Lonie
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Joined: 7/4/2006
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Posted: 8/7/2006 3:51:15 PM | | yes i have and she was my wife number 2 i know that sounds bad ..........ok it is i know but i still feel she was the love of my life the first time i kissed her SHE heard my heart pounding in my chest and its somthing that im looking for again when i find that thats how ill know if found my match | |
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Posted: 8/7/2006 9:10:12 PM | Yea I sure have about 3 - 4 times. Funny thing is I remember most everything about those ladies, what they wore that first meet, what we chatted about, her fragrance, etc...
With the exception of one, they all broke my heart! | |
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Posted: 8/7/2006 9:17:18 PM | | I met him on a bus on my way upnorth... we talked on the phone ever since. He was going back home to B.C. then he moved to Ontario and we talk every now and then. He calls me when he's down sometimes too lol. But we also decided not to date each other, because we don't want to ruin what we already have if we break up. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2006 9:30:39 PM | Never had instant chemistry. I don't believe in it.
When I see friends meet people and believe it's instant chemistry...they end up later getting hurt when they truly get to know this person's real personality.
I can't judge someone as significant other-worthy based on an initial meet and conversation...others seem to think it's the right way to do things...but I tend to notice those others constantly getting burned. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2006 9:25:10 PM | ^^^^ better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!
Getting burned is really not that bad.... at least we had some great times before the burning! And we view life from the positive side and go for it whole heartedly! | |
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Posted: 8/8/2006 10:19:51 PM | Yes. About 15 years ago I was working in this very long office (the building itself housed about 1000 people all on one floor). You could see from one end to the other - it must have been about 100 feet at least when I looked down towards the other end and this man looked back at me. It was as though we both knew to look up at the same time and it was like a thunderbolt hit us. BOOM! Instant attraction - our eyes met and locked for an instant but it seemed like forever. It was actually something beyond sexual and in some ways inexplicable. We never spoke that day but we did eventually meet and speak and there was no question about the intense attraction that was not only physical but mental as well. He told me he was married. He had never cheated on his wife but he wanted to go out with me. We went for lunch a few times but I could not move past a friendship because he was married. Although he tried to convince me otherwise, I told him that at night, he'd go home to his wife and I'd be in my own empty bed and I deserved more than that and I would never expect him to leave his wife anyway. We remained friends for several years - we never even exchanged a kiss. Somewhere along the line we lost touch. It was indeed a special friendship and a special connection.
That's my story for today.
Tango57
Over and Out. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2006 8:48:33 PM | it happened to me in a flash.... My engagement was going down the tubes.... so i spend most of my time out of my apartment have been hanging out with my friend who use to live in the same apartment building as I . She then introduced me to her friend who works with her husband. We had an instant connection when we first met. Conversation wise, movies, age, music, and the attraction was unbearable......
So we did date and things went well.... but as soon as we did the physical intimacy with each other.... he panic after it happen & havent talked to him since because he is afraid to commit to me bec he thinks i would change him.... | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 8:52:46 AM | | I was stuck in traffic in Denver and see this cowboy with a black hat in white truck which I have always thought sexy. I pull up next to him and we start communicating back and forth through the cars/Traffic. We agree to pull over and meet, unfortunately, I got stuck in a lane and he didn't and I lost him. I called the local radio station and told them this story and they put the story on the radio and though he never called back, they did get a lot of calls. He might have been the one that slipped away | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 10:01:17 AM | | Yeah, that has happened to me! What an awesome feeling! I was leaving downtown and walking down an alley between bars when we passed it was like lightning struck. The connection was so unmistakable and undenible for both of us. We stopped dead in our tracks, turned around and started talking--it started with a "How you doin?". We hung out for the rest of the night and dated for the next year or so. However, it became a VERY emotionally and mentally unhealthy relationship so it had to end. I will never forget him, the way I felt that night, or the way I felt for that year (good or bad) for the rest of my life I assume. I was able to gain so much strength from him that I wouldn't change a minute of it for anything. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 1:43:22 PM | | Men have claimed to have instant chemistry with me -- but I've never experienced it. Does that chemistry thing ever wear off? Could someone explain what it is specifically? What does it feel like? What senses are involved? Or would that constitute the start of another thread? | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 4:43:15 PM | I agree with willnevergiveup....i heard it said to me........but look.......i'm stilll at home on a saturday night.....dang........ | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 5:15:45 PM | AMEN!!
it is like looking at a new Corvette without opening the hood!
Mary | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 10:30:21 PM | Pearson airport. We were both kinda ogling eachother. Finally he came over and we had a great chat ... you know the kind where it feels like you've known them forever - easy, comfortable, fun. Until it came time to boarding call ... him to Vancouver and me to the 'peg.
*sigh* | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 10:50:17 PM | | Yes and I was to dumb to know what to do or how to persue | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 11:18:32 AM | Yup I've had instant chemistry with lots of ppl....male and female...
I say something to them sometimes just something funny or just a plain Hello.
I've met most of my friends from instant chemistry.
As far as men I've met very few who I felt an instant chemistry with.....men that I've chatted to online usually just become my friends when we meet there is no spark or click or chemistry ,,,on my behalf anyways to wanna go beyond just platonic friends. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 2:19:43 PM | | Have made a few connections on line with men and been disappointed. Currently feeling a mental vibe with one guy on POF but he doesnt seem all that interested. Is chemistry more a physical thing... | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 3:04:34 PM | I have the same storey as "dutchmommey",met a guy when I was 18!,right guy..wronge time..let him go..regret it ever since!.One other time...had a instant chemistry..loved the guy like mad..had a fight with him...wouldn't take hime back because of "pride"..again when I think of him...I give myself A mental kick in the as*... | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 4:02:26 PM | | Of course. I talked to her. Took it from there. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 7:47:11 PM | I felt chemistry with a guy I'd been chatting with online for a couple of weeks - we had a great rapport and seemed to click. That all changed when we met - for both of us - nothing... nada...nilch...zip.
It definitely takes the physical attraction between two, for sure.
But NO, I've never felt that instant chemistry like others have described (DAMNIT). Makes me wonder if I've been settling for less than I should!  | |
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Posted: 8/14/2006 8:45:33 AM | once it happened to me.i went to the library to use the internet ( i didnt have internet then) and there was this cute guy who was using the computer nest to me.We looked at each other several times, but nothin happened.When my time was up and walking out he run after me and said "hi" and started talking to me it turned out he was french and we swapped numbers.We started seeing each other but ...he turned out to be a nasty piece after a while.I didnt regret anything tho.It was a chance we took  | |
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Posted: 8/14/2006 4:10:05 PM | | its tough to explain instant chemistry, -you know it exactly when it strikes. it happans the moment your eyes lock, -no fear of rejection -you just go for it like an addiction. your brain seems to short circuit, appetite decreases -can only think of them, only happy when you are around them, spend every waking/sleeping moment thinking about them. -i have only had a couple of mutual clicks like that in my life. the two of us would feel sick when we were apart. -(its awful -now you know why they call it "LOVESICK") -but it feels so great when your together. seems more controllable with age -usually i know in a few seconds if its going to be a good first meeting or a great one... | |
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Posted: 8/14/2006 5:27:14 PM | Yup. He walked by. We never even said a word to each other, he got my e-mail and we ended up dating for two months.
Note to other people though, make sure you REALLY get to know the person.
He's also my ex now, and is giving me so much trouble, I'm considering a restraining order. See my point? | |
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Posted: 8/14/2006 5:41:18 PM | yup, i experienced that, and him too; we married 3 years later.
seventeen years after THAT we divorced.
even though he lives in uk, we still phone weekly and email too. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2006 6:22:50 PM | Oh, I've looked at quite a few women who seem extremely attractive. Until they turn over the left ring finger and I see the ring! Would be great to find a woman who is both happy and unmarried in my area!
Had some close calls, but many are uninterested too.
Will never give up though! | |
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