| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/5/2006 6:35:41 PM | Ironicly enough the first time I saw my daughter's eyes she was still wrapped in a "C" ( read your latest unabridged dictionary) neck deep.
That has to be THE most disgusting thing I have ever heard on these forums. Especially by someone referring to their own daughter. Is that how you're going to describe her birth to her when she's older?
****ing sick.
Oh and on topic..the men who email you even tho they don't want kids and know you have them are only looking for a piece of ass. These are the men who have the 'oh, she's got kids at least I know she puts out' mentality. | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/5/2006 7:48:26 PM | dont forget the ironic part that velvet brought up, now that is soooooo funny,,
IRONICALLY, you have a spelling error and the mention of a dictionary in the same sentence.
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/5/2006 10:22:24 PM | just to correct a little something here,
Funny how the "D" word was okay though.... not my word or post, and the "D" word as you called it, is not offensive to me, as my fathers name is D1ck (short for RIchard) so to me it only means that. It was his name way before it was used as a slang word. | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 7:11:21 AM | You might want to get write,or get write along, Just a thought! I'm sure you'll repost here with some write off the wall comment, or writeoff the net.
funny how you can sometimes mirror your own posts that are directed at me, instead of running and hiding why don't you just admit you got carried away with your post,( that would require you to act like a man) surely you don't expect anyone to believe that I am the one flaming these forums when you make stupid comments like the one regarding the "C" word, really treeman that was just so uncalled for, to bring your daughter into your stupidity is not how a great parent would speak of there child's birth, you have only proven my point about you over and over again, | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 7:45:47 AM | | Time to get back on topic and keep your comments in line guys. It's getting old. | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 8:34:24 AM | exactly - too much trash talk goin around - seems like it is spreadin to other ppl too... mail each other back and forth if you want to trade insults
As I said before, I won't limit myself to date someont that doesn't have kids - mainly b/c I want kids and work with kids and love them - they are percosious little devils with angel wings lol
I would just be careful about when I was introduced to said kids so that attachment issues do not arise b/c that's not a cool thing at all -- and a few ppl have commented on that - having their (and the child's) heart ripped out and stompped on b/c of a r/p ending - b/c of not being able to see said child/ren anymore.... | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 1:04:59 PM | | I am sorry, but I just have to comment on post #47...................not likely | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 1:52:08 PM | lol sweetgin ^^^^^^^^
ok let me explain my post on not liking my kids some days, every parent in the world has those days with your children,, you know the days when shoes wont go on curled feet,, a well prepared meal sits untouched, right up to when you come home and find your teenager and his friends have found your stash,,
any parent who says they like there kids every day is living in a dream world,, the love may unconditional but liking them well that's another topic, maybe for another thread,, maybe another website
staying on topic now,, i would most definitely date a woman with kids, or one who wants mine would be even better, even if she didnt want to date me | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 2:24:33 PM | Hey Dad don't feel you need to defend your feelings, parenting can be an overwelming thing....especially if your doin it alone......I think every single parent can identify with those feelings. By the fact that you openly say it shows you have humor and I will bet dollars to donut's if the crunch came down.....you'd fight like hell for them. The entire point of this place is so you can indead come and share and not be cornered. My fishy friend you keep that little group of happy campers smiling with that humor..... every mom understands you where simply trying to make op feel like she wasn't alone. I raised my kid alone.....mostly and I remember how isolated I felt....I had no POF. Please do not feel like people don't understand that there are days when you just wana not be in those shoes cuz it's human to feel overwelmed and I am also damn sure you save those moments for us adults and not those little ones of yours. Good luck to every little fishy who are doing there best to give there kids what they require. Hats off to all the parents doing that and you can do it......you can.
Your day to shine in the sun will come again you just remember that many prey to have your privilige but you....are lucky enough to have it.
Some day I promise you will look back and say, "I don't know how the hell I did it, but I did" and you can and will. Good luck to all mom's and dads in this hard but very rewarding position....and big hugs to all of ya. | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 6:47:55 PM | little kitty, thanks for the post, i am sure most single parents out there can identify with my posts and your right humour is my only defense when it comes to the obstacles parents face daily, however it was intended for the forest monkey's out there who seem to dwell on my every post and think they can just bash me for my honesty,, i wont even get into the private emails i got regarding that post,
anyway i gotta get the ghouls ready for camp,, yeah baby one week of being me,, yay | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/6/2006 8:42:47 PM | Well don't let someone try to push your buttons little fishy. Sometimes other fishy's can be mean but that is cuz they are sad fishy's. Only sad fishy's have a need to be mean like that... it's ok kitty has had people chew her tail too. If you wana push back the tip of the day........ignore .......that will make him move to the next target. goodluck.
Now staying on topic.........be happy if people tell you they don't want kids....they are being honest about how they feel and they are entitled to have there view free and clear and I respect that choise. With reguard to people being offended by that.....sorry you get to pick what you want but not what others want.... and instead of feeling angry perhaps you could realize we all get to choose what we individually want and that is one fishy you simply mark off the list for sure. But remember little fishy when you challenge anothers choises you are well over your boundry into there's.
Good luck to every single fishy lookin for there match. | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/7/2006 7:21:54 PM | | I can't stand other people's kids and don't want any of my own. Hey if a woman can say, "You aren't tall enough" or "You don't make enough money" well then a guy can have his rules too. So too bad. Thats life | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/7/2006 7:53:39 PM | Hey Quirky, you might want to change your profile to reflect that, instead of having "Undecided/Open" under Do you want children? Doesn't sound to me like you are either! | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/7/2006 8:07:34 PM | Quirky...
Ever messaged a woman with children?
That's how the thread started...guys that have same mindSET as yours, who messaged the original poster.
so if you are so concrete in your opinion, which you obviously are, find the MUST NOT HAVE CHILDREN option in addition to the things you can put at the end of your profile...
Also i read your profile...Why not let the good women in Florida that they must have a job, a well paying one, and they must be totally independant. That's what I got from reading between the lines...
Maybe women are different, but I personally have yet to come across someone who won't date a guy because he "doesn't make enough money." Around here, we call those sweeties, "Golddiggers..." | |
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| Hating Kids? Posted: 8/9/2006 8:16:25 AM | Could you guys, please stick to the Topic? Nothing worse then reading numerous posts, with your quarrels....BORING ! | |
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