| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/13/2006 5:27:53 AM |
life sucks and so should you
ruuuuuun forest ruuuuunnnn!
*sits and waits patiently for ma babe to take his verbal beatings*
p.s. is it wrong that kinda turns me on? LMFAO! | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/13/2006 5:58:14 AM | Alfie?
I suppose me not wanting my parts near your parts means that I don't love you in that way? Cool. Now that we have THAT covered ...
I agree with Alfie here. Personally, I hate feet. They make me cringe. I would not touch feet with a ten foot pole. I could never be a shoe salesman EVER!!!
Having said that, if I was in love or even lust with a woman, I would freely touch her feet, massage them, rub her toes, even in the throes of passion suckle her toes if that's what she wanted. I might use a bottle of mouthwash afterwards but during the moment? ANYTHING I CAN DO TO PLEASURE HER!!! Heck, for most women me doing anything I can do to pleasure them would mean leaving the room ....
Point is, if you truly are attracted to someone or love someone you will do anything you can to make that person happy, including touching parts you normally wouldn't touch. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/13/2006 8:22:25 AM | I completely understad where u'r coming from..I actually broke up with my bf of 4 years cuz all he said was, "When r u gonna give me head?" I told him u'r not! I mean I have my reasons why I don't. I know it sounds selffish but I always say
"I don't give so therefor I shall NOT receive, but if u want to thats ok with me!"
I don't think I'll ever NOT do it but I think that if I have been with him for a long time and it's not something he would beg from me it just might be a possiblity...you just never know!
He has to like u for u not for what he wants u to do!!! | |
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Posted: 12/13/2006 9:47:18 AM | Very interesting thread!
I have to say, that I have surprised some women,
when they discovered that getting a BJ was of
very little interest to me. It's almost like I robbed
them of much of their power, they thought they
had over virtually any man.
I am much more interested in an emotional connection
and lots of affection. Lots of kissing and touching. I
agree, with above posts, something about Oral Sex,
if that's your primary focus, is often lacking something.
And as for the other belief that once you have meat
and potatoes and desert, you will settle for no less, well
with me that's not true either. Meat and potatoes will
satisfy me just fine!
I guess, I am just some weird animal! | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/13/2006 1:03:41 PM | It's almost like I robbed
them of much of their power, they thought they
had over virtually any man.
So I know this is the "ask a guy" area, but I felt the need..... First of all, do you really think it's a power trip for females? Kinda sad if that's the case, which I don't believe to be true. There are actually some females who ENJOY giving that kind of pleasure...
I do believe Alfino said it all!! If a relationship gets to the point of intimacy then I would hope that it's a full-on smorgasbord! A healthy sexual appetite means that you not only enjoying getting off but you get excited at the thought of giving someone else that same kind of pleasure. If there's certain things (within reason of course) that you won't do, then one has to wonder if the you are really all that into the person. I know I'm a tad sensitive about this after experiencing a past relationship where this was the case.
The bedroom is NOT a place to be selfish. I suppose I'm orally fixated, in that I really can never get enough kissing or anything else involving the mouth, probably because it's a kind of intimacy that makes you feel awfully close to a person. It's definitely personal... and if you're naked with a person who you don't feel comfortable enough to lay your lips on, then maybe you should put your clothes back on! | |
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Posted: 12/13/2006 2:09:03 PM | "If you show your better half that no matter what they can do, thier body is just not attractive enough for you to 'Love' completely then it's only a matter of time before they run."
***So, alfino, what you're saying is that in order to truly show you love someone you must be willing to ingest their bodily fluids? Oh-kaaayy....  Whatever... To me 'true love' can be expressed in many other ways. 
Ninki | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/13/2006 2:10:10 PM | >>in order to truly show you love someone you must be willing to ingest their bodily fluids
Nah, feel free to spit. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/14/2006 1:15:29 AM | I'll explain this one to you Siren.
There are a few possibilities
1/ That you are stupid enough to only date the kind of jerks who dump you over something as petty as oral sex. As guys like this are extremly rare then you must be doing something totally stupid to end up with only these guys.
2/ That the oral sex is the last straw is a whole mess of other major mistakes when dating. It can be everything from flying off the handle because he forgets some totally minor aniversiary to storming out when he takes you to some place that he likes but you don't. It can be spiteful remarks among the GFs when he's aroudn. It can be any amount of abuse besides oral sex issues.
This is far more likely. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/14/2006 1:38:27 AM | | i would say if i go down on her i expect it in return and enjoy it or at least act like it! | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 5:15:11 AM | To me 'true love' can be expressed in many other ways.
You can't expect others settling for what you feel like giving, nor that a man will think "so she doesn't give me oral, but she writes these cute little notes dotting her i's with hearts".
Anyway, I think your main complaint is not about oral sex, but about how can he be so selfish as to NOT forget about what he wants and settle for whatever you feel like giving him instead of looking for somebody to give him what he wants. The selfish prick! | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 12:00:29 PM | "I think your main complaint is not about oral sex, but about how can he be so selfish as to NOT forget about what he wants and settle for whatever you feel like giving him instead of looking for somebody to give him what he wants. The selfish prick!"
^^^^^Simbadsailor, you're talking to me?? When did I ever say or imply this? I'd look for a man who truly does not care about oral sex. I'm not trying to change anyone or deprive anyone of something that's important to them. I hope I cleared this up for you.
Ninki | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 12:06:26 PM | | Ninki, it's refreshing to meet a girl who has the odds against her just like us men do. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 1:30:24 PM | rockfaninblack... you totally took my line... 37... in a row?
well many men enjoy giving and recieving so if this is out of your bag of tricks and you are limiting yourself... in your enjoyment... that is all... not all guys are like this but it has never been a deal breaker for me and at the same time it has never been an issue as most women I have known have at least enjoyed it somewhat! | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 5:49:58 PM | hey, if u dont wanna suck dyck, dont. But dont expect a lotta men to stick around. I m kinda curious as to kinda men u been dating?You mention that you "couldn't even breathe" while giving oral...I mean are these guys hung like a donkey? SO BIG that your suffcocating yourself while orally pleasing your man?men? If you've ever eaten a hot dog or a hambuger I'm pretty sure u can give adequate head. Just be honest and say that u just dont like sucking' dyck and drive any future potential male mate away.  | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 6:27:34 PM | rosehips, 'blow' is short for 'below' or so I've heard. But I agree that the general terminology used to describe oral sex ('eating her out' or 'giving head') is awful, to say the least... A huge turnoff for me. Also, when my husband still performed oral sex on me (he begged me to let him do it, so once in a while I relented, until I couldn't deal with it anymore) I used to get yeast infections a lot. I wonder why? Now, I don't ever get yeast infections anymore.
Ninki | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 6:37:25 PM | It's the same place that a man's urine comes out of?!? Uhm okay... And your point is??? I do believe most men have the ability to refrain from peeing on you while you're down there! The clitoris is the female version of the penis? Well yes, I think most adults know and this isn't news. I'm not sure what the point of that was, to be honest. Oh, and some people enjoy using toys and other things during sex whether it be to tease, penetrate or what have you?? Oh, the horror! The number of people who do get creative FAR outweight the number of people who show up in emergency rooms for being idiots.
For those women on here who say they are completely grossed out at the thought of oral sex, I'm still baffled. I would like to ask if they enjoy receiving oral... If you do, then you would be a hypocrit. If not, then you are missing out on one of life's great pleasures. Open up your minds ladies and live a little! Limiting yourself in terms of what you do with the person you love is kind of sad and a sex life that is so narrowly defined would become monotonous and BORING in my eyes. Some of you are referring to the male penis as though it's a foreign object... If it's SO repulsive, how do you justify having it inserted into your own body?!?
Everyone has their own interpretation of what sex is... What it means to be intimate... What is pleasurable... Because someone decides to be adventurous and try new things, doesn't make it trashy, less classy, or less an act of love. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/14/2006 6:41:29 PM |
so no diff than bringing up molestation ,as they are often quite related from what ive heard from adult victims.
rosehips... I don't know what kind of sex freak you are, but when you realize that women, and particularly female relatives are the largest group of molestors you might want to rethink that attitude in it's entirety...
Niki...Yeast infections? OMG...Either you had the ultimate in the house of Oral Lowgeine, or your home cookin' could use a lot of help...:roll: What was on the menu, Maggots, Brie and Dog Feaces? Dear God in Heaven Girl.....
Edit: Jenni....Golden Showers? Odd fetish to mix with oral.... Too Funny | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 6:47:56 PM | ^^^^  Well apparently some females are grossed out because the penis is also used for urination purposes and is yet another reason why they feel it is completely wrong to go near it! :( Maybe someone has received an unwelcomed golden shower which has caused such a tainted view on things... | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 6:50:29 PM | DentedKnight, nothing wrong with my cooking!  Yes, his oral hygiene left a lot to be desired... And what do you mean when you say that women are the largest group of molesters?? Last time I checked it was still the men.
Ninki | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 6:52:29 PM | | Okay, I've only read the first five or so responses but I couldn't believe my opinion differed so much!! I guess it's because I always try to put myself on the other side of the issue. My knee-jerk reaction is "he's a jerk" but in reality, there's no way I could be with someone wouldn't go down on *me* so I completely understand! It'd be a dealbreaker for me. OP what it boils down to is finding someone you're compatible with in several aspects of your life (sexuality being one of them) so if the dude ditches you for not going down on him it just means he's not the one for you anyways. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 7:08:11 PM | I find it a questionable response from the post, to imply that getting
but not giving oral is hypocrisy! What kind of retarded reasoning is this?
If it doesn't bother the one, but makes the other vomit, how is this hypocrisy?
This does make it sound like relationships are some kind of pissing contest!
And speaking of pissing, I can almost guarantee that a great many more men
have been peed on then woman, notwithstanding fetishes I mean
But, that's no issue, in my books! | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 7:14:36 PM | Jeni..I know it's kinda rude, but when I worked in the recycling plant in Brownford...A number of the guys used to be in the pickle plant and yakked about some guys urinating in the pickle vats. One of the women on the crew went all wierd in an "Eww...I'm never eating pickles again..." kinda way until the plant forman pointed out that anyone that has ever licked a **** has had far more urine in thier mouth than any number of pickle vats would produce. Most women fail to realize that whatever direction you wipe, you are kinda spreading it into an area likely to get licked...so give me a break....lol.
Niki...You've been listening to media reports and bad movies again....shame on you! Women have always been the largest group of molestors. Just like the safest person for a kid to go to is a male stranger that is NOT a relative. Exactly the Opposite of what TV shows tell you. Just one more of those things that is the difference between cop shows and reality. Good thing the stats are available on any government web site. | |
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| When she won't do oral sex
Posted: 12/14/2006 7:23:56 PM | YES PEOPLE. . . BELIEVE YOUR GOVERNMENT
WITHOUT QUESTION!
Nice point about the pickles though! Most peoples
belief systems are highly and mostly irrational!
Mine, being no exception! | |
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