| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 4:28:32 AM | | When you first meet there's no emotional investment. It's easy to walk away early. If the girl you just met won't do something sexual that you want her to do, chances are, the next girl you meet will. It's not that it's important, it's why settle for less than you want? | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 9:34:24 AM | | It matters more to some guys than others, just as some women enjoy doing it and some don't - but oral sex is rather fundamental and important to most guys, in my opinion. I wouldn't dump a woman over this IF everything else about her was ideal for me - but unless that were the case, I'm confident that I could find someone else who is a better match on all levels, including sexually. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 2:08:48 PM | This again? lol.
Here's the condensed version.
A relationship works when there's compatibility.
If you give great head, but you are a ****, then you're no good for me as a girlfriend or wife.
If you treat me extremely well, but don't fulfill my oral need in the bedroom, then you're no good for me as a girlfriend or wife.
Just as you have the right to not give head, the men in question have the right to want it. Knowing that you won't give it means they have to give that part of sex up forever, if they want to be with you. Unless someone is not sexual, most guys will not stick around (or won't stick around long once they realize you're serious). | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 7:47:22 PM |
I couldn't even breathe the few times I have given oral sex
You cant breathe when you have something in your mouth? How the hell do you eat then?
You are unwilling to do something I want but still want me to do the stuff you like? You don't demand men to go down on you but still would allow it? I would put my clothes back on if you told me that leave or kick you out if you told me that. Just plain selfish it seems. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 7:57:51 PM | This one is a real no brainer........
She doesn't, then I do not either........we both pack our bags and find others who will.....  
Just my opinion.......   | |
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dpd22
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 8:41:13 PM | | If she doesn't do oral sex, she better not expect me to give her oral sex. Otherwise the relationship is over or I'll get a second woman just for the purpose of giving me some head. LOL. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/15/2007 8:54:31 PM | Mustang065
<div class="quote"> People are the only species on this planet that perform sex for the act of pleasure. wrong,, dolphins do as well. try a little research.. back to original thread, if shecant, she cant,, plain and simple, if she wont,, probably a reason for it,cant force a lady to do something she doesnt want to, its plain wrong, if its that important to you find someone else, because this relationship is doomed, | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 6/16/2007 12:59:54 AM | Along with dolphins and humans so do Bonobo chimpanzees. They even actually have orgies. In fact they even spend most of their day having sex.
They also tend to be the least aggressive and violent of primates........ i guess because they get laid so much  | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 11/11/2007 12:17:03 AM | | Mmmm...that chimp thing sounds a little too public to me, but i did want to say that when I am really into a guy, i'm really into ALL of him so i do love to give (as long as i'm not being gagged to death) but am not crazy about receiving in the same way. Is that weird or undesirable? | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:13:54 PM | i said does she blow she said no i said i goto go!!!
unfortunatly oral sex is a part of sex! if you couldn't breath its possible that you wern't doing it correctly, in my opinion thats the best part, i dont have to do anything but lay back an enjoy i think you might find thats the view of quite a few men!!! sorry to put that to you!! | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:32:28 PM | | ..here are all the " he's not worth it " comments, people trying to score i'm a good person points! heres the truth..guys like getting head!! i've dated ladies with your attitude and can't get out the door fast enough!! rent a video..get a book..learn! you're in Vernon..not that big of a town for that to get around..lol.. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 4:52:54 PM | To the OP
Got some married friends, he has made it very clear he won't muff dive, then his step son overheard and he tried to explain it away :) she is happy to give him BJ....
Personally would not be that worried, maybe offer them to suck on a dildo to get the same idea, then muffle their nose and ask if can breathe ok :) | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 1/30/2008 8:39:57 PM | Ladies. If you don't wanna blow then DON'T blow.
Simple really... And if the man can't understand that then he's a jerk and should be dumped if he can't adapt!
I dated a girl for 5 years and not one BJ. She just wasn't into them. But no problem. I simply adjusted and it wasn't the end of the World. We still had great sex and I still ate her out! | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 12:42:24 PM | do you think "it" is gross? if you think its gross you will probably have a difficult time enjoying his expressions of love.
straight up..
any woman that is hung up about sex is going to be difficult to get into to bed. if youre difficult to get in bed that means i wont be having sex unless i pry your legs apart like 500 pound clam. and if i aint havin sex early in the relationship then i wont be having sex late in the relationship. how much fun is that??
i think youre hung up on something that happened early in your life...you can always message me if you want | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 8:24:09 AM | | it is not a hangup for women who do not do that . i dont do it. and any real man will not care becuae a real man knows whats important in a relationshiop and oral is not it. guess it all depends on what is more important to u.. sex or a beautiful loving relatiosnhip. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 8:31:52 AM |
any real man will not care becuae a real man knows whats important in a relationshiop and oral is not it.
^^^A sure way to get someone to understand/agree with your view is to belittle or insult there view point… works everytime. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 8:37:41 AM | | ^^^You very much did, your statement made it clear that you don’t view men that put a high value on oral sex as “real men” a clear put down and insult in any context. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 8:54:03 AM |
well dpd 22 ur comment should get u alot of dates off here lol.
I think he was joking. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 9:00:03 AM | | well maybe i should say that i dont wnat a man who puts oral as most important in a realtionship. it to me makes no sense. if u love someone in ur heart it wont matter if they get oral. thats not whats important. its whats in the heart of peolpe and the love they share with each other. with or without oral. it dont make it wrong for a man to want it but it does make it wrong for a man to demand it in a relationship. thats what im trying to say. there are no if's added to haveing a relationshiop. truely loving someone is unconditional | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 10:03:13 AM | That is rediculous. Selfish? Just a quick question: Is giving a man head something you would do, just to make sure you weren't "selfish?"
I personally don't mind it, but I can see how some women just would NOT want any part in it... | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 10:22:33 AM | | no i would not. if thats what they got to have they can find it elsewehre. i wnat a man who can love me for me now what i have to give to him or offer him. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 2/1/2008 12:27:25 PM | hmmmm -maybe she had a bad experience in the past -(see the post:) "he wants to cum in my face"   | |
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