| Hating Kids?
Posted: 7/31/2006 12:47:10 PM | | That's funny, I thought it meant that I don't want to have more children with anyone. Maybe they should add a category that says "other's children acceptable" or something. Just a thought. | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:02:09 PM | | One guy specifically mentioned in his message to me, that, he did not want kids, because he didnt like them. No explaination why he thought that way. I can understand the dirty diapers, the screaming for no apparent reason, the tantrums, then puberty...well eventually. But why dislike kids, or not want them cuz there too much trouble? What fun is that? | |
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Posted: 7/31/2006 6:31:21 PM | Freakycoole, spoken like a true (and loving) mother. Sallyo, I agree their should be a "catagory" for people like myself, who would welcome children in their lives. I found out later in my life that I not only enjoy children, but I'm actually a better "parental figure" or whatever it's called now, than I thought I would be.
Anyone, male or female, who cannot be bothered to read ( and sometimes re-read) your profile, isn't worth the effort, IMHO. Peace to all | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 7/31/2006 9:12:37 PM | I had a mAn contact me and after chatting and getting to know each other he became super mad when I mentioned my boys. Dumb a$$!!
I have always been super protective of my boys when dating. Its a scary seat to be in..that of a single mom. | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 7/31/2006 9:18:05 PM | You do get some that figure they will try out the "Single Mom" model, take you for a couple test drives, let you think all is good, then tell you "you know this kid thing just isn't what I want" ya ya should have known better then to get involved in the first place. Meanwhile some time has been invested and few dings have been made......stay away from the men that say they don't want kids no matter what they say to you, because it will come back and bite you in the a$$. | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 8/1/2006 6:14:59 AM | Medic I feel the same way when it comes to my 2 girls...not just myself involved also them and I don't want them meeting anyone until I know they will be a positive part of my life and will accept my kids as much as they accept me.
Yep biteme that is soooo true....not easy being a single mom and dating!! | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 7:22:42 AM | Sally^^^ That is exactly what I think it means. No more babies "PLEASE".
I love kids......as long as someone else is raising them. I will spoil the crap out of them..Ha..Ha | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 8:17:11 AM | I met a guy once (not online) who knew I had kids but still pursued me...then one day he made a comment about boarding school...(he had never met the kids) and I thought...WHAT THE HE!! AM I DOING WITH HIM??? 
Needless to say I realized we were not compatible...and said NEXT!!!  | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 8:58:02 AM | I don't hate kids, if I did I'd have to get into another profession... elementary school teacher just wouldn't work!  I personally don't want any of my own, I figure being a somewhat surrogate for 30 kids a year is enough for me... but if a guy has a kid or two, I can't write him out based on that. If he's a great guy, and I care a lot for him, the kids are just part of a great package. I guess I'm odd. I want to experience pregnancy and then go right into being a grandma, then I can hand the kid back to their parents when it cries or needs changing... and then I'm not AS responsible for another human life. Too bad it can't happen that way! | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 11:38:59 AM | Bang on Winnipeggal74..........Indeed. I am of the opinion that ones choises to
include kids would be forthright for most......but there are some who prefur to not
choose to be a part of the parent role. That's fine and they are certainly entitled
to that choise....it isn't mine however but I respect the choise.
It isn't selfish.........
it's a life choise. I think people that have kids and are always whinning about the responsibility are more selfish frankly. Was a choise to have kids and no it isn't easy but
constant complaining about responsibility is also a choise.
With reguard to not reading profiles.......well I find that no pic helps that issue.
Personally I prefur to be noticed for my opinions not my look.....is a choise too. | |
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Posted: 8/1/2006 9:17:51 PM | Issues with single parents is somethng i know all about..he!!... i am one of them..your sure right about introducing one to your siblings too soon..
but hey??? if i can't get a date or find someone to share my life with.. because of my kids..well so be it..
always can join the priest hood.... | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 8:34:24 AM | Hey freakycoole:
A few things came to my mine, limited choices on catagories, not reading profile, blah blah, blah. However, everyone mentioned that.
I guess the only answer you really can get, is to get into a direct in-depth talk with the other person.
Of course that's not 100% .
That's because a thought crossed I didn't noticed posted. People are such fakes. I notice that here more then the real world.. I.E. Why would you put in profile only here for chatt/email and fourms, then put restrictions to age,gender and same country????? 
I wouldn't rush to judge, I'd seek the answer ifI was interested.
Winnipegprincess: You enjoy children (especially the newborns),and you not in a globetrotter lifestye, don't sell yourself short. Children are a blessing that far outweights the responsibility. Child/ren with a Good Father can give you a lifetime of happiness. Of course I can truly appreciate your acknowledgement of the responsibility it is. Just a thought.
OT for a monent.
Shoot i got kids and some days i dont even want them
Seriously ...Write-guy it's nice that most ALL you post in the threads are put downs, belittlement, of OP's and gender, and quite a bit off topic, BUT dude you say some stupid Shtye!!
They do have threads here for HUMOR if you think you are funny, or you could even try change your SN ,i.e. writeOFFmyRocker or something . Notice you pull thread qutoes from put-down, and one-line joke sites (ain't google nice  )
You might want to get write,or get write along, Just a thought! I'm sure you'll repost here with some write off the wall comment, or writeoff the net. | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 8/2/2006 8:44:46 AM | I like kids. I remember being on the Sky Train in BC and this whole group of kids came on with only one poor lady trying to keep them all calm. Being the huge KISS fan that I am, I had them all doing Gene's  symbol and sticking out their tongues. I kept them busy for around forty five minutes until I had to leave and the woman looked at me like she found a million dollars.
I don't date women with kids for one reason and one reason only:
I dated a girl with a little boy. I made it clear that I was not going to devote my entire life to this child as he was not my flesh and blood. When I say my entire life, I simply mean that I have a life outside the relationship and the child really wasn't my responsibility outside of visiting her home.
Naturally, I immediately bonded with this child. He was great. I took him to my cabin and we had fires and went fishing and I let him run around with my old BB gun and plink beer cans and chipmunks. I took him to the fair in Selkirk and shared Christmas and Easter with him. The hardest thing was that when the relationship was over, so was my relationship with the child. It was just as hard on me as it was on him because I felt as though I lost my own son.
Never again can I put myself through that. | |
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Posted: 8/2/2006 9:08:39 AM | I had the same experience when I was 23 GHOst^^^.
It wasn't that hard on me, but the 2yr old couldn't understand why I wasn't around anymore. It was very sad. I will never forget how happy he was to play with me and how sad he was when I went home. | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 8/2/2006 7:06:52 PM | I don't think its about baggage. what I do think is that getting babysitters and away for a weekend is a bit of a chore.
I don't have children by choice and I am sure that if where to date a man with children i would often be taking the back seat.
I have been single long enouph and I don't want to take the back seat. I want to be the one they spend the weekend with. It's not going to happen if thats when they get the kids.
(i don't want to be a step mommy either)
so yes, I prefer a man with out chidren but I don't see them as baggage just a time commitment. does the other person really hate children? or do they hate being #2? | |
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Posted: 8/4/2006 7:06:10 PM | | lo of course treeman is chasing me around forums trying to goad me into another battle of wits,, one time i used a math senerio and he thinks he has it all figured out,, now tell us all what a great dad you are and show us how many stupid stats you can post, dont forget to mention that you let your little girl surf the profiles on this site and that you see nothing wrong with that, give it up loser try posting without mentioning me,, you fag stalker, enough already | |
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| Hating Kids?
Posted: 8/4/2006 7:28:08 PM | weird that post # 37 by some treeblower didnt meantion the topic at all?
yet there were so many words ...so many words
I dont get it - why post to contra"dick" every other post here
Maybe if it were funny or tongue in cheek but sounds like the tree cant think beyond the sap!
OT...
I for one don't want to date or sleep with your kids ! but I will accept them.
and now I have decided to change my name to something that screams out "I Love that guy"
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Posted: 8/5/2006 10:43:21 AM | oh no
you used the "c" word right beside your daughters picture
that is discusting !
talk about hating kids....to post your childs pic and say "c" at the same time
someone just lost the respect
he may have had from a few single moms on here!
OT
I think that get reel is a "big kid" herself and quite humorous
Its nice to see the lighter side of things posted!
I dont hate kids & I dont hate humour!
kids are like cartoons and so is get reel!
both are fun!
those that do hate kids are missing out on a great cartoon!
bbut we all dont like cartoons or laughing so to each his own! | |
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Posted: 8/5/2006 11:04:58 AM | ^^^^Dustine^^^^^
You yourself humor me and keep me ribs hurting at times.
Troll away, there are people on this thread I speak on the phone. Funny how the "D" word was okay though....Here's another "D" word Discusting...I beleieve that means idleness misery....lol
Ironicly enough the first time I saw my daughter's eyes she was still wrapped in a "C" ( read your latest unabridged dictionary) neck deep.
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Posted: 8/5/2006 3:41:41 PM | OMG,, stumpy the forest killer shows his true colors, this dude will stop at nothing to embarrass himself , the "c" word is a filthy way to describe seeing your daughter for the first time,, surely someone as long winded and ignorant as sawdust the gay lumberjack,, or bdj could come up with a better image of his daughters birth,, just shows what kind of insensitive jerk-off he is,, i dont think treeman will hate kids until his daughter becomes a woman,, cause he sure seems to hate women, especially a humorous little darling like get reel,, who posts to try and bring a little humour to these sometimes drab forums,,
shame on you,, even you have to admit that post has no class at all,,I beleieve that means idleness misery....lol
Seriously ...Write-guy it's nice that most ALL you post in the threads are put downs, belittlement, of OP's and gender, and quite a bit off topic, BUT dude you say some stupid Shtye!!
er yeah ok dude
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Posted: 8/5/2006 3:48:49 PM | | if a tree in the forest fell on a treeman and everyone saw it,, would anyone care? | |
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Posted: 8/5/2006 5:08:20 PM | thinking.......
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hoping someone else who doesnt hate kids will come along
I'm not verbally strong enough to answer or help
maybe I could google how to care about single dads with potty mouths...
nope!
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Posted: 8/5/2006 5:42:21 PM | TreemanBDJ
Ironicly enough the first time I saw my daughter's eyes she was still wrapped in a "C" ( read your latest unabridged dictionary) neck deep.
THAT IS, QUITE POSSIBLY, THE MOST VILE AND DISGUSTING THING I HAVE EVER READ ON POF. YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF.
How about before you go throwing around slang terms and cussin' out other posters by your comments, you master the english language first, big guy?
It's IRONICALLY, not "Ironicly".
IRONICALLY, you have a spelling error and the mention of a dictionary in the same sentence.
DUH!
Being a custodial father does not give you some kind of consent to be completely misogynistic. You have a daughter, maybe you should re-think your attitude about women, as only a true woman hater would characterize the experience of birth that way.
OT:
I think men who have or don't have kids have a number of reasons for not dating a woman with kids. Although, if a man is sure he doesn't want to date a woman with kids, or doesn't want any of his own, I have no clue why he would contact a woman with kids...but I have an idea...
As a mom of four kids aged 6 to 16, I feel that my kids are my first priority, and any man who doesn't want to date me because I have kids is not someone worth my time. I have never lost a moment's sleep over a guy who "disqualified" me because I had a child.
Good topic though!
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Posted: 8/5/2006 5:52:55 PM | and with a thundering velvet hand the treeman gets biitch slapped,,,lol
great response velvet i knew some woman out there would take offense to the use of that word,,but still having daughters makes it offensive to me also,
watching my children come into this world was the most wonderful experience in my life, to see the creation, to witness birth is something everyone should do whether they want kids or not, its awesome
i am the write guy,,, coo coo ca chew
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