I don't want to deny the fact that I get horny sometimes too and why put off the inevitable. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/18/2007 2:02:43 PM | | Sex on the first date? Well, if it feels right why not and who knows, maybe it's a start for something real special. It doesn't matter if you wait all the time in your life and then get to it just to find out that there isn't any passion involved and that there is no physical connection. So there, I agree with you! | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/18/2007 3:30:07 PM | | It's not weird it's just not the thing that decent women do. If you wanted anything more than just sex you wouldn't need to ask this question. Any woman who would answer your ad would have to be desperate. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/18/2007 3:51:41 PM | because women are cheap and they feel like there getting ripped off.
i give them 3 and if they dont at leased suck something im out.
you have to understand, after 3 dates ive spent at least $200 and that's worse than a professional whore. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/18/2007 3:53:46 PM | | Irish I think you are being judgmental- If there is a connection and 2 people want to have sex on the first date it does not mean that someone is immoral. Sex is a basic human need and there is no right nor wrong. To women that prefer to wait that is cool . I say lets just be ourselves. | |
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| Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 6/18/2007 8:37:55 PM | i have had sex on a first date, and i'll never do it again, well at least not try to!!! i felt like a slut. but at the same time i hate waiting to figure out a guy just to be dissapointed in the bedroom... i don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as its good, long, hot and consented | |
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