| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/25/2009 11:11:45 AM | Not true! That's insecurity talking. I met a guy online, and when I sent him an e-mail(by accident by the way) I had several male names on the list,guess what? he blew a fuse! He got all crazy and jeoulous on me! What's up with that. I wouldn't have reacted like that if that happened to me. That's just a sign of the times, I too have more male friends than female friends, I have no problem with that, but some men do...I say it;s them being insecure! | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/26/2009 8:37:19 AM | call it what you may, but like i say i would not get upset if i just met a woman online and she had guy's in her friend's list. i'm talking about a relationship" i would not want her with a bunch of guy friend's i don't trust them you know what i'm saying i would just want that kind of respect i would respect the woman in person in a relationship. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/27/2009 2:43:18 PM | Its ok when a female has alot of friends that are guys..
its not ok when alot of friends that are guys she's slept with
Women break the meaning of "friend" since we now have "Friends with benefit" relationships.. this is the grey line and probally reason why us... Men may feel insecure... im not trying to be with a "ho" who's been around the block a few 100 times and now claims all her guy friends are just friends.. its too hard to believe..
grown ladies will understand this standpoint.. the youngsters will argue about it..
choice is who you decide to give your heart to and where she gives it back to you or her friend..lol.. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/27/2009 3:37:57 PM | women dont get along as easily with the opposite sex if they have never met...as men do..we will tell u we dont like u the minute u walk in the door...woman (for the most part men and women) need some time 2 figure out what someone might b all about...its fact about men and women...like Nature Vs. Nuture...(not 2 say there arent exceptions, cause there are) but for the most part its fact...
nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex...I know I speak 4 many men when they say they know if a person is more than just friends...women can tell as well..
might not want 2 believe it...I know that if a girl I date talks to more guys in the day than 2 me...there is definately a problem...why is it ok for girls 2 have sooo many guy friends...and when its the guy who has many friends that happen to b girls...why is it such a big deal...because it is....there r underlying reasons why the woman has so many male friends and vice versa...some people just cant get along with the same sex...to much competition or whatever u want 2 call it...
it also depends on if they are just friends she keeps in touch with or friends she has 2 spend time with...Q is does she eerv ask u to join in with her friend adventures??? if not...shes got 2 go....you know!!!
I prefer a girl who has more girl friends than guy friends...because we all know where those relationships end up??? | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/27/2009 10:02:42 PM | I realy wish I could have got in on this from the get go, but I can't sift through all this but I do have a few comments.
This is hard core truth for the ladies. If you are attractive you will have many guy friends and why, because each and every one of them are waiting on deck for the guy you are dating to F#@ up, and when he does he is hoping that you call him for the support and that you will finally see what a great guy he is, and live happliy ever after.
You can ask each and everyone of them, and they will tell you no way we are BFF. Bull Sh@#.)
How many man friends do unattractive woamn have, one or two.
I dare you to say I am a liar. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/28/2009 2:29:52 PM | | to keep it brief and simple: avoid dating women with mostly male friends. it almost always ends badly. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/29/2009 6:17:04 AM | | I'm surprised that someone hasn't started "yelling" insecurity all over the place - you know, the same old stuff. All it takes is a pair of eyes, ears and a brain to know what it's like out there. As I've stated before - a woman with male "friends" left to right is one who cannot be trusted for a long-term relationship. Among those so-called friends you'll find not only ex boyfriends but also current and ex f_uck buddies. There's no way in a billion years that I'd ever buy into that garbage. I don't want to lower myself to that level. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 5/29/2009 6:21:08 AM | "women dont get along as easily with the opposite sex if they have never met...as men do..we will tell u we dont like u the minute u walk in the door...woman (for the most part men and women) need some time 2 figure out what someone might b all about...its fact about men and women...like Nature Vs. Nuture...(not 2 say there arent exceptions, cause there are) but for the most part its fact...
nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex...I know I speak 4 many men when they say they know if a person is more than just friends...women can tell as well..
might not want 2 believe it...I know that if a girl I date talks to more guys in the day than 2 me...there is definately a problem...why is it ok for girls 2 have sooo many guy friends...and when its the guy who has many friends that happen to b girls...why is it such a big deal...because it is....there r underlying reasons why the woman has so many male friends and vice versa...some people just cant get along with the same sex...to much competition or whatever u want 2 call it...
it also depends on if they are just friends she keeps in touch with or friends she has 2 spend time with...Q is does she eerv ask u to join in with her friend adventures??? if not...shes got 2 go....you know!!!"
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It would be a heck of a lot easier to read and grammatically correct if you'd replace the numbers with words. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:48:27 PM | What goes through my mind is... "Wow, she has a lot of friends".
You have no relationship if you have no trust. So trust until given a reason not to. Some women just get along better with men. I get along better with women, so I can certainly relate.... doesn't mean I'm sleeping with any of them. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:16:13 AM | i am so sorry u dont like my typing...dont read the posts...4 they r so hard to understand...dont u text? or r u one of those guys? Gramatically correct is not the idea on these post...if you type often on many forums..u find quciker ways 2 get er done...
if u dont like it...then check off...lol...some people...kill me...lol...hahahahahaha   | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 6/13/2009 10:41:50 AM | Not sure if im replying the right way as its the first time i have done it!!
I met a bloke online who has friends that are female that he texts, emails n chats to which is ok to a point... There is always a line that can be crossed!!
When its done behind your back, or it gets more personal ie/ private jokes , when you arent around they comment on each others status's constantly, then when you are around you see nothing of them until they speak about something that you can see no connection with, therefore they are speaking in private and when you both have a row and its the same person everytime that pops up straight away with "check your inbox" or you know where i am... sorry that hacks me off, would they like it if the shoe was on the other foot?
If im in a relationship i prefer everything to be upfront, honest and hide nothing, infact if i done those things i have mentioned id feel bad myself!!
Also as a woman you can tell when another woman is flirting etc | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 6/14/2009 3:38:32 PM | "This is hard core truth for the ladies. If you are attractive you will have many guy friends and why, because each and every one of them are waiting on deck for the guy you are dating to F#@ up, and when he does he is hoping that you call him for the support and that you will finally see what a great guy he is, and live happliy ever after."
You can't paint everyone with same brush, but you can bet at least some of her/your friends are hoping for EXACTLY this type of scenario. To deny this is denying reality. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 6/14/2009 3:51:17 PM | I dated someone who didn't like females and had a few male friends. I don't mind, my belief is that most men teach women things about business or life that women can benefit from in their younger years.
I don't put up with women who keep their exes around though. | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 6/14/2009 8:13:54 PM | Women with LOTS of male friends and very few if any female friends? I avoid. Bad news. If she is attractive you can bet your salary that at the very least ONE of those friends would do anything to get her in bed. You can also bet that he (or they) are working every angle they can, too. Men are dogs, we all know it...
However, with that said, I see nothing wrong with a woman having a couple of a few male friends, hell I have female friends that I am completely on the level with - that is - no romantic interest on either side. We just get along great.
You have to look at the circumstances of the friendship. Is this guy someone she occassionally runs into while out and about? Or is he someone she likes to text, IM or chat with on the phone a lot?
I think you have to look at the situation closely... is it one where she has a couple of guy friends and mostly female friends? If so, there probably isn't much reason to be concerned. However, if it's one of those situations where she, again as I stated above, has nothing but guy friends - I'd polite tell her than I am looking for something else and move... that's in no way a good sign.
I've learned the hard way to avoid dating women who make it a point to announce to you that they have lots and lots of guy friends... who needs that headache? | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 6:07:27 AM | | I agree. All the women I've known who "didn't really get along with other women" were insecure (admittingly). I feel they become dependent on receiving attention from a multitude of men. And women are no fools. If they spend considerable time with a guy they know if he likes them | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 7/12/2009 8:43:09 AM |
I like making one big happy family
I like making one big happy family .. with ex lovers and your SO? that means you care more for your ex's than your current SO
ridiculous.. only a bi guy would like to be with you | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:37:14 PM | | no women with a lot of male friends i think...okay which ones has she screwed and which ones still want to get in her pants. if they are all straight men then that's what they want. duh! | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 10/2/2009 5:57:10 PM | | I would be more worried about keeping her. Her guy friends are all probably tyring to get with her or are her ex-bf. Just let her know how you feel. Besides, if it doesn't work out why do you have to "remain" friends, just move on. | |
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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:16:08 PM | | To me- Nooooooooo. lol. My gf has make freinds and we are honest with each other, she has been intimate with most of them. I have female friends ( some going back to HS) and I am the same. We use to txt each other a lot to see how long it took to get a text back, if it was forever, we both started pointing fingers. We are cool now, but- in the beginning its hard to accept sometimes. We are sooo in to each other now that I always respond to a txt from her immediately and we have a call anytime policy. It justs builds trust/ | |
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 10/2/2009 7:13:58 PM | You are correct!!!
But, with you being correct...are you stating that 'men' would poke anything wet , warm an available with that statement?  ....ohhh laughing myself to tearsss here!!!!
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| women with a lot of male friends
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:55:05 PM |
are you stating that 'men' would poke anything wet , warm an available with that statement
Uh...yes. A man cant be friends with a women he finds attractive cause he will sleep with her in a New York minute...dont fool yourselfs... | |
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