| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 7:26:43 AM | Yes, I wonder. Time after time after friggin time, I am approached by men that just wanna get it on. I don't WANT that. I want a partner for LIFE, not AIDS for life for god's sakes. And, I'm a lady as well.
And congrats to you for leaving the cheating bast&rd! Thats why I am here again. Life is way too short to spend it on ANYONE who treats you less than a REAL angel. | |
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opgirl
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Joined: 3/6/2007
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| Re: Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 7:46:34 AM | | I do believe true love exists. But the only problem with that is that I've truely loved men who never loved me. So yes it exists. Will you find happiness with it? That's anyones guess. | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:02:56 AM | True love?? In what sense? In that whole Valentines and roses, fairy-tale, happily ever after sense? If that's the case, then I'd have to say no. I believe in REAL love---the kind that grows with time, but also requires work and effort. Most people nowadays just aren't willing to make the effort to make love last.
Personally, I feel completely cheated by the idea of "true love" because of growing up and watching "The Princess Bride." I'm still waiting for the guy who says "As You Wish."
(Although personally, I always loved the other guy more--"Hello, My name is Inigo Montoya...")
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 1:53:40 PM | Love, true Love does exist! The only problem with true love is that it is a very rare commodity and doesn't just happen to every one just because they want it to happen.
true love survives all the horrible nightmares that reality can provide,but more importantly, true love can survive the good times, the easy times and the endless boring times.
If at the end of your life you and your partner can truely look at each other and still love each other,then you have my admiration for you are one of the favoured few who have found true love.
Love happens in spite of, not because of.!!! | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 1:55:36 PM | | id like to think real true love does exist, if nobody thought it did, it would be a very sad and lonely world. | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 2:02:55 PM | | What is true love? I dont think most people know.. its co conditonal... i think they have an idea in their head... but lord knows nothing can compare to it. The fantasy and reality are 2 different things. | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 2:10:40 PM | | yes those qualities do exist...they are just rare and really hard to find. | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 2:21:04 PM | Love will always exist as long as we have the ability to be loving. To many people in this modern day think that love is like instant credit and they expect it to come soon, but it takes time to meet the right one and the right one is worth waiting for.
Dont, let hurt and disappointement put you off and don,t have great expectations, cos you wont be disappointed then, just be friends and and let it happen naturally, and you will bump into the right one at the right time. It will happen when least expected so just enjoy your life. | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 2:41:01 PM | | decieved - remember - i before e except after c - tsk tsk | |
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| Re: Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 2:56:34 PM | | It was so nice to hear a man say they would rather have one woman everyday. It makes a change cos most men are only after sex and then you never see them again especially if you said no. | |
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| Re: Does True love Exist?
Posted: 3/14/2007 9:41:47 PM | love comes in all forms
if the shoe fits
wear it
if it hurts
find another
so I went to the shoe wharehouse
to get sandals
they were discounted
in the end
my son also received a pair of really neat runners
one simple strap of velco
in the end it is not what you give it is
what you receive
neither of us now has to deal
with laces
chao
the renovator | |
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| Re: Does True love Exist?
Posted: 4/15/2007 10:30:20 PM | | True love does exist, honestly I think it's harder in this era simply because everyone is always so busy, rushing from A to B to C...True love in my opinion can only (or close to only)be shared by true friends that are opened and honest from day 1 with each other and grow together. I have seen this with my own 2 eyes, this couple had been married for 30+ years they were as much in love after that many years as they were when they first met. I was really in awe to see them interact together, the husband became ill shortly after I met them and still each day you could still see the twinkle in their eyes. He would sing to her for no reason (and they were love songs to boot!), they would hold hands when ever possible, I've heard more "I Love You's" coming from both of them than anywhere else. One day after knowing them for a while I asked them about it, their answer was to always keep love fresh, always treat the day as if it was your last and no matter what never ever go to bed angry at each other. With his very last breath ( I was there) he said Lois I love you,,then faded. If that wasn't true love then I don't know what is! | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 4/15/2007 10:34:39 PM | You know what you want, with that, you'll find someone.
But what is true love really anymore? It'll be interesting to find out once we transcend our emotional-chemical addictions ^^ | |
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| Re: Does True love Exist?
Posted: 4/16/2007 2:06:38 AM | The only important question is whether your true love exists. Everyone is different but i do believe that we can find someone of like mind and heart to resonate with. If you would of asked me 8 months ago i'd of said no way to be honest.
I think the major hurdles to finding that special someone is our own expectations and psychological disturbances (of varying degrees). It was only when i had completely given up on the idea of ever finding anyone that i did find someone. This of course could be a complete coincidence but some how i think there was some importance in the act of letting go of what i wanted. I can tell you when i did i became open to just relating to people without wanting anything other then just the relating in the moment. It was quite freeing for me in so many ways.
The most important ingredient, the other person... My special someone and myself were talking about this last night. And how so many are caught up on the idea of "the secret", laws of attraction, and manifestation techniques etc... The universe seems more chaotic then not at the best of times, and when we look at our so far short history together and the probabilities of us meeting at all, it becomes clear that luck, chance or radical particles have played a role.
If we truly knew the answers it would take away from what is of most importance to us. To Love and have that Love returned just the way we need to express it and receive it is one of the most amazing gifts this life has to offer. Finding that special someone that you resonate with? I'd wait a life time if it meant being with her only a short time. The mystery is still a mystery and for good reason.
Live Life, Love deeply and as wholly as you can. Make supportive choices as they come up, and never put anything above the people you are relating with, they are the most important thing in the world,
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bboop
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Joined: 4/21/2007
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 6/17/2007 9:04:56 PM |
True love?? In what sense? In that whole Valentines and roses, fairy-tale, happily ever after sense? If that's the case, then I'd have to say no. I believe in REAL love---the kind that grows with time, but also requires work and effort. Most people nowadays just aren't willing to make the effort to make love last.
Well said^^^^^^^^
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 6/18/2007 7:28:11 PM | | Yes, it does. Why would anyone even condsider otherwise? | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 6/18/2007 7:35:06 PM | yes true love exists
sometimes it takes a while to find the right one
but after two marriages and one commonlaw one for me
thats 22 yrs of my life....i found the right one | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 6/19/2007 3:25:23 PM | Most people don't know what true love is and therefore will never experience it!
They think if they're not madly in love it's not worth the effort. Madly in love lasts what about 2 weeks! LOL
But it's not laughing matter that we as a society put me first and have forgetten how to love! | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 6/20/2007 9:40:28 PM | well if u find true love tell me how to find it lol i have been tring for 2 years now allmost 3  | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 6/24/2007 11:49:45 AM |
All I want is someone who is loving, compassionate, and caring. And most of all honest. does these qualities exist anymore? I wonder, do you?
i was married 16 years.... ive been single 4...
sometimes i wonder if i will find true love in this life time.... but i have realized the more people i meet and the more i date, it seems i run into a better guy than the last one....
so i do have some faith left.... i think we need to meet as many people as we can, learn lessons, use those lessons to weed out the ones who don't want the same things, learn the games, (it's bs right?...i hate games!) we have to put ourselves out there, try and be positive and confident, and always do things for ourselves to make us feel good!
and have you noticed when you shine on the inside, people really do notice, you become more attractive!!
it's not easy out there.... men (more than women) of all ages only want sex... i dont get it... it's so much better when you feel something in the heart and mind!
i always say... dont give up or hide away from the world because of a few dumb guys! =) | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 7/23/2007 6:29:05 PM | | I think true love does exist, just fading fast with the new generation. | |
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| Does True love Exist?
Posted: 7/23/2007 8:52:01 PM | True Love is real. I have experienced It once, I was young,and had no Idea I was in True love at the time.
With age comes experience and it is a catch 22 experience. As you get older,True love means more than pure feelings. It is a complete package, stability, connection, looks and education are just as important as pure feelings. | |
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