| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 2:57:01 PM | | look. i havent even talked to anyone on here in months...i just havent changed it, but now i will because no one will give me advice because of my profile - i have never found a decent guy on here, so i gave up a long time ago... | |
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*KD*
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Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 27 | |
| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:03:11 PM | Busted Miss Jenna, a post in June. We know what you did this summer,LOL.
Involving a mysterious missing cell phone, a shaky alibi and a pool boy named Guedo | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:03:17 PM | well not knowing all the facts its very diffucult to say what is going on here, but it seems to me that here lies the problem. if you had been going out with him for about 3 months then why are you still on here advertising yourself? are you hoping something better will come along? if you are then thats being shallow. what you should of done is mentioned the fact that you met someone and you are not looking anymore.
secondly he was obviously upset over something, alot of people dont like their jobs but that doesnt necessarily mean he will be in a bad mood everytime he goes to work! so something has rattled him, perhaps he found out you were still active on here? also you knew he was upset over something, so to just leave your phone somewhere else has made things worse. he probably felt that you just dont give a damn and whatever the reason he got upset in the first place is justified.
you may of brought this on yourself. others take note if you meet someone by online means make sure you mention it in your profile it could save alot of trouble. | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:04:19 PM | maybe that's just the thing. maybe his buddies or whatever is on here, and they saw your profile and told him about it. whatchu think? iunno...endless possibility.
or, if he just snapped like that out of nowhere, either someone told him that you are cheating [may it be a lie or not], OR he's just trying to find a way to break up with you. | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:04:19 PM | I do believe that he is a sad individual who did not know how to end a relationship.
He just wanted to leave in a ball of fireworks and leave you confused.
His loss hun, hope you had a good swim, forget him, loooooooooser
 Loz | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:08:27 PM | Wait
I thought yousaid he hasn't returned your calls, and so you are out of contact with him. If thats so, why would you change your profile? you must still be looking? Is there an update that you havent said? Are you two talking again? | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:12:59 PM | | This guy's issues aside...in this case he is absolutely right although he may have no PROOF. She is on a dating site advertising her AVAILABLITY. Sweetheart you might want to take up some other "sport" because you are definitely not an accomplished "player." And to top it off you front yourself out in a public forum where the not so stupid see straight through your B.S. As someone else told you already...let this guy go find someone who is real and trustworthy. He has obviously lived through encounters with women like you before and still suffers the damage. | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:18:34 PM | Thank the Goddess for your good luck in finding out this about him so quick. Now, run.........................
squeak | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 3:59:02 PM | | I would tell him not to contact you until he can learn to control his moods...he sounds like a spoiled moody little brat.. | |
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*KD*
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Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 35 | |
| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 6:33:37 PM |
to squeak and arealangel - before you and others bash her BF, consider the fact that we don't know HIS side of the story - or why he's accusing her of cheating. I suspect there's wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more to this story than the OP is telling.
After close examination, we have substantial evidence that the accused just may be guilty.
Exhibit one: A profile with no mention of her present relationship status.
Exhibit two:June 14 2006, OP made a post at POF which contradicts earlier evidence that she was not on POF and couldnt change her profile during her 2 month relationship. (June 14 to July 30 does not constitute a 2 month relationship)
Exhibit 3: a seemingly vague alibi involving a misplaced cell phone and a pool outing with her mom. We believe she was in fact with Guedo her pool boy who is mysteriously unavailable for comment.
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 7:21:37 PM | | Well, I checked out your profile and you still state that you are seeking ...dating.... you have not changed it.. how serious are you??.......You need to get your act together.... grow up!!! | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 8:02:31 PM | Well, your profile pretty much sums it up, if you are seriously involved with this man then you should have hidden your profile right away. I can assume he used this site to meet you, or you both had profiles up and met somehow else.
I recently began seeing an ex lady friend of mine who insists that she wanted to try to rebuild our relationship again, at a slower pace. We did agree that we would be monogamous, and that neither of us would be dating others while we dated, in respect for the feelings for the other. I took my profile off the site to do just that, rebuild our relationship. however, her profile appears on this site to this day as single and dating, hence mine's back up, and I've given up trusting her word at all, it's not worth the aggravation.
That in itself can blossom into all kinds of wild accusations like the ones he is saying to you. I am assuming that mine is just jerking my chain again to keep me around to campare me to the next few men she meets, either that or she really doesnt want to commit to one man. That sounds pretty much like what you're doing to this fellow, innocently or otherwise.
You are still pretty young, and you have to realize that, wether men want to admit it or not, they CAN BE very territorial when it comes to their woman, at least to a woman they seriously want to commit to. You are not showing signs of the same committment, as per your profile, which should not be here in the first place, if you weren't serious about this guy. | |
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Posted: 7/30/2006 8:10:17 PM | This is really off topic, but coca2... you have awsome beautiful eyes. I would have messaged you but I'm too young :~(
Um.. you may now return to your regularly scheduled ridiculous topic. | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 8:23:58 PM | | All I know is GOOD LORD WAKE UP GIRL! Hey if he is acting like that now just think how he will be later on. I would not put up with it and say hey I can't handle your insecurities. Have a nice life. Bye. | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 8:29:15 PM | MissJenna ... I have figured out your boyfriend's/your problem!!!
I was just going through other threads and found one in which YOU had started a different thread (the bad teeth thread) ... in which you ask:
"Would you go out with a guy who seemed nice, but then when he smiled you saw that the whole top of his teeth were black and yellow and rotting? would that be a deal breaker for you, even if looks didn't matter?"
Da*n, no wonder your face is white as a sheet. I'd be frightened to! What concerns me is why given that we now know he has bad teeth and is a control freak, why you are still dating him? (But you really cant blame him for being in such a bad mood all of the time with such rotted teeth.)
P.S. Does he play a banjo by any chance? | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/30/2006 10:08:12 PM | This guy is a control freak as previously stated, and if you don't get out now he will get worse. These types of people have some real issues within themselves to deal with. Next he'll stop you from seeing your friends, then your family, then question you if you stop and speak to anyone you know, they are paranoid people. I use to get timed going to the shops (store) and asked if i 'ran' into anyone i knew, if so who was it, how do i know them, did i ever sleep with them, it just goes on and on. In my case however he was actually cheating on me!  | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/31/2006 4:02:38 PM | Kick his ass to the curb....He is like that now...will never change.....called control....
Get out before its to late.... | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/31/2006 4:41:15 PM |
look. i havent even talked to anyone on here in months...i just havent changed it, but now i will because no one will give me advice because of my profile - i have never found a decent guy on here, so i gave up a long time ago...
24 hours later, you still haven't changed it.
lol @ you.
Colin | |
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*KD*
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Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 47 | |
| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/31/2006 4:49:56 PM | ^^^^ I had to check and no updates. There was also a 3 hour span between her last post and her logging off. Little Miss Jenna aint foolin no one. I think she needs to fess up about Guedo and the pool party.
Like I said Miss Jenna, there might be an OP at POF but that dont mean your in Mayberry anymore | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/31/2006 5:21:58 PM | well with all my infinate wisdom and my black 8 ball, I still come up with..cheaterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...profile still the same!!!still looking...well now you have a reason to look cause you cheateddddddd...my 8 ball says,suck it up chicky u blew it...and perhaps maybe she really did(guido)the pool boy!!!!
P.S...check out all the treads she has...most of them are about the ex-bf...makes me wonder if he is not the real pool boy??? | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/31/2006 7:13:17 PM | | why would i change my profile to dating now, when he wont even talk to me?? c this is the kinda shit im talkin about --he just dropped me completely - so am i just supposed to wait till he decides "he" wants to talk again?? always gotta have a backup plan | |
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| Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating
Posted: 7/31/2006 7:33:29 PM | | this guy has diagnosed depression and bi-polar disorder...sometimes, you never know what to expect...i dont know if he accused me of cheating because he wanted to have a reason to totally control and punish me, or if he was looking for a pathetic scapegoat out - in which case, thats not a man anyways...look guys, i stayed on this site because i know hes not the one and i dont feel any real feelings from him - hes been hurt and cheated on ALOT by ex's, and ive gotten screwed over and hurt as well - i guess i jumped too fast with him, but I HAVE NOT CHEATED on this man - even tho hes not the one, i still care for him, i just dont want to end up with nothing, like in the past | |
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