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 tinkerbell31519

Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 151
POF PLAYERS/STALKERS How do you cope with them?
Posted: 8/28/2008 4:35:43 PM
I had a few , threaten them with a protective order/ stalking order
 Dr.Manhattan

Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 152
POF PLAYERS/STALKERS How do you cope with them?
Posted: 8/28/2008 5:28:46 PM
I called the local authorities after taking it up with my service provider they directed me to what exactly one can actually do as far as harassment goes.

That was their first warning they seemed to clam their pie hole rather quickly and leave me alone.

some may fall under whats called a "Cease and desist order" ruled by a judge to have this person's IP address forced by the provider.

that's only one way , there are other routes to take also.
 desert wildflower

Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 153
POF PLAYERS/STALKERS How do you cope with them?
Posted: 8/28/2008 6:50:07 PM
I had one. I reported him but they said that they couldn`t do much about what he had done, but it was scary. I just check and he closed his account soon after I had the trouble with him. So possibly he was doing it with other women too, and maybe one of them got him in trouble. So he is either gone or changed his profile but it has been quiet. For myself, I moved to Alaska, grew 1 1/2 ft, became a bald BBW woman. I have had a lot of peace and tranquility ever since.
 hotMike16

Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 154
POF PLAYERS/STALKERS How do you cope with them?
Posted: 8/28/2008 6:52:50 PM
First thing I would say is dont make a OP about them and give them the attention they want.
 Claire 1

Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 155
POF PLAYERS/STALKERS How do you cope with them?
Posted: 8/28/2008 7:34:37 PM
The only way to win a mind game is to not play it.
 motownmaniax

Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 156
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POF PLAYERS/STALKERS How do you cope with them?
Posted: 3/16/2009 5:38:48 AM
Players/stalkers seems to be more of a male vs female problem. Why? Because society says men are supposed to pursue women, and too many men evidently take it way too seriously and literally… lol.

But they real freaks are fairly easy to spot just because they're so dysfunctional. It's the slick charmers and ego-stokers that "seem" to have everything together ya have to watch out for because there aren't too many obvious signals or behavioral red flags. The biggest clue may simply be their eagerness to shower you with attention and pump up the flattery. My simple rule is never get carried away with your own hype--always stay grounded. The minute you start actually believing how "wonderful" and "great" someone says you are, you're done, and an easy mark.
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