TWO DANCE FLOORS/KARAOKE ROOM/GAME ROOM Meet n Music n Dance FRIDAY Aug 25 Columbus Free Dating, Singles and Personals

really great time Posted: 8/26/2006 3:35:35 PM
Casie and any others who were disappointed: I am sorry you did not have a good time at Sundance! Casie, I think you must of left before we closed down the sign-in table outside because I did not see you once I came inside. I would of definitely talked to you! Lilac Rose - you were a very nice and sweet person and I enjoyed meeting you! I remember the drunk outside at the table and that was the only "bad" thing I experienced all night. Maybe I didn't handle him in a way you felt was appropriate, but you know anywhere alcohol is served you are going to run into intoxicated people now and then. He was the only intoxicated person I ran into all night and I was there until 2am. He was not a pofer and I felt it was just best to let him sign the book and say whatever he was babbling. He left right after that and I didn't see him again. I guess he thought he should sign out! LOL Anyway, life has taught me not to argue with people who are intoxicated......it's never helpful to any situation I've ever seen. I talked to all the POFers I came in contact with and all of them assured me they were having a good time! I didn't hear one negative comment. I was impressed at how nice Pofer people are! All the fellows I checked in at the door were either very friendly and nice or even flirty which always makes a woman feel good! Casie. please know I am not trying to judge you or not let you have your opinion. I'm just trying to share with you my experience because if I am reading between the lines correctly I see alot of myself in you. I'm trying to give you a little friendly - sisterly - woman to woman advice - that you may not appreciate, but I really am trying to help in a loving way, at least that is my intention - hope you will take it that way!!!! I had a great time myself! Not bad for a 47 year old fat woman in a wheelchair! I got kissed 5 times! Once by my new pofer friend before he headed home, once on the forehead by a young good looking kid who was not a pofer but out looking to find beautiful young girls ( I know you all remember those days - when we were young)! And once by pofer DJ Amish on the cheek - thanks sweetie- I thought you were having a good time?.....that girl you came with sure looked pretty! By the way the badges were so you could get in free and so other Pofers would recognize you as one of them and hopefully help people break the ice! I did personally see Ronnie and Barb talking to people and dancing with them. Barb talked a lot with one nice pofer gentleman who did not dance all night so I'm assuming he is not a dancer. He thanked us in here for us helping him have a great time. From my table outside I saw Ronnie on the patio several times talking to pofers and I saw groups of 2 to 4 people on the patio that came in alone who were sitting and talking together! That was kind of the pofer meet and greet area - maybe you didn't make it there! I'm not quite sure how we can encourage that more......but maybe it's something we can work on!!!!!! You know I used to be backward and shy in a setting like that and I always waited for strangers to approach me....I expected to be rejected because of my weight, but the older I get I've realized that life is what you make it and as I'm going through this healing process and this fat is finally melting off my body-thank the Lord-I've begun to be bolder and stick my neck out and talk to people and I am getting really positive results!!!! I really miss being able to dance, but instead of feeling sorry for myself I went over by the dance floor and watched the country line dancers where Barb was dancing and I talked to people! Barb(Lancaster Lady) and I don't know each other very well yet, but she is the sweetest lady and I have a feeling I may of just made myself a new best friend!!!!!! Then I went over where Ronnie (Charles43130) was and watched some pofers dancing!They seemed to be having a good time! Later in the evening some of the young people came into the club and they were doing Hip Hop dancing on that other dance floor and I wheeled up to the edge of the dance floor to watch them. Several of these young men came over and danced with me! I can't stand long enough on my feet to dance normally yet so I danced in my chair from the waist up and I had a great time. Two of those young men kissed me on the hand after they dance with me. That's where I got my last two kisses! Haven't had that kind of attention from men in a long time! Definitely made my night! I guess what I'm trying to say is I've been sticking my neck out and taking chances and because of that I've been having F-U-N! The more positive I become and the more I show love and friendliness the more it's coming back toward me! And people that reject our friendliness and loving ways aren't people we really want to spend time with anyway! Right! Gee, I didn't mean to go all "Dr. Phil" on you and I definitely am not a person with all the answers - I'm just as human and fallible as everybody else......ask my friends......I often get my foot stuck in my mouth because I like people and I'm always trying to help them......this may be a carry over from being a first grade teacher all those years!!!!!! LOL Ladies, that parking lot is so safe I would not be afraid to go to my car by myself even at 2am and I'm a safety freak! To ALL MY FELLOW POFERS, Look the biggest majority of the people I am coming into contact with here on line and at the club last night are wonderful, loving, sweet people. But like that drunk last night there are always going to be a few people that are not nice for whatever reason. I think those of us who are trying to be positive should just keep doing our thing and have fun. Let's just let the negative people be negative if they choose to be.........at least until we can win them over to being positive - !!!!!LOL God Bless to all, Lynn110 (Karen)