| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 8:52:29 AM | I'm still working on being your first  | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 8:53:48 AM | because the rest should now remain between .......... only you and your lady
Wise words there.
All one has to do is take a look through the old threads to see how the sharing of too many intimate details of relationships - both old and new - can come back to haunt you when it doesn't work out.
Makes me feel bad for everyone involved... the orginal poster, their former partner and any new ones they've been lucky enough to find.
My take on it? Respect yourself and your partner... honour the relationship... share the joy, not the details.
There's a world of difference between being a class act... and acting like the class clown. | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 8:53:48 AM | ur gonna need coffee cans hon.................. !!!!!!  | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 8:56:57 AM | | ^^^^^I've got at least 2 | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 9:13:24 AM | I've been seperated for almost 4 years. I have yet to have a 3rd date with a guy. I'm needed my 3rd date cherry popped.
 | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 9:55:01 AM | Thank you for the words to the wise advice ,,, very well taken ,,,,,,,,,, YUP sometimes emotions over take wisdom .............. thats for sure. You people are the best ........ | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 10:00:57 AM | | I'd love to help you out coquette but we would have to jump directly to date #3 | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 10:05:54 AM | | Why is that Dano? | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 10:14:13 AM | | Cause we haven't had a date 1 or 2 yet. | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 11:30:14 AM | sometimes emotions overtake wisdom
Happens with emoticons too... | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 11:35:25 AM | | soooooo do we get an update on how date #3 went ?????? :) | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:20:18 PM | | Go back a page or two...details were given | |
|
| third date
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:45:32 PM | Ok I have to ask. When people have meetings/dates and a "poster" post them asking for advice or saying how good it was, do they do this cause you are trying to get a message across to the one you had the meeting/date with?
I mean like...your postings show up on your profile. If you meet from here, chances are they are going to see it even if they don't frequent the threads.
Just a question.
And Dano...name the time and place. | |
|
| third date
Posted: 10/2/2006 8:36:30 PM |
When people have meetings/dates and a "poster" post them asking for advice or saying how good it was, do they do this cause you are trying to get a message across to the one you had the meeting/date with?
This one's been haunting me... please forgive me for the ancient thread resurrection, but I wonder what the original poster has to say... | |
|
| third date
Posted: 10/2/2006 11:20:01 PM | If she's just kissing on the third date......... thennnnn,...... RAM .......help me here ...
How much do you drink again on the third date..? 
I'm pretty when your drunk..!!!
I'm pretty when your drunk..!!!
( opps did i say that outloud.???? ...... ) | |
|
| third date
Posted: 10/3/2006 12:55:45 AM | Ok you helped our young fellow make it to his first kiss...great !!
Now the all encompasing and almost never discussed question is:
When do you go for that first cop-ed feel ??
Do you just let your hand slip accidently between you two while kissing OR when she is sitting across from you in the restuarant do you just reach over and grab a good "feel" ?? LOL!!
Come on now !! Its the 4 th date by now!! LOL!! | |
|
| third date
Posted: 10/3/2006 3:36:43 AM | | Nothing wrong with bringing up ancient threads ,,,, sometimes we post things totaly out of emoition and being excited that someone likes us ............... but I will never tell about the fouth date............. lol lol lol | |
|
| third date
Posted: 10/3/2006 4:37:02 AM | Nothing wrong with bringing up ancient threads
Actually, there isn't, if there is a reason for doing so, as in this case.
However, randomly bringing up old threads for no apparent reason pushes current threads off the first page and makes them more likely to die. There is a forum rule that says "bumping" threads is not allowed.
Now, this thread was resurrected for a reason. Two ladies have both asked a question, and it was NOT what happened on the fourth date (if it actually happened). What they asked was what was the motivation for posting questions about a date with a POF person in a POF forum? | |
|
| third date
Posted: 10/3/2006 9:41:22 AM | <<<< takes a stab in the dark ( being a non professional pof'er ) ......
Motivation....behind posting about ( wether fellow pof mem or not ) 3rd date..?
How about being "excited" as noted...& perhaps inexperenced / new to dateing's .... ......( rituals, repoir, etiquette [- pick one] ) and seeking advice from the sea...??? So as not to cross any lines... temper ambitions ..???
Perhaps there may be the alterior motive in sending a "back channell' footnote to the date (s) that due to nervousness weren't properly expressed at the time...???
Please relax all long timers.... while some may use these forums for certain reasons... others ( as I feel in this case ) are just ... well all  about whats happening to them ... and feel like they are going to explode... Just have to tell someone about the recent developments in thier life....
I invited a couple of close buddies over and "spilled the beans" cuase i too "needed " to share my excitement. Some ppl don't have that luxury ( of friends like that )...
But to be honest.... okay I admit I also used the forums to send "back channel" signals to a certain someone.. (who does happen to be a pofer)... to "express" things unexpressed at the time ... due to "shyness / nervousness" ...
Hey good luck on the fourth date... okay no info..... video then ..?? .... | |
|
| third date
Posted: 5/24/2008 9:41:50 AM | confusion sets in so i need someone to analyze this for me.
hes an amazing guy with a great sense of humour and all around personality.. he's amazing with his friends and they were fun to be with as well.
anyways first time i met him was a month ago, went to the bar to loosen up and that was it.
2nd time, went out to watch a movie and that was it (last minute planning) , we both took our own car and went our separate way afterwards. haha
3rd time, went out to eat, then back to the bar with him and his friends.
when i am with him hes very attentive and somewhat affectionate (the aww moments)
when he dropped me off we kissed, which was very sweet and gentle. I like it... i was so tipsy and i told him it was "his loss "=( .. (stupid things i do when i have alky in my system)
i really want to see more of him. but i want him to iniate it....
here's the question.... friends told me that if he doesnt call hes not interested.
sigh... | |
|
| third date
Posted: 5/24/2008 9:52:49 AM |
friends told me that if he doesnt call hes not interested.
Pretty much covers it! | |
|
| third date
Posted: 5/24/2008 10:06:26 AM |
i told him it was "his loss "
Well I don't think you won brownie points for that one! | |
|
Home
login 
