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 angelab
Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 101
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It's very admirable for someone to wait til later if that's their choice. I was a virgin until I was in my 20s too. I personally would not want to be with a virgin because I'm fairly inexperienced for someone my age and I wouldn't want the added pressure of having to be the teacher. I'm still at that phase where I know what I'm doing, but I still have things to learn. Some women would love the opportunity though, so don't worry about it too much. Your time will come.
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 102
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:16:45 AM
Frank your right, she has a right to her opinion. I also have a right to mine. When i stated my opinion of her she flipped. looooooooooooooooooool, but when i said i would be too much for her i definately meant and its an inside thing that only my close friends would understand. From now on im sure shewill voice her opinion in a much better fashion cause she realizes that there are some guys that are mezmorized by the *ussy like most men are. She actually met one that could answer back. I have no problem with a woman voicing her opinion because like men, they are also human beings but if anyone voices their opinion without careful consideration and empathy towards others im going to answer back. Very simple. Frank i agree work does get in way at times but there are places to meet nice women like maybe active social groups where u can pick the time that u participate. Its a shame that kids in highschool act this way , but like i said, its the me generation. Its unfortunate but 99% of the time its true. I dont like it myself, but ive learned to live with it and still hold on to the values that i truely believe in.

AngelLAB, now that was a classy , truthful response written with at least an effort of empathy:)
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 103
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:20:38 AM
Blondein tokyo, if only i didnt have these morals i would make u walk funny for a week lol
 Onlylovematters
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 104
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:27:34 AM
I find it interesting that some women put lower in their priorities a good man, to an experienced lover.

Then they end up asking "where have the good men gone???"

An experienced man, may be a good lover, but obviously if he is single by now, it means that being a good lover didn't help him in his past relationships.
 26yearoldguy
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 105
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:47:17 AM
It would be funny if Confucious made a proverb about that.


BackGammon, yeah I agree. Some men have spoiled some women by doing anything so that they could get some of the lovepie. Ive run into spoiled women like this because of my job.

Their usually the ones that think im a geek and that just because im hurting ill give into them and then they get brought down a foot when they see that isn't the case.

Im a very nice man. When I was young I always was aware of how women were treated in society and I don't beleive women should be abused or not be allowed the same oppourtunitys as men.

As an adult though ive seen the other side. Ive seen how some women have low regard for guys because most men are so desperate for sex that they will jump on a woman.

Ive seen it happen when im at work and I start to think that these men are actually spoiling women rotten and not forcing them to learn to have any empathy or respect for guys. Ive seen a prevalent boytoy mentality in young women and Ive also have seen why it happens.

Ive caught girls trying to do nasty things at work.

I was cleaning a Subway station and three young women who were drunk were going to try to pee on the floor.

I caught them before they could. They denied it even though I heard them talking before I went up to them. I knew security couldn't get them in time so I showed I was unflipping in my stance and pretended I was calling security anyways. In that time a guy on the other other track asked them what was going on. They said that I was accusing them of trying to piss on the floor and if he came to be their alibi they would be his freind. Needless to say the guy ran up the stairs and joined them. He should be looked at with shame in the eyes of all men. It's no wonder were in low regard by some women. I couldn't help but think what a chump. I would never give in to those little dirty things just so that I could have a chance. They probably had little to none respect for him and won't give him anything anyways. I doubt they would have much respect for a guy that would run to them like that.

I even had one time im closing a subway and one woman and her freind start demanding I let them stay in the station. First of all it's illegal for people to be in there during closing hours, I could lose my job, they were two people not one. If it was one woman and she kindly said to me if she could stay in the station untill the bus came I would have gladly obliged.

In this case it was two people, secondly while they were asking me if they could stay one girl was also making fun of me and telling me I was stupid after every word she said. She thought that I would do whatever she said just because she was a girl. Anyways, I told them flatly they can't stay and that they have to leave. Her mouth dropped like a concrete brick.

In highschool I had two girls ask me for change. I gave it to them not because they were cute or hot but because I thought it was the right thing to do. Right after that they laughed and said I can't beleive it worked because they thought their sexual powers were what made me give them change and not my considerate generosity. Anyways it was when I first realized how corrupted their mentality can get because of guys. Also I guess they were young and wanted to test out their power over guys. It's not all bad I guess they were kids. Still I was kind of shocked a little mad even. I wouldve gave them the money if they were two gay men in tutus or if they were old hags. I didn't really care and im still weirded out by that one.

Anyways thats why guys gotta be less weak in the knees. I won't compromise my personal integrity for a woman. It's lame and it's weak and it just makes them lose respect for us in the long run. It just makes young girls learn how to abuse their power over guys and that isn't a good thing.

Oh and I agree Angelab is excellant. Im glad that theres people like her out there.

Unfourtunately theres also some really immature people with poorly conceived notions. Im not talking about the not choosing to sleep with a virgin but the attitude that a virgin can't handle seeing a woman naked. Sorry but I don't think theres a woman out there thats all that. :D Not saying there isn't a rush, im only human but geez.

To be honest I could probably make some of the non virgin women look like prudes but I won't elaborate on that. Ive just have never had relations that dosen't say anything as to whether im uptight sexually or can't handle seeing a woman naked.

I mean I have my personal kinks and fantasys and all that but thats all guys pretty much. I won't say more than that though.
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 106
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:18:25 AM
Frank Kudos on always trying to do the right thing. Its funny how when u respond back to a woman that was " Just being honest" with a" just being honest" responce of your own. Suddenly they gto crazy, get offended to the point that they dont want to discuss it in a forum and start emailing you, but you know what? I bet those 3 ladies at the subway learned something that day. Maybe, just maybe in the back of their minds they are thinking" maybe not all men want a woman just for her body.:)

Oh yea, onlylovematters, unfortunately most women these days think of sex as a training tool instead of focusing on the most important aspects of love( the intimacy, warmth, passion) I truely believe that everytime a human being trivializes sex as a function like breathing the more they devalue themselves and women at the same time.
 26yearoldguy
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 107
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 9:39:50 AM
I think the enjoyment is important so I can respect a woman not feeling satisfied with a guy thats inexperienced.

It does cheapen the love aspect though. It's kind of disapointing that relationships have only become about sex.

I guess it's a little harder for women because orgasming is not as easy for them. Though naturally women aren't really always supposed to orgasm anyways. It's just how it is. It's just that today they make everyone think that everything is like this and that. Most of the times it's a big misconception on guys part to think that their inept just because they can't get a girl to orgasm. In a lot of cases it's pretty natural for it to happen that way.

Still, I could see myself happy with a woman who is attractive but comes off as a better person than maybe a woman whos far more attractive and a bit better in bed. So what, your going to get an orgasm either way. A good woman is much harder to come by and matters a lot more in my opinion.

Attraction and pleasure are important but their not the top priority in a relationship. Too many of us are going after only the physical aspects these days I guess.

I guess im guilty too but if a woman shows interest in me, likes talking to me and enjoys doing things with me, I think I like that more than just how good her performance in bed is.

It would be a very empty relationship in my opinion.

I could very well just pay for a woman then if all I cared about was what was going on in the bed. It would actually be less stressful to just pay an escort for a night of fun then to try to find someone to date seriously. Yet im here looking for serious dating instead.
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 108
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 10:25:24 AM
True frank because one day the sec will end. For me its all about communication. Cause if a girl can communicate on a deeper level it means she is a sweet person on the inside and probably has the potential to be a very erotic lover cause sex starts with the imagination.
 --Nicki--
Joined: 6/13/2006
Msg: 109
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 12:57:05 PM
I think that anyone, being male or female being a virgin isn't a bad thing. Some girls may think that virgin males are unexperienced, but as I see it... as a girl... if you have waited that long and you find a girl who is worth sleeping with, as a female its kind of an honour that you would pick one certain girl after all that time to be the one. Its special no matter what anyone says. And I think the longer you save it, the more important it becomes. It's part of who you are and that is nothing to be ashamed of!!!
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 110
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 1:33:24 PM
2 normal women on pof???????????????????????????? maybe there is intelligent female life on this forum after all
 26yearoldguy
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 111
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 6:40:23 PM
"Frank Kudos on always trying to do the right thing. Its funny how when u respond back to a woman that was " Just being honest" with a" just being honest" responce of your own. Suddenly they gto crazy, get offended to the point that they dont want to discuss it in a forum and start emailing you, but you know what? I bet those 3 ladies at the subway learned something that day. Maybe, just maybe in the back of their minds they are thinking" maybe not all men want a woman just for her body.:)"

I hope they did... Though any lesson they could have learned was probably ruined by that fool that ran to them like a impulsive puppy.

On top of that they were sort of drunk. Still I think they wouldve almost been the same.
 BlueRaja
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 112
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Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/5/2006 11:52:37 PM
I see nothing wrong with it. I'm waiting till I meet the one.
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 113
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/6/2006 12:04:50 AM
Good man Raj, nice to see people still have morals left these days. Kudos to my fellow virgins
 SimpsonFan
Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 114
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:06:08 PM
I hate the way people assume that "virgin" means completely ignorant of all things sex-related.

I knew of a lot of girls in their mid-20s that were virgins, and it wasn't that weird for us, but finding guys the same way were few and far between.

I kind of feel sorry for guys over 25 that are virgins because I'm sure they get a lot of flack for it, especially if their reasoning isn't deeply religious.
 Huggablehottie
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 115
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:16:47 PM
It all depends on the guy, I would say.
If I like him, then why should this even be a big deal?
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 116
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/7/2006 9:13:01 AM
I know why should virginity be a big deal. Heck it shouldnt even mean a thing these days. Saving yourself for the right person in this 65% divorce rate me me me me me society?????????????????????? Who in their right mind would want to have morals? Disgusting isnt it loooooooooooooooool
 MsSynne
Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 117
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/7/2006 3:05:41 PM
cute... but wonder if i got the time to teach one up.. hmm nah
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 118
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/7/2006 11:10:02 PM
Cute Mssynne i wonder if a virgin has time to wonder where u have been and with how many men at a time hmmmm NAHHHHHH lol. We like our women clean anyways. Does 65% mean anything to u? I see some wise women on POF then im reminded of the other 99%. Makes me wonder if they are getting their weekly std checkup or not. Like i said there is a difference between little girls and grownup women. Little girls think of sex first, grown up women are able to give much more and understand what truely is more important in life. this gal needs a larege size pacifier for hmm maybe about 20 more years
 ForgivenFaith114
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 119
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/8/2006 8:07:00 AM
If I have really strong feelings for a guy, it doesn't matter if he is a virgin or not.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21.

But, do realize, you will not know what sex is really like until you have it. No matter how many books you read or movies you watch. Nothing else can account for the real thing.
 RIM20
Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 120
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/9/2006 12:03:24 PM
is it clingy or want of the sex ?
 Onlylovematters
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 121
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/9/2006 2:37:08 PM
cute... but wonder if i got the time to teach one up.. hmm nah


If he's the right one,you probably have a lifetime together to teach and learn all kinds of stuff.

Your argument just doesn't make any sense to me at all.

There are things that are hard to teach a guy if he doesn't already know them. Its hard to teach him not to be an a**hole, a jerk, an abuser, a spoiled brat, a womaniser, or a disrespectful guy. You get the idea.
 backgammonnn123
Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 122
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/9/2006 4:06:38 PM
Dude, i dont think that GIRL will understand what you just said because i feel she will need another 20 years and then she will be mature enough to comprehend this. She is just another example of a girl inside a womans body lol
 halbailman
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 123
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/16/2006 5:20:49 PM
I am a 22 year old Dateless Single Virgin who has had oppertunities a couple of times to loose it to someone who was totally drunk and totally wanted it from me but I never gave in to such a dishonerable act and i was thanked by the women for it. I don't mind. i just wish I could tell the person I think I am developing an intrerest for that i may have one. I saw her today and needless to say we chatted a minute or two and she smiled and then i walked away GRINNING LIKE A CHESHIRE CAT with no way to remove the smile from my face!!!
 markr1001
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 124
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/16/2006 7:14:38 PM
ok so im 23 and still a virgin, so ya it kinda sucks, and most of my freinds give me a hard time at some time or another. i just havent done it cause i havent met the right person. i havent dated much so that makes it hard. i hope when i do meet someone they dont find it a turnoff and move on. its not that big of a deal to me im just kinda used to it. it will hapen when the timing is right. so ya that my opinion.
 arasalah
Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 125
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 10/16/2006 7:57:26 PM
here I am 33 years old, and I am virgin man.
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