Dru
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| Friend going for your ex Posted: 8/11/2006 7:00:41 AM | I think as long as you talk to your friend and your ex, it could be fine. Just ask them to be respectful of your feelings. Even though you are not together still, it usually hurts when you see an ex with someone else, it hurts even more when you see an ex with a friend.
I would simply ask that they try to keep things friendly but not affectionate around me until I've had time to get used to them being together. Becuase like someone already said, I want my friends, and even my ex's to be happy. | |
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| Friend going for your ex Posted: 8/11/2006 1:56:03 PM | | you know you're supposed to remove all ownership tags and obliterate your brands once you cut them loose, don't you? and if your friends feel you've dropped something valuable, why should it bother you if one of them decides to pick it up? ya gotta learn to let go, my dear... | |
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| Friend going for your ex Posted: 8/11/2006 3:58:41 PM | | you havent met my ex hee hee ,,,,,i dont know i dont think its right but who am i to stop something if its ment to be ...Personaly i wouldnt ,but if a friend of mine did i wouldnt lose a friendship over it ,,it would feel weird im sure but ,,after all its your ex unless you still have strong feelings ...why would it matter ,, | |
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| Friend going for your ex Posted: 8/11/2006 9:25:12 PM | | i think this is a big no no . i would never date a friends ex . and i would expect the same . if it was serious no matter what i would still have feelings good or bad towards this person . and u could check with the friend but people dont always know they still have feelings till they see there friend dating there ex . | |
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| Friend going for your ex Posted: 8/11/2006 10:45:07 PM | If he is your EX than obviously there is nothing but the past between the two of you. Wouldnt you want your friend to possibly find happiness?
I dont think you have the right to own anyone, just because of things that happen in the past. It just sounds very high school to me thats all. | |
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